u/Pocket-Inspector

Doing maybe two OCs? Read desc

Doing maybe two OCs? Read desc

I’m bedridden and not feeling too well,so I’m doing a couple OCs to try and pass the time.

Give me an OC and one small fun fact about them! A couple rules:

- SFW only!
- You are absolutely welcome to use my work as a reference for other artists, as long as my credit remains on it
- My watermark will be on there, please don’t remove it
- Please don’t resell my work that I am doing for free

u/Pocket-Inspector — 13 hours ago

I don’t trust these online quizzes, I need real human eyes

NMIP

I think I’m light spring or cool summer? But I might also have been staring at these photos way too long. My face will usually be a little more tan in the summer, definitely warmer toned.

u/Pocket-Inspector — 1 day ago

How do I (31F) navigate having differing love languages from my husband (32M)?

Basically what the question says lol. I, 31F, am big on gifts as a love language. I love receiving them and knowing someone thought about me when they picked up even the smallest things, and I absolutely love giving gifts back. I did this for my husband, 32M, for a while, like buying him clothes I thought he’d like when I went out shopping, picking up treats or flowers when I feel like he needs cheering up, cooking meals he likes, etc. He’s the quiet type who has a difficult time communicating feelings and emotions and while I know he appreciates these things, I don’t know that it has the effect that it might have on me. When I talk about love languages as a concept, he sort of just says “I don’t know” or that he doesn’t need anything, but everyone needs something. Even if it’s just spending time together.

I think he also doesn’t fully understand when I say gifts are my love language. It usually comes off like I’m asking him to spoil me in luxuries and ends up making me feel sad and high maintenance, though I really don’t need anything crazy. Maybe he saw a treat at the store he thought I’d like? Or he remembered a shirt or something I mentioned wanting and decided to surprise me with it. Even explaining it through text right now makes me feel awful, but it’s just how I’ve always shown love and how I grew up seeing it between my parents.

We’ve been together about 4 years and married for 1, so it’s not like we have years and years of life experience. We’re still figuring things out. I just want to smooth out the experience a bit.

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u/Pocket-Inspector — 6 days ago