How are you all doing, good or bad?
▲ 289 r/Yanderes

How are you all doing, good or bad?

I'm usually the kind of person who wants to help, but it's to avoid facing the truth. I'd really like to help people, so here's my question: who wants my help? If you're interested, I can...I'm here to listen and maybe give you advice if you want friends. I think I do too, really, but above all I want someone to take care of me. I'm rather neglectful of myself.But I take care of the person who will take care of me; I dream of it so much, but now I just want to help every yandere.

u/Petirer — 2 days ago
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What does it mean to be a yandere?

If a heterosexual man falls in love with a lesbian, do we agree to abandon this impossible love?

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u/Petirer — 5 days ago

Hey

I have a question: what's the point of the rating system on this Reddit sub? Even though I'm 16, I don't understand the point of showing your face and wanting comments that tell you you're ugly.Or, Beau, but tell me, what's your favorite meal after a day of classes?

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u/Petirer — 7 days ago
▲ 112 r/Yanderes

Hey, um, I'd like to chat.

I'd like to know one thing: we agree on one thing, we never hurt our loved one, but why do we try to isolate them completely? It makes them suffer, so is it a good idea?For me, friends aren't a problem; zero physical contact and no closeness, that's all. And for you, I'm not judging, I want to understand.

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u/Petirer — 7 days ago

Toxic relationship?

Okay, I have a question: why are people in toxic relationships unable to leave their partner, and also why do I feel like I'm the only minor here? So, here's a poll. So I just wanted to say one thing: never abandon your friends for a romantic relationship because it's not good for you. If it ends, you'll be alone and with friends who are hurt.

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u/Petirer — 29 days ago

Well, uh, I didn't want to but I have to T_T

I recently had a relationship that lasted only a day, which makes me sad, but I think this person just made up a story to avoid hurting me. I barely had a taste of happiness before it was snatched away.I don't think I deserve anything, and then I also lost a friend I cared about a lot, but no, she had to delete her account. Okay, here goes, I have serious social problems.I'm socially anxious and extremely emotionally dependent. I'm also a minor, but anyway, I just want to say that the desire to die is almost becoming a solution.

Okay, and this is also important: I'm giving up on the idea of finding love. It's not possible for me; I've just gone through so much hardship to even get one day.

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u/Petirer — 1 month ago

Looking for someone?

Probably most Yanderes on this Reddit sub aren't in relationships, but anyway, I'm not here to ask for a girlfriend, I just wanted to say something: I hate normal people, honestly.They have a great life and they complain, but the worst are the people who are unfaithful or polygamous. I hate them. You know those three-way relationships? They make me sick. It's not a relationship.It's a disgusting fantasy, and that's also why long-distance relationships are so horrible—you can't be close to your person, she could cheat on you and you wouldn't even know it.

u/Petirer — 1 month ago
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I'm wondering about something

It's very easy to fantasize about a romantic relationship, but often we tend to be too clingy in real life. Sure, some are shy, but in the end, what's the point of a relationship?

Most of the time I ask myself questions, I tend to observe the people around me.

I'm not looking for someone because I've given up on the idea of being loved, but that doesn't stop me I dream of a romantic relationship, but will that person be able to motivate me to make an effort?

I think a relationship isn't a band-aid, it's just a pain reliever.You need to turn to specialists who can help you. Your pain relief, so your love will help you cope every day, but it can't cure everything.

P.S. This image was downloaded from Pinterest; I don't remember the artist's name.

u/Petirer — 1 month ago

What do you like most in a relationship?

I found this image on Pinterest and I don't know the artist; it could be AI.

u/Petirer — 1 month ago

Have you ever experienced this? 🤔

I don't know why, but I've noticed that yanderes are often hypersexualized, portrayed as people who live only for the one they love and who are always saying yes when they're not That's wrong. We have lives that are just as broken for some as successful for others, yandere, but we remain human. We are just people who feel too intensely. We are people. We just need tenderness or trust, not just someone who wants to satisfy their ego by using us as a trophy before discarding us. Has this ever happened to you? 🥲

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u/Petirer — 2 months ago

16 years old, is that okay? 😅

I noticed that I was possessive and, above all, I wanted to keep the person solely for myself, basic stuff, right? But let's say I'm a minor and, well, I'm a bit lonely in my head. I often imagine someone choosing me and no one else, but that's never going to happen. I hate popular people, and it's just that I tend to think I'm worthless. I'd like to feel better about myself, but that might be impossible. Anyway, back to the subject: my age...I was hoping to find someone my own age, but I'm quite distrustful and tend not to trust easily. But let's just say I'd really like someone my own age, or close to it.I'm not asking for DMs, but do you think I deserve this?

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u/Petirer — 2 months ago

Why doesn't anyone want me?

I already posted this with a little question about why I'm like this, and now I'm wondering why I can't find someone who can love me the way I am and talk to me for hours.No, nobody wants to spend time with me. I'm not looking for perfection, I just want to be able to exist in someone's life, not just be an extra who spends their time being...Alone

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u/Petirer — 2 months ago

Quick question

I'm 16, so I'm not quite an adult yet, but I was wondering if I'm a little weird. I'm nice, or at least I think I am, but let's just say I'd like to be someone's first choice.

I'm not asking for DMs, okay? I just need to confide in someone. Actually, I don't really know who I am. I like being alone with the person I love..

I hate it when she goes out with her friends, but I don't say anything because I'm afraid of hurting her feelings. I'm affectionate, but I'm not used to hugs. I hope you can help me; I don't understand anything about myself 😿

I'd also like to add that I'd like someone to spend all day with me. I'm bi, but I'm more like an inseparable lover; I fall for someone forever.

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u/Petirer — 2 months ago

Je suis un garçon-chat et ce que j'aime dans une relation, ce sont les câlins et les moments de calme 😺je sais pas d'où vient l'image désolé 😿

u/Petirer — 2 months ago
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Je suis un garçon de 16 ans et je cherche activement à me faire des amis. Peu importe votre genre ou votre orientation sexuelle, mais voici quelques-unes de mes passions : j’aime les animés et les jeux vidéo, et j’apprécie les personnes authentiques. J’ai aussi tendance à gâter mes amis, mais c’est tout simplement ma nature 🥰 Si je pose cette question, c’est parce que je me sens seul. I'm sorry to have to tell you this, but I'm looking for people in my age range. If you're over 18, it might be a bit strange 😅

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u/Petirer — 2 months ago