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ABYG na pinaloyalty test ko yung kausap ko na for 4 months? Im starting to get attached na sa kausap ko and like him? Pero part of me parang nagdududa? Pag nag dadate kami, hawak niya naman phone niya. Pero pag di kami magkasama, ang tagal niya mag reply?

So pinaloyalty test ko siya, sabi niya sakin puntahan niya friend niya kasi broken. Pero sabi niya sa girl na nag loyalty test “nasa party ako”. So ayun he lied and he kinda flirt her. So after yun sinabihan ko si girl na tell him na “i stalked you sa tagged photos, di pala ako physically attracted sayo”

abyg??? Huhuhuhuhuhu i was hurt. Pero now stalking him na he deleted all his tagged photos kinda hurt me.

From swu. If u r planning to enroll in swu, dont. most of the professor are bullies. If they dont like you, for sure babagsak ka. If you are transferee from cmu, sure graduate ka na🤪

I met him on a dating app. At that time, I honestly wasn’t looking for love. I was just bored while waiting for my thesis defense to be scheduled. I simply wanted someone to talk to — a stranger who wouldn’t judge me and someone who could just listen.

A few days later, my thesis got scheduled, so we didn’t talk as much anymore. Still, he told me he wanted to meet after my defense, just casually, maybe as friends.

Two days before my thesis defense, I was supposed to meet my thesis adviser at Starbucks IT Park. When I got there, surprisingly, he was there too. We had no communication at all beforehand, so I got so shocked and panicked that I literally ran away. 😭

After my thesis defense, we met again at Starbucks, this time at Paseo Arcenas. We talked for hours, and I genuinely enjoyed being with him. During the first month of talking, I honestly didn’t think we clicked that much, but I still enjoyed our conversations. I didn’t end things because my friends kept telling me that maybe it was too early to decide, and maybe they were right.

By the second month, I think I started falling for him. How could I not? He was kind, calm, and mature. Even if he’s more than two years younger than me, the way he carried himself felt reassuring.

At some point, I started thinking maybe he could really be the one for me. But as time passed, I noticed that he rarely initiated dates. Sometimes he would say gas was expensive, which I understood. Still, I couldn’t help but feel like I was always the one trying to make time for us while he acted like it was nothing serious.

Whenever I tried to pull away, though, he would always pull me back in. That’s why I thought maybe he liked me too.

One day, I decided to end things. Not because I didn’t care about him — because I really did. I genuinely liked him. But I also had to think about myself. I was starting to feel emotionally drained.

After ending things, I did something stupid. Three days later, I messaged him saying I would return his toy and the things I promised him. He didn’t reply. The next day, I messaged him again and finally told him what I truly felt. He replied, “I’m really busy, can I reply within the day?” But he never did.

Now, I’m trying to move on.

Sometimes I still wonder — if you really cared about me, why did you let things end that easily? And if I truly meant something to you, why was silence the only thing you left me with?

What should i do?

I met him on a dating app. At that time, I honestly wasn’t looking for love. I was just bored while waiting for my thesis defense to be scheduled. I simply wanted someone to talk to — a stranger who wouldn’t judge me and someone who could just listen.

A few days later, my thesis got scheduled, so we didn’t talk as much anymore. Still, he told me he wanted to meet after my defense, just casually, maybe as friends.

Two days before my thesis defense, I was supposed to meet my thesis adviser at Starbucks IT Park. When I got there, surprisingly, he was there too. We had no communication at all beforehand, so I got so shocked and panicked that I literally ran away. 😭

After my thesis defense, we met again at Starbucks, this time at Paseo Arcenas. We talked for hours, and I genuinely enjoyed being with him. During the first month of talking, I honestly didn’t think we clicked that much, but I still enjoyed our conversations. I didn’t end things because my friends kept telling me that maybe it was too early to decide, and maybe they were right.

By the second month, I think I started falling for him. How could I not? He was kind, calm, and mature. Even if he’s more than two years younger than me, the way he carried himself felt reassuring.

At some point, I started thinking maybe he could really be the one for me. But as time passed, I noticed that he rarely initiated dates. Sometimes he would say gas was expensive, which I understood. Still, I couldn’t help but feel like I was always the one trying to make time for us while he acted like it was nothing serious.

Whenever I tried to pull away, though, he would always pull me back in. That’s why I thought maybe he liked me too.

One day, I decided to end things. Not because I didn’t care about him — because I really did. I genuinely liked him. But I also had to think about myself. I was starting to feel emotionally drained.

After ending things, I did something stupid. Three days later, I messaged him saying I would return his toy and the things I promised him. He didn’t reply. The next day, I messaged him again and finally told him what I truly felt. He replied, “I’m really busy, can I reply within the day?” But he never did.

Now, I’m trying to move on.

Sometimes I still wonder — if you really cared about me, why did you let things end that easily? And if I truly meant something to you, why was silence the only thing you left me with?

