I’m new to this place after a long gap of 10yrs. amazed and happy to see the trans of the city.
im in search of a badminton partner to go and play in professional courts. I’m no professional myself but I wld love to play seriously.
oh yes also m, searching for a women
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searching for a budget wedding photographer for my sister and jiju. They are doing combined events all in Bhubaneswar. If anyone has any leads please let me know. Thank u
I 28F am in a some ship with my bf 29M since October 2025. But it has always been an on and off kind of thing. Some ship because nobody proposed it all started by talking and suddenly one fine day we are exclusive.
For a back story here, things were pretty diff fr both of us in terms of growing up. He resides in the same place since birth , I’ve been moving cities along with my parents job and then countries for my studies. So basically the biggest thing rn is I have a core circle scattered throughout the country(globe rather) whereas his friends remain the same since school(touchwood).
I was in a very secure relationship in the past for 6yrs and him for 14yrs(he claims so, I highly doubt it’s that long). Idk much about how his relationship was but fr me I was treated like a queen. Everything a woman desires. We separated bcz our families come from a diff background and my moms not nice she is very nitpicky and I genuinely didn’t want him to go through all of these shit I am facing (that’s a diff story) with my parents. He’s a village person, born brought up there, whereas I’m a city lady. Also, at a point we started having arguments for over a year where I wanted to move out of the country and he didn’t and things got ugly between us. So we mutually with no harsh feelings decided to part ways.
Cut to my present(let’s call him Kite), he’s a nice guy as well, but extremely opposite to the nature my ex(let’s call me Sand). Kite wants a lot of things in me change. The way I talk , the way I present myself(I’m v bold btw), my choice of friends(male), my anger(that I agree). Basically all the qualities he told me in the beginning he likes me for has now somehow become a matter of concern. I’ve already told y’all I’ve few friends ig let alone in the same city. Out of those I mostly have male friends staying near so I hangout with him (coffee, WhatsApp regularly and so on). Having very few frnds and then selecting based on gender is something I hate it. I’ve not asked him to stop communicating with any of his female friends. He himself stopped it(most of them were fwb unlike mine) now he expects me to do the same.
He’s been constantly giving me a sense of unsafety. Out of the almost 2yrs we’ve been together, most of the time we have spent apart. He dumped me, but wanted me as a friend in his life and wanted me for his booty calls, then we got back together, now I am kind of losing interest seeing his behavior. Small things which shdnt be a matter of concern ig icks me now because of the already pent up resentment I have. He says he has no issue and everytime we fight he would blame me saying I am the one who always starts fights and not him. But what he doesn’t see is what has made me come to this point.
I am somehow unable to forget some things he did in the past and caught red handed(relax guys not cheating)and not able to trust him since then. He lies a lot to me. Small harmless lies which Icant stand and he knows it. His whole peer is an epitome of patriarchy and it reflects in his behaviour too. Kite is going through some personal shit himself at home(dad unemployed, mom cancer diagnosed, sister marriage issues)
He keeps on neglecting me whenever sth at his house shoots up. He’s very selfish in that way. For instance he forgot my exam and then blamed me fr not reminding him the day before. Had this been other time I would have been sad but alright. Now I think of breaking up as I don’t see myself putting through this shit.
But on the other hand, there is no denying that there is no love from either ends. I absolutely know he loves me and I do too. But I’m used to a certain kind of secure form of love and intimacy and Kites way is alien to me and I shut down. I don’t feel safe emotionally anymore with him. Please help me save this relationship!!!!
Also, we belong to diff castes(him lower) and his parents love me a lot but I’m yet to break the news to mine.
TL,DR: 2 different people madly in love but drowned in disagreements and arguments, trying to save the relationship!
I 28F am in a some ship with my bf 29M since October 2025. But it has always been an on and off kind of thing. Some ship because nobody proposed it all started by talking and suddenly one fine day we are exclusive.
For a back story here, things were pretty diff fr both of us in terms of growing up. He resides in the same place since birth , I’ve been moving cities along with my parents job and then countries for my studies. So basically the biggest thing rn is I have a core circle scattered throughout the country(globe rather) whereas his friends remain the same since school(touchwood).
I was in a very secure relationship in the past for 6yrs and him for 14yrs(he claims so, I highly doubt it’s that long). Idk much about how his relationship was but fr me I was treated like a queen. Everything a woman desires. We separated bcz our families come from a diff background and my moms not nice she is very nitpicky and I genuinely didn’t want him to go through all of these shit I am facing (that’s a diff story) with my parents. He’s a village person, born brought up there, whereas I’m a city lady. Also, at a point we started having arguments for over a year where I wanted to move out of the country and he didn’t and things got ugly between us. So we mutually with no harsh feelings decided to part ways.
Cut to my present(let’s call him Kite), he’s a nice guy as well, but extremely opposite to the nature my ex(let’s call me Sand). Kite wants a lot of things in me change. The way I talk , the way I present myself(I’m v bold btw), my choice of friends(male), my anger(that I agree). Basically all the qualities he told me in the beginning he likes me for has now somehow become a matter of concern. I’ve already told y’all I’ve few friends ig let alone in the same city. Out of those I mostly have male friends staying near so I hangout with him (coffee, WhatsApp regularly and so on). Having very few frnds and then selecting based on gender is something I hate it. I’ve not asked him to stop communicating with any of his female friends. He himself stopped it(most of them were fwb unlike mine) now he expects me to do the same.
He’s been constantly giving me a sense of unsafety. Out of the almost 2yrs we’ve been together, most of the time we have spent apart. He dumped me, but wanted me as a friend in his life and wanted me for his booty calls, then we got back together, now I am kind of losing interest seeing his behavior. Small things which shdnt be a matter of concern ig icks me now because of the already pent up resentment I have. He says he has no issue and everytime we fight he would blame me saying I am the one who always starts fights and not him. But what he doesn’t see is what has made me come to this point.
I am somehow unable to forget some things he did in the past and caught red handed(relax guys not cheating)and not able to trust him since then. He lies a lot to me. Small harmless lies which Icant stand and he knows it. His whole peer is an epitome of patriarchy and it reflects in his behaviour too. Kite is going through some personal shit himself at home(dad unemployed, mom cancer diagnosed, sister marriage issues)
He keeps on neglecting me whenever sth at his house shoots up. He’s very selfish in that way. For instance he forgot my exam and then blamed me fr not reminding him the day before. Had this been other time I would have been sad but alright. Now I think of breaking up as I don’t see myself putting through this shit.
But on the other hand, there is no denying that there is no love from either ends. I absolutely know he loves me and I do too. But I’m used to a certain kind of secure form of love and intimacy and Kites way is alien to me and I shut down. I don’t feel safe emotionally anymore with him. Please help me save this relationship!!!!
Also, we belong to diff castes(him lower) and his parents love me a lot but I’m yet to break the news to mine.
TL,DR: 2 different people madly in love but drowned in disagreements and arguments, trying to save the relationship!