44 [F4F] Texas- lonely in the Lone Star State

Married, poly, and dating separately. I'm only interested in meeting women and hoping to build a genuine connection, whether that starts as friendship or grows into something more. If you're kind, communicative, and enjoy getting to know people, feel free to reach out!

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u/PreviousTraining3767 — 8 days ago

42 [F4F] Excited for a new connection

Im pretty new here. Looking for a woman who is genuinely kind and wanting to take our connection slow. I have a wife, but looking for a secondary interest just for me.

Someone thats just fun to learn about and has a good outlook on life. I have had a tough few years with the loss of another relationship so putting myself out there right now and it feels scary.

Hard passes for me includes smokers, heavy drinkers, gamers, cat lovers (severely allergic).

A dream would be to find someone who is kind, patient and has space for me. Any time I get to spend with you will always be primal. I love emotional intelligence. Age range is about 36-50. Hit me up!!

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u/PreviousTraining3767 — 8 days ago

Burn Boot Camp BURN OUT

Hi everyone. I've been a Burn Boot Camp member for over five years, and so much has changed since those first weeks when we were working out in the parking lot. I almost quit more times than I can count, but I stayed because of the friendships I made and because Burn helped me find myself again after years of pouring into family, work, and navigating some health challenges.

Back then, Burn felt incredibly personal. It felt like family. What I loved most was seeing members share their stories, victories, struggles, and life experiences. Those stories inspired me because I saw women in different seasons of life showing up for themselves, and it reminded me that fitness was for everyone.

Recently, I've noticed that the marketing and content have shifted. I understand that social media trends are part of growing a business, and I know many people enjoy that side of things. But sometimes I miss the old days when the spotlight seemed to be on the members and their journeys rather than on creating content.

One thing I've found myself thinking about is how much focus there seems to be on appearance and how some of the content centers around dressing more provocatively or creating a certain image. I believe we should absolutely celebrate and love our bodies. At the same time, I think it's important to be mindful of what we're promoting and the message it sends. Not every woman relates to that, and some may feel like they don't belong because they don't look a certain way. One of the things I always loved about Burn was that it felt welcoming to women of all ages, backgrounds, and body types.

As I've gotten older, some of the jumping and awkward movements have also affected my attendance, and with my membership ending in two months, I'm wondering if maybe I just need a change.

I will always be grateful for the friendships I've made and for everything Burn has given me. But I'm curious to know if anyone else started at Burn and found another gym they ended up loving just as much? I'd love to hear where life took you and what you've enjoyed about your new fitness community.

Anyone else feel like this?

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u/PreviousTraining3767 — 12 days ago

Is it just me…

I posted a pic recently and got quite a few DMs telling me I was pretty and wanting to get to know me. What surprised me was that almost all of them were from men. Maybe I'm crazy, but I didn't expect that in a group for masc women.

I’m genuinely curious to know why are so many men here, and has anyone else experienced this?

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u/PreviousTraining3767 — 16 days ago

44 [F4F] TEXAS | LOOKING TO MEET A WOMAN IN AN OPEN MARRIAGE

44, married, and happily ENM. Looking to meet a woman who is also in an open marriage and interested in taking things slow. I am not searching for someone to complete my life. I would just love to find someone who adds a little extra fun, connection, and excitement to it.

A few things about me: I love sports, working out, staying active, and getting into those conversations that somehow go from random to surprisingly deep. I'm attracted to women who are family-oriented, kind, emotionally mature, and have their own full lives outside of dating.

What I am hoping for is a true secondary relationship, something casual in terms of expectations and time commitment, but genuine when it comes to chemistry, attraction, and connection. The best way I can describe it is that any time we spend together feels like a bonus for both of us. No pressure, no drama, no desire to change each other's lives and just enjoying each other's company when schedules and life allow.

My interests tend to lean more toward being active, getting out and doing things, and connecting face-to-face rather than staying in. If you're someone who values good conversation, laughs easily, and appreciates quality time when it happens, we might get along well.

If any of this resonates with you, send me a message and let's see if there's a connection.

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u/PreviousTraining3767 — 1 month ago