u/PracticalMotor6579

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muslim girl struggling with emotional attachment and guilt

assalamualaikum,

i’m a muslim girl finishing high school and i’ve been struggling with a situation from both an islamic and emotional perspective.

there’s a guy i’ve known through school and over time we became emotionally attached through regular conversations. nothing physical or openly inappropriate happened, but recently we admitted that we both like each other.

the problem is that we both also feel guilt and don’t know what the “right” thing to do is islamically. we already tried fully stopping contact for a few months, but eventually started talking again in a more limited way.

we’re both young and not really in a position for marriage right now, but i also don’t want to stay emotionally attached in a confusing situation with no direction.

i wanted advice on:

  • what’s the most balanced islamic way to handle this?
  • is it possible to keep things respectful and intentional without fully cutting each other off?
  • realistically, for people who experienced something similar young, what ended up happening?

i’m not looking for harsh judgment, just sincere and balanced advice.

jazakallah khair.

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u/PracticalMotor6579 — 1 day ago

muslim girl struggling with emotional attachment and guilt

assalamualaikum,

i’m a muslim girl finishing high school and i’ve been struggling with a situation from both an islamic and emotional perspective.

there’s a guy i’ve known through school and over time we became emotionally attached through regular conversations. nothing physical or openly inappropriate happened, but recently we admitted that we both like each other.

the problem is that we both also feel guilt and don’t know what the “right” thing to do is islamically. we already tried fully stopping contact for a few months, but eventually started talking again in a more limited way.

we’re both young and not really in a position for marriage right now, but i also don’t want to stay emotionally attached in a confusing situation with no direction.

i wanted advice on:

  • what’s the most balanced islamic way to handle this?
  • is it possible to keep things respectful and intentional without fully cutting each other off?
  • realistically, for people who experienced something similar young, what ended up happening?

i’m not looking for harsh judgment, just sincere and balanced advice.

jazakallah khair.

reddit.com
u/PracticalMotor6579 — 1 day ago

muslim girl struggling with emotional attachment and guilt

assalamualaikum,

i’m a muslim girl finishing high school and i’ve been struggling with a situation from both an islamic and emotional perspective.

there’s a guy i’ve known through school and over time we became emotionally attached through regular conversations. nothing physical or openly inappropriate happened, but recently we admitted that we both like each other.

the problem is that we both also feel guilt and don’t know what the “right” thing to do is islamically. we already tried fully stopping contact for a few months, but eventually started talking again in a more limited way.

we’re both young and not really in a position for marriage right now, but i also don’t want to stay emotionally attached in a confusing situation with no direction.

i wanted advice on:

  • what’s the most balanced islamic way to handle this?
  • is it possible to keep things respectful and intentional without fully cutting each other off?
  • realistically, for people who experienced something similar young, what ended up happening?

i’m not looking for harsh judgment, just sincere and balanced advice.

jazakallah khair.

reddit.com
u/PracticalMotor6579 — 1 day ago

muslim girl struggling with emotional attachment and guilt

assalamualaikum,

i’m a muslim girl finishing high school and i’ve been struggling with a situation from both an islamic and emotional perspective.

there’s a guy i’ve known through school and over time we became emotionally attached through regular conversations. nothing physical or openly inappropriate happened, but recently we admitted that we both like each other.

the problem is that we both also feel guilt and don’t know what the “right” thing to do is islamically. we already tried fully stopping contact for a few months, but eventually started talking again in a more limited way.

we’re both young and not really in a position for marriage right now, but i also don’t want to stay emotionally attached in a confusing situation with no direction.

i wanted advice on:

  • what’s the most balanced islamic way to handle this?
  • is it possible to keep things respectful and intentional without fully cutting each other off?
  • realistically, for people who experienced something similar young, what ended up happening?

i’m not looking for harsh judgment, just sincere and balanced advice.

jazakallah khair.

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u/PracticalMotor6579 — 1 day ago

has anyone bought the mina dress from shopminaco?

i’ve seen it styled pretty tight in a lot of videos and i like the look but i’m wondering about real-life fit.

does it have to be worn super tight to look good, or is it still flattering if it’s only slightly fitted/comfortable?

also curious about:

  • quality (does it feel decent or cheap in person?)
  • fabric thickness / see-through issues
  • overall fit vs how it looks online

would appreciate honest reviews before i decide!

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u/PracticalMotor6579 — 17 days ago

has anyone bought the mina dress from shopminaco?

i’ve seen it styled pretty tight in a lot of videos and i like the look but i’m wondering about real-life fit.

does it have to be worn super tight to look good, or is it still flattering if it’s only slightly fitted/comfortable?

also curious about:

  • quality (does it feel decent or cheap in person?)
  • fabric thickness / see-through issues
  • overall fit vs how it looks online

would appreciate honest reviews before i decide!

reddit.com
u/PracticalMotor6579 — 18 days ago