I miss a friend

I was always the anxious person in the relationship with my ex and he was avoidant, but at the beginning it was opposite, idk how it changed from me becoming anxious, To a point i got nervous overdrive and it ended somehow thank god.

I found a good man who i actually liked and admired for a while but, the day we talked entirely, I realised how much I started liking him because he genuinely felt like the connection I needed, the balance my heart was aching for, but I just told him I was getting drained because he talks less, Now i cant understand if that was the case or Did i actually made it up, then he said he respects and understands me and thats what he repeated over and over again, I genuinely dont know why I would block him and tell him he was draining, even though I enjoyed our conversation :). We bothbonded over our little siblings and what not , whenever i’d say I wont talk over, we would have our funny moments going on, Me asking him to call me daddy even though I’m a female. I genuinely didnt miss my avoidant ex even after dating him for 1.5 years, but this guy that I hoped to see something with? I miss him so much, it genuinely aches, I want him to reach our to me like he always does in the name of a meme, or just some excuse.

why did i block him? I really want him in my life

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u/Prize-Hovercraft9094 — 3 days ago

Some people are hard to work with

Basically for context- People take coaching/ Pt,

We want them to reach their goals , We consider their lifestyle and then give them a plan they could follow, however when they say ‘I keep getting off the plan’ and ‘I can’t see results’

How can we have this conversation with them? That its not our job to motivate them to follow a plan

We can always give them an easier plan to follow but they sometimes act as if, it’s us stoping them from reaching their potential.

I’d rather lose the client but they’ll face the same issue with another trainer as well.

1:3 clients are like this , The worst part is they have resources to get another trainer who promises them the results , So they keep on changing trainers.

Should I convince them or let them go without making them understand?

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u/Prize-Hovercraft9094 — 6 days ago

How do u not look basic

  1. I couldn’t layer jackets because the temperature in malaysia is hot as fuck, only the mountain area is cold
  2. I tried then necklace + Ring+Kuromi the goat
  3. For my body proportions I had to go with jorts and a top

Keeping all this conditions- What else can I genuinely do to be better

u/Prize-Hovercraft9094 — 10 days ago

how to get female clients

I post content online however it doesn’t get pushed to female audience so I thought I’ll train first few females to get an audience however where do you get that many females 😭 as I coach online its very easy for others who dont want to go gym because they are shy or parents dont allow, I think in a world where beauty standards keep on changing one thing that you can work on is body

any tips on how to get attention or female audience online?

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u/Prize-Hovercraft9094 — 10 days ago

Hard to get female clients

When i first started coaching I thought as I’m a female, I can understand their problems more better than male coaches, but females genuinely are so hard to train with and to get one, like ong many of them don’t care about fitness anymore or maybe im looking somewhere wrong😭, I always end up getting male clients or powerlifters but thats not the type of people I want , ik why they want coaching from me, I genuinely would stop helping out people if this keeps on going, what do I do?

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u/Prize-Hovercraft9094 — 10 days ago

Declutter- Selling skincare haul - ₹3,500 (includes shipping)

okay so i bought these thinking they’d be good for me but honestly they just didn’t work out for my skin :/ so instead of letting them sit and expire, i’m passing them on at a price that actually makes sense lol

what you’re getting:
anua azelaic acid 10 serum (barely used, literally just tried it twice)

3x centella serums (used but well maintained, 50-75% left)-
One is completely unused- one of the pink centella

being real with you: yes, these are used. i’m not gonna lie about that. BUT i’m hyper about skincare hygiene so everything’s been used with clean hands/applicators only. they’re all stored properly in a cool place too because the weather is so bad jesus
also? the anua alone retails for ₹1800+ on nykaa rn. market prices are actually insane these days so this is genuinely a deal if you’re looking to try these.
i know opened products have expiry dates which is exactly why i’m letting these go cheap instead of hoarding them. makes more sense that way.
if anything goes wrong, text me. seriously. i’ll be around to help if you have questions or issues. just want these to go to someone who’ll actually use them

The perfume is 80ml one the biggest size available- Im selling it for 7.5k because the cap is inside broken it sprays well but u pay attention to it. And its full i didnt want it not because it was broken but because my ex got these everything, he added a perfume i wouldnt use, i love fruity smell , this is not something i like.

u/Prize-Hovercraft9094 — 17 days ago

Declutter take all

I dont want these because they honestly dont faze me and im moving out so I’m not taking skincare that i dont use.

1)You pay for the shipping and 1700 for all of the serum. I’ve only used the white one, and one of ghe pink serum half. I got these for 700-800 for smaller bottles so 700x2=1,400 for 2 pink serums and white one 900 only. Azelic one around 850 so i got these for 900+850+1400=3,150 but im giving it away for 2k.

