u/Plastic_Purpose7689

I’m a relatively new driver, I’ve never worked a delivery job before so I thought it’d get some clarification here about my question.
I work 4 10 hours shifts a week and sometimes I close, sometimes I work till midnight. If an order comes in before midnight ex. 11:55pm but it isn’t ready until after midnight ex. 12:03am would I have to take it if it’s my turn?
For some reason I find when I work till midnight I’m expected to take an order if it comes in before I leave and it’s my turn which I’m totally fine with, but whenever it’s my turn to close whoever is with me until midnight doesn’t have to take the order when its their turn because “it’s midnight it’s time for them to leave”. I’m just so confused if it’s my turn and the orders ready after midnight do I take it or no?
I’m just asking since me having to take an order that comes in after closing sets me back 20 minutes at least and honestly I find it a little unfair but I’d just really love some clarification. I’m curious how it works at your store.

Today was my moms birthday, for the special occasion me and my cousin had dinner with her to wish her happy birthday. I arrived before they did and sat in my car waiting for them so we could walk in together. it’s important to note before this dinner me and my mom had been in a fight where we hadn’t spoken for a couple of weeks and I was ready to extend an olive branch and have a nice dinner since I didn’t want to ruin her birthday. They walk in I come in after them and my cousins gives me a hug since we haven’t seen each other in a while. Then she says “Are you on your period?” I thought it was really weird like maybe I looked particularly bad or upset or something. I said “no” because I’m not and she said “ok just seeing if you were gonna be in a bad mood or something for dinner”. I was really off put by this it was honestly kind of hurtful and I thought rude? I’m not a very outgoing person and normally when her an my mom are together I let them talk to each other more than to me since they are closer in age and seem to have more to talk about but I’m never in a bad mood just sort of quiet unless I’m asked a question or I have a question.
I had a bad taste I’m my mouth before dinner started and I didn’t really talk for a lot of it, luckily it was short and I only had short answers for most of it. By the end I was excited to go buy a cake with my mom away from said cousin after saying goodbye. Once me and my mom got to her house I later received a text from my cousin saying something along the lines of “I noticed you were upset during dinner I’m not sure if it’s at me or you’re just going through something but I’m here if you need me”. At this point I’m really confused, I don’t know why she thought she could insulate I’m horrible to be around especially when on my period before dinner started and expect me to be in a good mood around her then decide that what I really needed was a wellness check after the situation has already come and gone but I honestly don’t know how to handle this.
After received the text I asked my mom if they had discussed me before the dinner since like I said they are a lot closer with each other than I am with my cousin, I thought maybe she had been venting about our fight which would have made this situation make a lot more sense. My mom was also confused and said she had not mentioned me at all before dinner except for some casual conversation about my school or work. I told her about her comment and the text I received and she was also confused by this and said as I was looking away at dinner on my phone or other environmental distractions my cousin was making faces at my mom like I was in a bad mood which confused my mom since like I said I’m usually quiet at dinner anyways. We’re both really at a loss maybe my mom was lying and she did vent about me but I don’t think it really matters since the comment seemed kind of hurtful regardless.
I don’t know what say to her, I feel like maybe if she had offered an apology I would be more receptive to respond but I really just don’t want to. Am I in the wrong? should I just put my feelings aside and explain that she hurt my feelings and brush it off? Or is this situation as weird as I think?