u/PrizeStatistician590

Ugh it just kinda sucks because my friends in echols were hyping me up saying i was basically a guaranteed acceptance for the second year application. I have a ~3.8 gpa, did research all of first year, several leadership positions, just not sure where it went wrong... feel like ive been getting straight back to back rejections w madison house, TA, and whatever so this is really the nail on the head

Ive been in a terrible fucking mood recently bc ive been fighting w my family and also stressed at work, i'm js zoned out and crying all the time. I thought today would get me out of this shithole i'm in but i think it's only dug me deeper. While all my other friends are on the beach together w their better friends and family, somehow EVERY SINGLE PLAN i made for today fell through. I genuinely hate this so bad. I was gonna work, have my friends visit me at work, rest up at home then metro to DC and watch fireworks with my family, and then meetup with those same friends at a bar. Work was good but then it was super busy and far from my friends so i js told them to not come bc theyd be waiting forever + its sm gas. And then right after i got ready to leave for DC, it sterts raining and my family texts me theyre going home because the fireworks might not even happen. So then im pretty bummed already bc i lowk wanted to see them... but its fine bc i still got the bars right??? No. I text my friends after saying i'm not metroing into DC anymore, asking if they can scoop me on their way there. And then they tell me out of the blue theyre going to a diff bar and i can js meet them there bc everyone at this birthday party theyre at will be going there. Im not given an address or anything. And it doesnt even sound like they want me there. So im just not in the fucking mood to go out and put all this effort in for people who dont gaf about me. Its just upsetting because how am i genuinely entirely all alone right now???? While everyone else ishaving a great time w their friends and fam it lowk js hurts

For context I've been talking to this guy for a week or so and I met him through a friend. Overall I think I like him, he's very sweet and gentle and I thought everything was going well and we've hung out about every day this past week. However literally the other day, my friend told me he said he wants to friendzone me because "I'm too dominant of a personality".

I just think this is so funny because he's more passive and gentle so wouldn't you want someone who's more assertive to make the moves? Regardless I don't even think I was being that dominant. The most "dominant/masculine" things I can think of were paying for his smoothie, holding the door open for him once or twice, initiating hugs and physical contact, and playing piano for him. What's wrong with that??? I thought guys like it when girls do stuff for them. Plus I like to so why not? Also I let him hold doors open for me, buy me stuff, yadda yadda so isn't it like equivalent IDK?

Also the fact he hasn't said this to my face and is communicating through our mutual friend yet still talking to me like everything is normal just proves my point that he's more submissive. Like just tell me so we can stop wasting each other's time?

I don't know, was I doing too much off the bat? Does he feel intimidated or emasculated by me? It's just who I am though.

For context I've been talking to this guy for a week or so and I met him through a friend. Overall I think I like him, he's very sweet and gentle and I thought everything was going well and we've hung out about every day this past week. However literally the other day, my friend told me he said he wants to friendzone me because "I'm too dominant of a personality".

I just think this is so funny because he's more passive and gentle so wouldn't you want someone who's more assertive to make the moves? Regardless I don't even think I was being that dominant. The most "dominant/masculine" things I can think of were paying for his smoothie, holding the door open for him once or twice, initiating hugs and physical contact, and playing piano for him. What's wrong with that??? I thought guys like it when girls do stuff for them. Plus I like to so why not??? Also I let him hold doors open for me, buy me stuff, yadda yadda so isn't it like equivalent IDK?

Also the fact he hasn't said this to my face and is still talking to me like everything is normal just proves my point that he's more submissive. He won't even say it to my face...

I don't know, was I doing too much off the bat?? It's just who I am though.