  1. Good girl- 7k (Got it as a gift from somebody who knew I HATE PERFUME JESUS)

I dont use it man i dont like it again
Idk the expiry but I can provide screenshots of my purchase date if needed :) also if you are worried about me scamming, feel free to ask for videos

u/Prize-Hovercraft9094 — 18 days ago

Bits design (BITSDAT)

The best guide of whether to go here or not.

  1. You won’t get in with just bitsdat score, You’ll have to give uceed or nid
  2. Even if you get in with bitsdat score? You’ll only get waitlisted or if you are lucky enough , youll get in but with no scholarship. Because bitsdat isnt a standardised test to see if you are also good at entrance that is conducted by the government.

50% and 75% - Actually you pay 35 lakh with 50%
75% didnt do the math- Maybe 32 lakhs

100%- It only applies to tuition fees and as per conversation with seniors - Only good uceed rankers or AIR holders , have secured it. Please don’t have high hopes, thinking with a good interview or a portfolio you can get that 100% . Very unrealistic

  1. Campus life- Good people around you

  2. Faculty- Mixed reviews

  3. Placements? Dont worry they will make sure their students end up getting a job, to maintain the 100% placement rank, but don’t expect high ROI.

  4. Please don’t take student loan, on their website they have banks who provide student loan, So i think that should let you know where you are going and how much you are giving for a degree.

  5. Actually bits doesnt give a degree. They give BDES HONOURS.

You heard that right , you don’t get specialisation in the field you want.

  1. Transdiscplineary approach is good, Abroad education is good, But thats another set of high fees. Students there are actually amazing, they are doing wonders but don’t just go on the basis of that.

there is a Image of the brochure to understand why they clearly failed to mention about bdes honours.

Conclusion- I think bits is good if you are either the 100% scholarship student or the one with rich parents. Don’t break your bank for bdes honours.

Again this isn’t a hate post, but the reality of how the process works and yes bits isnt transparent about how they pick students for scholarships, As per the previous reddit posts you’ve seen. Not something i said in my post here.

u/Prize-Hovercraft9094 — 1 month ago

My content was removed despite me following guidelines.

I post gym content and Im 17 y/o.
I didn’t promote anything, nor i showed my skin , I showed literally my biceps and back in a video.
I have meta verified, Can someone tell me what mistake did I do? My friends think someone is deliberately trying to report me and so far? they’ve got 2 of my posts removed in 15 hours.
I really worked hard to make a prescence online, with a good community that supports me, what can I do? I tried to get in touch with an agent live but AI was responding to my concerns.

u/Prize-Hovercraft9094 — 1 month ago
▲ 22 r/BITSDES

  1. Be yourself can’t emphasise much
  2. If u get the younger ones- Be ready to get bombarded by questions- They ask so many at a time
  3. They did go through our portfolio well enough that we wont have the need to show our screen
  4. Longer Interview ≠ Good interview
  5. -

Shorter interview- 2 cases

  1. You answered well enough they have nothing to as

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  1. You have nothing they can ask you about

  2. If they only ask you about your portfolio- That means your portfolio wasnt a reflection of you, its not telling much about you, thats why in the interview answer well when they ask about portfolio, give them the answer they r looking for not the one that you have pasted in the portfolio.

  3. Bhai honestly, Interview ko halke me mat lo bohot ache se woh marenge tumhari , prepare krlo, and they do ask about bits ka kya pta hai tumhe, woh bhi dekhlena ab yaad aya mujhe

  4. Yall should also remember one thing, Just because they ask you to be yourself doesnt mean kuch bhi bakdo, Be concise, Be formal but say things you want to say without breaking rules or boundaries

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u/Prize-Hovercraft9094 — 2 months ago
▲ 13 r/BITSDES

Idk bakion ka kyu kharab gya i got sameer sir and haroop, And they both so nice and I honestly went all out, Guys apne controversial opinion bhi rakho and they all were so much into what i was saying, they personally told me tumhe bahar jana chahiye, Youll flourish , So i dont know tum log kya bata rhe ho apne barien me, mere portfolio mujhe dikhane ki jarurat nahi padi kyuki woh khud notes me likhe the mere portfolio me kya unhe acha laga, And Personally if you get these two, be yourself

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u/Prize-Hovercraft9094 — 2 months ago

ab koi kuch nahi bolega proper outfit hai ye agar kisi ne kuch galat comment kra istg thats on you guys not me 😭🙏🏻

stockings- Savana

skirt- Westside

Top- Nhonline (instagram page)

Necklace Vw- Skye Shop (instagram page)

u/Prize-Hovercraft9094 — 2 months ago

THE ENTIRE OUTFIT IS FROM WESTSIDE LIKE CRAZY STUFF THEY GOT ONG,

  1. Low waisted jeans

  2. White lace top

  3. paired with a maroon top inside

  4. Viviene westwood necklace

  5. My melody tucked in there 😭

u/Prize-Hovercraft9094 — 2 months ago