Hey! Looking for a good mix group of girl n guy friends to go on weekend trips with!
I have been here for almost 2 years now and havent formed a group that I could travel with and I do miss it a lot! Hmu in the dms. Would love to connect.
Okay this is going to be a long one. Bear with me!
So about two years ago, I signed up for Matrimony and I met a guy of shaadi.com. On paper, he was a sweetheart and we hit it off Immediately. We used to talk every day from 11 PM till 6 AM. We were into each other and this was one of my initial matches. I thought i lucked out to find someone so soon into the process. We aligned on most things and pretty much checked each other’s boxes. He confessed he wasnt well off and had no financial back up while i come from a pretty well to do background. And I was completely okay with it saying I believe in him and that we would both come up in life together. And he couldnt stop thanking me for finding him and how hes lucky to find the one. 2 week later, he spoke to his parents. He got back to me, saying that his mother was not okay with my height as he was 6 foot and I was 5 foot. This honestly got me so upset, honestly made me feel so little about myself (no pun intended 😂) . I felt like its unfair that I accepted him for who he was and he couldnt do the same. I argued saying it was such a minor details. To add on, he goes on to say that his mom feels our kids would be affected in the future. That was siper hurtful to hear. Anyways days go by, he completely cuts me off and I go off the process coz i felt it was always going to be this way.
Skip to now, my boy accepts my linkedin request that i sent 1 year ago.
Connects and starts asking me how I am what was i doing. And once we met, decides to confess that he got married to someone and that marriage was toxic and they ended up getting a divorce. Now starts to pursue me saying I was always the one for him and he just couldnt do anything about it back then and is willing to do anything to get married. Told him im seeing someone from matrimony and isnt possible. Goes ahead trying to convince why the person im seeing is not good for me and how hes the one I should be with.
Honestly get a life! This incident was superrr weird and honestly karma.
Can people pleaseeee in the arranged marriage process look beyond just looks. Ull regret later and later might be too late.
I cut him off completely after he started having expectations that I talk to him everyday and text him everyday. But this incident was genuinely a big eye opener.
Omg!! I just finished todays episode. Shreya made the right move by eliminating her competition but tell meee does anyone have connections and know what happens next??
I cant wait for tomorrows episode! Completely crazy move !!
Hi All!
I have my family (2 members) living in Chennai and Im looking for a good meal subscription daily delivery service for Breakfast, lunch and dinner. Simple veg and non veg options with delivery options in and around Kilpauk.
Please suggest. Healthy and homely food needed please.
Okay I know the title seems off but hear me out.
So I had a golden retriever for 8 years and its been 2 years since he passed away.
I moved to Bangalore and Idk Im missing him a lot.
So if any kind person who is based out of HSR could lend me their doggy for an hour just to spend time it would be great! I will return ur doggy in an hour. (might spoil him with a few treats n toys)
Any doggo who is friendly! Preferably a golden retriever!
So, im 29f having a pretty good career right now and enjoy working and earning.
After marriage, I was thinking when we have kids, I would want to take a break to raise the kids and eventually take care of the house and start a cloud kitchen from home or something that doesn’t require me to be in corporate.
It might bring me money but might not be as much as I earn in a stable job. I want to understand our generation mindset.
Men of reddit, whats your opinion of a homemaker wife and also, does it make you look at her any lesser? Would you be comfortable and take care of the financial expenses and she handles the home?
Genuinely curious!
So hello everyone, just like most people on this group. I have also been on the Matrimony sites for a while now, and I find hard to find someone who is compatible and who fits the criteria that I require in a life partner.
So here are certain details about me so you will get a clear picture, and I would also put in details about what I’m looking for in a partner, so I guess that would give a an idea.
