I just found out on Friday that I am unexpectedly pregnant with my 4th. I have a 6 month old, and a 4 and 5 year old. My heart wants this baby but logically I don’t know if my family can handle it financially. I am so stressed.
I have a long time close friend (10+ years). She recently made a new friend and no longer reaches out, asks how I am doing, tries ti make any plans, and takes a long time to respond to me. I told her that I was feeling brushed off and she told me she is just too busy but that she’s “always there”. She sees this new friend multiple times a week but has consistently canceled on me more often than not. How do I let go and stop caring that I have clearly been replaced? I keep trying to make plans with her but atp it seems like I am begging for friendship. Advice? I am bordeline driving myself insane.
Fuck. That’s it. That’s the post.