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How many of you had romance during your time studying abroad and if so are you still not over it?

So, I studied in Spain for the fall semester. I met two guys in my city. I ment the first one off hinge he was French, I wasn’t really into him. But I still went on two more dates with him. He basically ghosted me because I didn’t sleep with him. Crashed out for a little and then two weeks later I met a guy at the club. We hooked up that night, the next day he asked me out on a date and everything went so well. We hooked up again. But as he was dropping me off my apartment he told me that he was going to be leaving the next day to a different city(he was in the country for work). Which caught me off guard because I didn’t expect for him to leave so soon. Anyways I was pretty heart broken after that. He would occasionally text me saying how he missed me and all. It’s been 6 months since that happened and I’m still not over it. Honestly the whole experience felt like a rom com movie… Has anyone experienced being heartbroken while abroad?

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u/PineappleAntique9329 — 3 days ago

What advice would you give to someone who wants to open a business in retail

Hello,
So recently there have been lots of new retail development in my area. I’m 24 years old and want to open a juice bar business. The spot I want to operate in is an ideal location for my business. What advice would you give such as leasing, talking to brokers, legal work, contracts, permits, and contractors for someone like me.

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u/PineappleAntique9329 — 12 days ago

So last year I(f23) studied abroad in Europe. I had lost my virginity to someone (m28) who I just had met that day. We first met at the club. I never told him that I was a virgin. We had sex and when he left in the morning, he texted me saying he wanted to take me out on a dinner date. So I agreed and saw him again. Had an amazing time and then went back with him and had sex again. The morning after he walked me back to my apartment and told me that he was going to leave the next day to a different city. I had to act nonchalant about it even though I was like wtf in my head, like I knew he was going to be in the city for a short time but I didn’t think he was literally going to leave so soon. Reason why I had sex with him in the first place was because I just wanted to do it with someone who I would never see again and he was the perfect candidate. Now I regret it. Not only because I feel somewhat dirty about what I did but because I actually miss him. I felt like we really connected well and I was so comfortable around him for the short time that I knew him. I know it’s not healthy for me to be reminiscing over him everyday for the last 4 months. I think another thing that is driving me crazy is the fact how I’m literally never going to see him again since he’s from a different country. I know that he’s visited my country before but I just know that he wouldn’t come just to see me… which hurts. And it doesn’t help the fact how he text me saying he missed me or he would love to meet me again. I just want him out of my conscious already so I could live my life without thinking about him 24/7 and stalk his socials. I’m also scared that this might affect my future relationships. Has anyone went through something similar and if so what did you?

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u/PineappleAntique9329 — 23 days ago