About me
Age : 29
Height : 5ft
Looks : Fair and above Avg body type
Gender : Female
Hometown : Chennai (Native is Andhra Pradesh so Telugu)
Religion : Hindu
Community : Balija Naidu (If it matters, I honestly do not care too much about it)
Languages : Telugu, Tamil, Hindi and English
Educational Background: Btech, MBA
Current Location : Bengaluru
Working : Yes
Annual Income : 20 lpa
Hobbies: Playing sports, Dancing, Singing, Travelling.
Also a huge pet enthusiast! So animals make me happy.
Family Background : Upper Middle Class
Kids : Want Kids
Intention : Looking to get married in the next 1 year.
What you should know about me?
So Im your next door girl, I like simple things in life. I am very family oriented, I have a very modern outlook in life and at the same time follow traditions at home. I am very fun loving, sincere and care too much about the people I love.
What Am I looking for?
Physical Features : Someone 5’8 and above with a beard ( Just a personal preference)
Community : Doesnt Matter
Language : Preferably someone telugu but Im not too particular about it.
Location : Doesnt matter
Family : A liberal close knit family family who would treat me with lots of love and care as I would do the same. Preferably similar financial background.
Annual Income : 20lpa and above
Age : 28-33
Characteristics : Someone calm, mature, loving, who loves to travel, who values the concept of family and marriage, ambitious and with good eq and maybe a little bit of romance.
Please Note : Please share your shaadi/insta id with photos and details in dm. I dont want to begin a conversation without knowing if our criterias match and theres mutual attraction.
If youve made it this far! Thanks for stopping by! See you on the other side.
So hello everyone, just like most people on this group. I have also been on the Matrimony sites for a while now, and I find hard to find someone who is compatible and who fits the criteria that I require in a life partner.
So here are certain details about me so you will get a clear picture, and I would also put in details about what I’m looking for in a partner, so I guess that would give a an idea.
About me
Age : 29
Height : 5ft
Looks : Fair and above Avg body type
Gender : Female
Hometown : Chennai (Native is Andhra Pradesh so Telugu)
Religion : Hindu
Community : Balija Naidu (If it matters, I honestly do not care too much about it)
Languages : Telugu, Tamil, Hindi and English
Educational Background: Btech, MBA
Current Location : Bengaluru
Working : Yes
Annual Income : 20 lpa
Hobbies: Playing sports, Dancing, Singing, Travelling.
Also a huge pet enthusiast! So animals make me happy.
Family Background : Upper Middle Class
Kids : Want Kids
Intention : Looking to get married in the next 1 year.
What you should know about me?
So Im your next door girl, I like simple things in life. I am very family oriented, I have a very modern outlook in life and at the same time follow traditions at home. I am very fun loving, sincere and care too much about the people I love.
What Am I looking for?
Physical Features : Someone 5’8 and above with a beard ( Just a personal preference)
Community : Doesnt Matter
Language : Preferably someone telugu but Im not too particular about it.
Location : Doesnt matter
Family : A liberal close knit family family who would treat me with lots of love and care as I would do the same. Preferably similar financial background.
Annual Income : 20lpa and above
Age : 28-33
Characteristics : Someone calm, mature, loving, who loves to travel, who values the concept of family and marriage, ambitious and with good eq and maybe a little bit of romance.
Please Note : Please share your shaadi/insta id with photos and details in dm. I dont want to begin a conversation without knowing if our criterias match and theres mutual attraction.
If youve made it this far! Thanks for stopping by! See you on the other side.
So hello everyone, just like most people on this group. I have also been on the Matrimony sites for a while now, and I find hard to find someone who is compatible and who fits the criteria that I require in a life partner.
So here are certain details about me so you will get a clear picture, and I would also put in details about what I’m looking for in a partner, so I guess that would give a an idea.
About me
Age : 29
Height : 5ft
Looks : Fair and above Avg body type
Gender : Female
Hometown : Chennai (Native is Andhra Pradesh so Telugu)
Religion : Hindu
Community : Balija Naidu (If it matters, I honestly do not care too much about it)
Languages : Telugu, Tamil, Hindi and English
Educational Background: Btech, MBA
Current Location : Bengaluru
Working : Yes
Annual Income : 20 lpa
Hobbies: Playing sports, Dancing, Singing, Travelling.
