Help! What fabric should I use for my wedding outfit?
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Help! What fabric should I use for my wedding outfit?

Help! What fabric should I use for my wedding outfit?
Hi!! Can someone please help me? I’m so lost when it comes to fabrics!
I want to recreate the outfit in the picture in white silk (or a silk/cotton blend). Absolutely no polyester, as I’m allergic.
My main concerns are zero transparency (no bra, nipple covers, or visible underwear), keeping the structured silhouette, and staying comfortable in summer
I was considering:
Top: Silk taffeta (100–120 gsm), silk shantung or silk dupioni/raw silk (130–160 gsm).
Trousers: Silk shantung or silk dupioni/raw silk (140–160 gsm), or silk taffeta (100–120 gsm).
Lining: Lightweight silk habotai (70–90 gsm), possibly in nude.
Am I on the right track? I’ve been using ChatGPT to research fabrics, so please correct me if I’m wrong!
Would these fabrics work? Would you recommend using the same fabric for both pieces? And would lining be necessary?
Any advice would be greatly appreciated!!

https://imgur.com/a/60qKURk outfit pic

u/Prestigious-Bet2255 — 4 days ago

Alfa style 40

Beginner here. I want to buy my first sewing machine and saw this alfa 40 at 200€.
Im based in Portugal so if you have other recommendations in the zone I would appreciate it.

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u/Prestigious-Bet2255 — 1 month ago

How do you estimate weight in bedridden patients when no scale is available?

Hi! I was wondering how dietitians/nutrition professionals working with bedridden patients estimate weight when a bed scale or other suitable scale isn’t available.
For patients ≥65 years old, I’ve been using the Portuguese equation from Guerra et al. based on anthropometric measurements such as waist, arm and calf circumferences. It was reported to have an error of around ±5 kg, but when I compare the estimated weight with patients whose actual weight I know, I sometimes see differences of 10–15 kg. I’ve also tried the Rabito equation, but in my experience the discrepancy has sometimes been even larger.
So I’m curious about what others are using in practice:
For bedridden adults under 60–65 years old, especially patients in a vegetative state, which weight-estimation equations do you use?
Are there any more recent or better-validated equations for this population?
What do you use for children/adolescents when weighing isn’t possible? I haven’t yet had a patient under 18 in this situation, so I’ve never had to look into pediatric equations.

I’d especially appreciate references to recent studies/equations and your experience with how accurate they are in real clinical practice.

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u/Prestigious-Bet2255 — 2 months ago

Exchanging a foreign driving licence for a Portuguese one — do I need to take any driver test

Hi! I have a driving licence from my home country and I’ve just renewed my residence permit in Portugal. My driving licence is valid until 2029.
Does anyone know if I can exchange my foreign driving licence for a Portuguese one? Do I need to take a driving test or a theory test?

Edit: I checked the IMT website and I’m still a bit confused. I’ve been a resident in Portugal for about 5 years, but I’ve just renewed my residence permit. Can I still exchange my Ecuadorian driving licence for a Portuguese one now, or am I already over the time limit?

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u/Prestigious-Bet2255 — 2 months ago

Best Northern Lights destination for a short December trip?

Hi everyone!
This December, my fiancée and I will celebrate our 5th anniversary, and we’ve always dreamed of seeing the Northern Lights.
We’re considering either:
December 19–23: Lisbon → Northern Lights destination → Marseille, or
December 30–January 4: Marseille → Northern Lights destination → Marseille.
Which destination would you recommend for a short trip? Is that a good time to see the aurora? Any advice on tours, routes, or destinations would be greatly appreciated.
If possible, it would also be great if you could mention the approximate budget for the trip you’re suggesting.
Thank you!

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u/Prestigious-Bet2255 — 2 months ago

Getting married in France: what marital regime would you choose in my situation?

English
Hi everyone,
I’m marrying my French fiancé and moving to France. He wants a séparation de biens because he may inherit money, land, or part of a house from his grandparents. They may also give him money to buy a home.
I understand wanting to protect his family inheritance. My concern is that he’ll probably earn much more than me at first. I’m a nutritionist, but while adapting to France I may earn close to minimum wage for several years. We also want children in 3–4 years, and I may stop working for a couple of years to care for them.
For example, if his grandparents give him money to buy our family home, would the house belong only to him under separation of property, even if I later contribute to the mortgage, renovations, household costs, or stay home with the children?
Would pure séparation de biens be fair in this situation, or would another regime protect both of us while keeping his inheritance separate?
I’d appreciate advice from couples with a large income difference or where one parent stopped working to raise the children.

