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I’m curious about this and wanted perspectives from both men and women, especially people who are married, engaged, or seriously considering marriage.

Did you discuss the number of kids you wanted before marriage or during the talking stage? Is that considered a normal/reasonable thing to bring up with a potential partner?

Also, do most men generally prefer big families if finances aren’t an issue, or are smaller families becoming more common now?

As a woman, if she strongly prefers only 1–2 kids, is that usually seen as a red flag or taken negatively during marriage talks? As if she isnt family oriented?

Just wondering how people in Pakistan usually approach this topic and what kind of reactions are generally expected. And what is general preference for men and women, when it comes to number of kids and gap between kids. As in are people generally mindful of healthy gap between kids and understand and prioritize woman health?

I’m curious about this and wanted perspectives from both men and women, especially people who are married, engaged, or seriously considering marriage.

Did you discuss the number of kids you wanted before marriage or during the talking stage? Is that considered a normal/reasonable thing to bring up with a potential partner?

Also, do most men generally prefer big families if finances aren’t an issue, or are smaller families becoming more common now?

As a woman, if she strongly prefers only 1–2 kids, is that usually seen as a red flag or taken negatively during marriage talks?

Just wondering how people in Pakistan usually approach this topic and what kind of reactions are generally expected. And what is general preference for men and women, when it comes to number of kids and gap between kids.

I’m curious about this and wanted perspectives from both men and women, especially people who are married, engaged, or seriously considering marriage.

Did you discuss the number of kids you wanted before marriage or during the talking stage? Is that considered a normal/reasonable thing to bring up with a potential partner?

Also, do most men generally prefer big families if finances aren’t an issue, or are smaller families becoming more common now?

As a woman, if she strongly prefers only 1–2 kids, is that usually seen as a red flag or taken negatively during marriage talks?

Just wondering how people in Pakistan usually approach this topic and what kind of reactions are generally expected. And what is general preference for men and women, when it comes to number of kids and gap between kids.

And just like that I lost you forever my soul companion, you were not just a cat you were my best friend, you were everything. Mum misses you 💔

Not material or expensive stuff.

Mine is my 5 year old snake plant

Things keep slipping from my hands I dont know whats wrong with my hands, be it phone, laptop, bags, bottle, keys my hands cant hold like hold 🥲

Most of my money goes into replacing screens as I keep breaking them, just today my phone slipped 6 times and day isnt over yet, my father finally said 'Girl I dont understand why you keep throwing your phone all the time' but I dont at all khud he hojata 😭

Rant over!

Edit: In terms of being clumsy 😭 I meant is this only me or others are clumsy too 😪I dont have any neurodegenerative disease guys stop with dms at this rate I might get prescriptions for epilepsy 🥹