Also a huge pet enthusiast! So animals make me happy.
Family Background : Upper Middle Class
Kids : Want Kids
Intention : Looking to get married in the next 1 year.
What you should know about me?
So Im your next door girl, I like simple things in life. I am very family oriented, I have a very modern outlook in life and at the same time follow traditions at home. I am very fun loving, sincere and care too much about the people I love.
What Am I looking for?
Physical Features : Someone 5’8 and above with a beard ( Just a personal preference)
Community : Doesnt Matter
Language : Preferably someone telugu but Im not too particular about it.
Location : Doesnt matter
Family : A liberal close knit family family who would treat me with lots of love and care as I would do the same. Preferably similar financial background.
Annual Income : 20lpa and above
Age : 28-33
Characteristics : Someone calm, mature, loving, who loves to travel, who values the concept of family and marriage, ambitious and with good eq and maybe a little bit of romance.
Please Note : Please share your shaadi/insta id with photos and details in dm. I dont want to begin a conversation without knowing if our criterias match and theres mutual attraction.
If youve made it this far! Thanks for stopping by! See you on the other side.
Hi!
18/04/1997
6:50am
Chennai
Why am I having delays in marriage? Please advice remedies or when will I get married?
So hi everyone, I met a guy on arranged marriage platform shaadi.com, and we started talking in June of 2025. The first 4 to 5 months we were just talking and off. Maybe like once or twice a week. In November 2025, we decided to meet in person, so he had travelled to Bangalore where I stay to visit me and spend some time to figure out if this is what we want to pursue . When we met in Person we really hit it off and thought that we wanted to take this forward. Here comes the things that we did not think through too much. We both are 29 years old and earn. Similarly that is 20 LPAI earn and he earns 21LPA. The major blocker in this relationship is that we belong to different communities which does not matter to either of our families, but he belongs to a vegetarian household while I belong to a hard-core non-vegetarian household. There are a couple of restrictions that I may have when I get married to him, for example, no non-veg in the house, cannot wear black clothes, cannot touch vessels or fresh clothes on periods, will need to follow a lot of rituals since their community follows them. Here is the fact that makes this whole situation even more complicated. I come from a very modern well educated rich background where I have grown up with a lot of liberty , discipline, freedom while he belongs to a conservative, middle class background where he is the sole breadwinner of the family. This essentially means that he has to take care of his mother, father, himself and sister. He should also take loan to get his sister married. My main concern is does the difference in financial background matter if both of us try to sustain this life. Will the conservative mindset start to influence our marriage? I suggested to him that we can take a duplex apartment and have two kitchens so that nobody is impacted by the food preference, but his mom opposed to the idea and said that I am trying to separate the family even before getting into it, all I wanted was to maintain the peace in the family. Currently, I am trying to switch my career, so my situation is very complicated in terms of financial planning. I want to take a very practical call, but I am very emotionally attached to him and love him a lot. He has convinced his parents after eight months and now my parents are completely against the idea and they think that this would be like a big mistake. They want me to look at other options. I am unable to take a decision, but all I know is that I want to be with him. Please don’t judge me you all. I’m just trying to make a right decision before it’s too late. I am planning to make our parents talk this week and I want to make sure that I am making the right decision and I won’t regret it later. I am trying to convince him to apply for jobs abroad so that we can look at the option of settling abroad. This will reduce majority of the problems in my opinion. Please help me as soon as possible. Also, please suggest what other criteria should I weigh out before I make this decision?
Where do I even begin? These last 2 years has been sooo stressful. I am not sure where to vent since I find it difficult to be vulnerable around people and I dont wanna give off that energy!
So hello! I am from Chennai, a telugu working in Bangalore with a 20lpa job. Im a girl who has dreamt all of her life to be married and have kids and run a cafe on the side. Life has confused me so much at this point of time.
