Wife still in love with her ex boyfriend
My wife admits that she still love her ex boyfriend. She things he is nice person and if his mother didn’t push him he would have married her.
Background
After 25 yrs of marriage she actually called him and they talked for 3 months till I found out about this. I left house and asked for divorce. She called me back and told me that was a mistake. She message me that she still loves me, and asked me to come back. And I did, not because she asked me but for my kids - My daughter is 15 and son is 20.
She meet her boyfriend in college and her boyfriend left her because he was not ready blamed his mother. My wife after few years decided to marry me while she was and will always loves this idot. She don’t see any flaw in this guy.
So today in long drive she tells me that she loves me. But see will always has feelings for ex boyfriend even after 25 years. Not sure at this point what to do. I hate this. I just want to leave her. She is nice to me. She loves our kids. She helps me out every time. But I feel
Like she doesn’t love me and I feel betrayed. Divorce sounds logical but I am too afraid to find someone again.