I met him on a dating app. At that time, I honestly wasn’t looking for love. I was just bored while waiting for my thesis defense to be scheduled. I simply wanted someone to talk to — a stranger who wouldn’t judge me and someone who could just listen.

A few days later, my thesis got scheduled, so we didn’t talk as much anymore. Still, he told me he wanted to meet after my defense, just casually, maybe as friends.

Two days before my thesis defense, I was supposed to meet my thesis adviser at Starbucks IT Park. When I got there, surprisingly, he was there too. We had no communication at all beforehand, so I got so shocked and panicked that I literally ran away. 😭

After my thesis defense, we met again at Starbucks, this time at Paseo Arcenas. We talked for hours, and I genuinely enjoyed being with him. During the first month of talking, I honestly didn’t think we clicked that much, but I still enjoyed our conversations. I didn’t end things because my friends kept telling me that maybe it was too early to decide, and maybe they were right.

By the second month, I think I started falling for him. How could I not? He was kind, calm, and mature. Even if he’s more than two years younger than me, the way he carried himself felt reassuring.

At some point, I started thinking maybe he could really be the one for me. But as time passed, I noticed that he rarely initiated dates. Sometimes he would say gas was expensive, which I understood. Still, I couldn’t help but feel like I was always the one trying to make time for us while he acted like it was nothing serious.

Whenever I tried to pull away, though, he would always pull me back in. That’s why I thought maybe he liked me too.

One day, I decided to end things. Not because I didn’t care about him — because I really did. I genuinely liked him. But I also had to think about myself. I was starting to feel emotionally drained.

After ending things, I did something stupid. Three days later, I messaged him saying I would return his toy and the things I promised him. He didn’t reply. The next day, I messaged him again and finally told him what I truly felt. He replied, “I’m really busy, can I reply within the day?” But he never did.

Now, I’m trying to move on.

Sometimes I still wonder — if you really cared about me, why did you let things end that easily? And if I truly meant something to you, why was silence the only thing you left me with?

I joined Facebook Dating last January out of boredom. Not because I was looking for a relationship, but because I was waiting for my thesis defense schedule. I had no exact date yet, so life just felt uncertain and empty for a while.

Then I swiped right on this guy because he was tall, and honestly, his handwriting looked nice in one of his pictures. Funny how small things can make someone memorable.

At first, we barely talked. He was busy in their family business and he is still a student. Then two days after my thesis defense got scheduled, we started talking more. I told him the reason why I was even on the app was because I was just waiting for my defense to happen. Then he asked me if we could meet after my defense.
I remember joking,
“What if I fail? I might cry after. I probably can’t meet you.”
And he said,
“I know you can do it.”

The day before my defense, I went to Starbucks to meet my thesis adviser. And surprisingly… he was there too, quietly reading his book. We hadn’t talked for almost 24 hours because I wanted to focus on my thesis, so seeing him there caught me completely off guard.

Nakakahiya man aminin, pero tumakbo talaga ako palabas. 😭Then he messaged me asking why I suddenly left.

Fast forward to my thesis defense—I didn’t pass. But strangely, I wasn’t completely heartbroken. I answered all the questions well; the only problem was the statistics part. After that, we finally met.

Our first date was okay.
But during the second date, I started feeling like maybe we weren’t compatible. My friends kept telling me it was too early to decide, so I stayed. But every week, there was this feeling inside me telling me to end things already.
Then around April, something changed.

I started admiring him.
He was 3 years younger than me, but he was surprisingly mature for his age. I don’t know if it was love, but I know I was getting attached. He started existing in the smallest details of my life. Every time I saw bookmarks, little trinkets, or random things that reminded me of him, I bought it for him.

But at the same time, I noticed him becoming distant.
That’s where the confusion started hurting me.

His actions made me feel like he didn’t want me, but his words would say otherwise. Then one day, he kissed my cheeks and forehead, and suddenly I was confused all over again. Maybe he liked me after all.

During our last date, he told me to keep the toy he let me borrow because it was important to him. Then he jokingly said,
“Keep that toy first so you won’t ghost me.”

And once again, my heart didn’t know what to believe.
I was already preparing myself to end things because I was tired of trying to understand mixed signals. It felt like he didn’t really want me… until he’d suddenly do something soft enough to make me stay.

After a week, I finally ended things with him because the confusion was becoming too heavy for me.

Then he admitted the feelings were mutual na hindi mag wowork yung samin.

I thought hearing that would finally give me peace and I thought maybe it would hurt less para di siya magalit saakin na i ended things pero ang sakit pala

Because I genuinely liked him so much.

To this USC graduating student and photographer guy,
I’m still grateful I got to know you. If u dont like me, why did u stay? Why did u pretend na u like me? Huhuhuhu

But I hope one day, you stop giving people affection you can’t fully pursue, because some hearts will hold onto it more than you realize.