Français
Bonjour à tous,
Je vais me marier avec mon fiancé français et m’installer en France. Il souhaite que nous choisissions le régime de la séparation de biens, car il pourrait hériter d’une somme d’argent, de terrains ou d’une partie de la maison de ses grands-parents. Ils pourraient aussi lui donner de l’argent pour acheter une maison.
Je comprends tout à fait qu’il souhaite protéger son héritage familial. Ce qui m’inquiète, c’est qu’au début il gagnera probablement beaucoup plus que moi. Je suis nutritionniste, mais le temps de m’adapter à la France, je travaillerai probablement pour un salaire proche du SMIC pendant plusieurs années. Nous aimerions aussi avoir des enfants dans 3 ou 4 ans, et je pourrais arrêter de travailler pendant quelques années pour m’occuper d’eux.
Par exemple, si ses grands-parents lui donnent de l’argent pour acheter notre résidence principale, est-ce que la maison lui appartiendrait uniquement en cas de séparation de biens, même si je contribue ensuite au crédit immobilier, aux rénovations, aux dépenses du foyer ou si je reste à la maison pour élever nos enfants ?
Est-ce que la séparation de biens est vraiment le régime le plus adapté dans cette situation, ou existe-t-il un autre régime qui protégerait à la fois son héritage et notre couple ?
J’aimerais beaucoup avoir l’avis de personnes ayant une grande différence de revenus ou dont l’un des conjoints a arrêté de travailler pour élever les enfants.

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u/Prestigious-Bet2255 — 3 months ago

Getting married in France: what marital regime would you choose in my situation?

English
Hi everyone,
I’m marrying my French fiancé and moving to France. He wants a séparation de biens because he may inherit money, land, or part of a house from his grandparents. They may also give him money to buy a home.
I understand wanting to protect his family inheritance. My concern is that he’ll probably earn much more than me at first. I’m a nutritionist, but while adapting to France I may earn close to minimum wage for several years. We also want children in 3–4 years, and I may stop working for a couple of years to care for them.
For example, if his grandparents give him money to buy our family home, would the house belong only to him under separation of property, even if I later contribute to the mortgage, renovations, household costs, or stay home with the children?
Would pure séparation de biens be fair in this situation, or would another regime protect both of us while keeping his inheritance separate?
I’d appreciate advice from couples with a large income difference or where one parent stopped working to raise the children.

Français
Bonjour à tous,
Je vais me marier avec mon fiancé français et m’installer en France. Il souhaite que nous choisissions le régime de la séparation de biens, car il pourrait hériter d’une somme d’argent, de terrains ou d’une partie de la maison de ses grands-parents. Ils pourraient aussi lui donner de l’argent pour acheter une maison.
Je comprends tout à fait qu’il souhaite protéger son héritage familial. Ce qui m’inquiète, c’est qu’au début il gagnera probablement beaucoup plus que moi. Je suis nutritionniste, mais le temps de m’adapter à la France, je travaillerai probablement pour un salaire proche du SMIC pendant plusieurs années. Nous aimerions aussi avoir des enfants dans 3 ou 4 ans, et je pourrais arrêter de travailler pendant quelques années pour m’occuper d’eux.
Par exemple, si ses grands-parents lui donnent de l’argent pour acheter notre résidence principale, est-ce que la maison lui appartiendrait uniquement en cas de séparation de biens, même si je contribue ensuite au crédit immobilier, aux rénovations, aux dépenses du foyer ou si je reste à la maison pour élever nos enfants ?
Est-ce que la séparation de biens est vraiment le régime le plus adapté dans cette situation, ou existe-t-il un autre régime qui protégerait à la fois son héritage et notre couple ?
J’aimerais beaucoup avoir l’avis de personnes ayant une grande différence de revenus ou dont l’un des conjoints a arrêté de travailler pour élever les enfants.

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u/Prestigious-Bet2255 — 3 months ago

Which one you would pick as a beginner

Hi everyone!
Most of what I’d love to make is pants, cotton underwear, and maybe bikinis. Much further down the road (hopefully!), I’d also love to make silk pieces. 😅
The thing is… I’m a complete beginner. I have zero sewing experience and I’m just starting to learn. Right now, I’m trying to decide between these two options.
Which one would you recommend for someone starting from absolute scratch? I’d really appreciate any advice or if you’ve had experience with either one. Thanks!

EDIT: Im in Portugal if anyone has recommendations heres. And thaks all for your advices

u/Prestigious-Bet2255 — 3 months ago

Nutricionista formada em Portugal a pensar emigrar para França?