I an 29 F and I am 5ft, fair skin tone, average built and I think I am pleasant to look at.
I had a 3 year relationship which broke off when I was 25. It took me 2 years to completely get over and move on so I started Matrimony at 26-27ish and the process is still going on. Multiple conversations I have said no to some and some have said no to me but its become sooo exhausting to a point where I want to give up but its been my dream to have a family and settle down. But idk if I have the mindset to do so and I feel like Ive let my parents down somehow I see them worried about my future and it scares me. Im ready to settle down with even 50% of my basic expectations just out of not wanting to disappoint people around me. People on the same boat how are you dealing with all of it? I feel like im not enough for someone to see me and want to marry me. But I know when I love , I go above and beyond for the person.
My basic criteria is that He should be a kind man, anywhere between 28-33. Having a good educational background and in a good job. Comes from a liberal and happy family who would treat me like their own. Someone who is 5’8 and above (personal preference/attraction. Pls don’t come at me). Should be attractive in my eyes thats all. Have maturity and calmness. Am I asking for too much? Its basicccccc. Im under so much stress considering everyone feels im really old at 29 and unmarried. Im tired and sometimes just want to rewind life and start-over. Someone suggest what has worked for u? Telugu fam any marriage brokers apart from the usual matrimony sites? Need any suggestion you can give please.
Hey all! Im a 29F, 5ft, avg built, Telugu and currently working in Bangalore with a job paying me 20lpa and Im looking for telugu folks who are also done with the AM process and are looking for something more organic. My preference would be
Community: Telugu or Tamil
Age : 28-34
Height - 5’8-6
Education background : anything
Working : Yes pls
Location : Bangalore/Chennai/Hyderabad or Abroad
Income range : 20lpa and above
Family type : Liberal mindset
Family background : Upper middle class n above
I love travelling, play sports, sing and dance.
I have moved to Bangalore 2 years ago and im currently working with an FMCG in sales.
I am very broadminded, kind and understanding. Looking for someone who is calm , kind, empathetic and is intellectual.
If this post aligns with do dm and connect to take this conversation forward.
Hello all,
I really hope this post is read with no judgements and just let me try to understand my situation better through others opinion.
I am a 29F, 5ft, average body(chubby), Telugu and currently working in Bangalore with a 20lpa job.
Life has been very exhausting recently. I have always dreamt of a loving partner a happy family kids n marital life but that dream is still a dream.
I was in a 3 year relationship and it ended in 2022. I took 2 years to overcome it since it was my first real relationship and the feelings were deep. Once I got over and was ready to start dating, I realised dating apps were not the best as people were looking for just casual flings and Im not one for it. I decided to try matrimony and its been 3 years of me being on matrimony. And endless profiles later Im still unable to find anyone compatible enough. My major criteria was a well educated man in a good job with kind heart and a loving family with a modern outlook. I have had a very hard time finding someone suitable. I am currently talking to a match who I feel would be really compatible in terms of emotional, mental and physical compatibility but here is issue, his family being a vegetarian household and a diff community feel I might try to separate him away from his family post marriage. To add on, he is not very financially well off n takes care of his family so they are dependent on him and i feel are feeling insecure. While i come from a very modern family with an upper middle class background. When the non veg part came up, I asked him if we can try taking an independent house n live on diff floors so that nonveg wont be an issue and the whole thing blew up stating my intentions arent right. Black outfits are not allowed, women on periods cannot be touched, customs are a very important factor for them. Now Im very confused if I should continue considering I feel he might be a good fit for me or I should look for other options as people around me keep pressuring me that Im running out of time and options due to my age. I am well educated, come from a super happy family, good looking and I am very kind and want a family that will accept me for who I am completely. I know for a fact I would treat my inlaws as I would treat my own parents. Please help me decide! I need advice since its impacting my career and health a lot. I need straight forward responses. Pls be kind x
I really need help understanding my career and most importantly my marriage. I need an honest and unbiased prediction. This will be very helpful please.