Olá! Formei-me em Dietetica e Nutrição em Portugal, estou inscrita na Ordem dos Nutricionistas e provavelmente vou mudar-me para França no próximo ano.
Sei que a língua será o principal desafio e que, no início, poderei ter de trabalhar noutra área. No futuro, gostaria de exercer em restauração coletiva ou nutrição clínica, especialmente em instituições para idosos, escolas, hospitais etc.
Além do francês, há alguma equivalência, reconhecimento do diploma ou requisito importante que deva preparar? Alguém passou por uma experiência semelhante?
Vou viver com o meu marido francês e tenho apoio familiar no país.

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u/Prestigious-Bet2255 — 3 months ago
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Can you help me style these sets? I have no idea what shoes to wear

Hi everyone! I just bought a few matching sets, but I never know what shoes to pair with them.
Could you send photos of shoes that would work—sneakers, boots, heels, sandals, or anything else? I currently only own white sneakers and flip-flops.
I’m also planning to have the bottoms shortened because I don’t like them touching the floor.
Thanks!

u/Prestigious-Bet2255 — 3 months ago
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Where in Lisbon can I get this structured part of my dress reshaped?

Hi everyone!
I recently ordered a dress, and it arrived folded for shipping. The structured flaps at the waist have completely flattened, but they’re supposed to stand out like in the product photos.
Does anyone know of a tailor, bridal alterations shop, or dry cleaner in Lisbon that specializes in reshaping structured garments like this? I’m looking for someone who can use steam and restore the sculptural shape without damaging the fabric.
I’ve attached photos of how it arrived and how it’s supposed to look.

u/Prestigious-Bet2255 — 3 months ago

Beginner looking for low-polyester bikini fabric in Europe

Hello everyone,

I’m determined to learn how to sew because I’m tired of polyester clothing. I’d like to try making my own bikinis for personal use only, not to sell.

I’ve seen brands using fabrics like 92% Australian merino wool / 8% elastane or 98% organic cotton / 2% Lycra, and I’m wondering if these are actually suitable for swimwear.

Does anyone know where I can buy these types of fabrics in Europe?

Any beginner-friendly advice would be appreciated. Thank you!

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u/Prestigious-Bet2255 — 3 months ago

Student to Worker (Art. 122(j)) – 2 Months After AIMA Appointment, No Updates

Hi everyone,
Has anyone who had an appointment at AIMA Tavira around May already received their residence card?

I’m starting to panic a bit. I applied to change my residence permit from student to worker (Art. 122(j)) and had my appointment on May 4. It’s been 2 months and I haven’t received any updates.
My lawyer booked the appointment using an email I no longer have access to.

At my appointment, I asked AIMA to use my current email (which already has an AIMA account). However, when I log in, I only see my old student renewal and nothing related to my new application.
Has anyone else experienced this?

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u/Prestigious-Bet2255 — 3 months ago

Moving from Portugal to France as a non-EU resident

Hello everyone,
I’m a non-EU citizen with a temporary residence permit in Portugal, and I want to move to France to live with my French boyfriend, who is currently working there.
We previously lived together in Portugal, and he is on my rental contract, so I have some proof of our relationship.
I know marriage is probably the easiest path, but I’m wondering if already being a legal resident in another EU country makes anything easier. Could it help with moving to France, applying for PACS, getting a residence permit, or working there?
Has anyone been in a similar situation?
Thank you!

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u/Prestigious-Bet2255 — 4 months ago

Shipping chocolates to france from usa

Hi everyone,

My friend in the U.S. wants to send me some chocolates as a birthday gift.

Has anyone received chocolates or other packaged food from the U.S. to france? Did you have any issues with
, taxes, delays, or restrictions on food items?

The chocolates would be commercially packaged (not homemade). I’d love to hear about your experiences before my friend ships them.

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u/Prestigious-Bet2255 — 5 months ago

Chocolates from USA

Hi everyone,

My friend in the U.S. wants to send me some chocolates as a birthday gift. Has anyone received chocolates or other packaged food from the U.S. to Portugal? Did you have any issues with customs, taxes, delays, or restrictions on food items?

The chocolates would be commercially packaged (not homemade). I’d love to hear about your experiences before my friend ships them.

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u/Prestigious-Bet2255 — 5 months ago
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Kilokosi clothing

Its me again. Hi everyone, I really love the clothing from nigeria, the colors and materials are so good. I already bought from ruks a la mode and was perfect, then i got a bad experience and possible scammed from a store cloth bloomswomenswears hahah. Now i look another store is called kilokosi. Looks new with not so much reviews, had anyone bought here? Do you think is another scam?

u/Prestigious-Bet2255 — 5 months ago