u/Problematicchildd

We’re both 19, been tgt since o levels lmao. Js blocked him from everywhere, that was my bestfriend yall, please tell me it gets better :(

So my bf and i have been together for almost four years, we weren’t long distance for the first couple of years but i moved away so now we have been for two years. And they have been pretty awful.

We’ve had some of the best times together, he’s more like a best friend and we share a bond i don’t have with anyone else (i can talk to him about anything and everything, he’s rlly supportive and loving).

I know long distance is not easy but Ive tried my best to make it work, i tried calling everyday or every other day (i could tell he hated it, started making excuses to not call and at one point just straight up told me he hated calling), ik its not that deep but when you’re long distance thats really the most you have, to watch movies together, adore eachother, talk to eachother about your day, i thought that was pretty normal and anyone in love would want to do, sometimes when he called himself, he seemed so happy and excited but at times i would call, he’d be dry or wouldnt pick up. Which eventually i just stopped and it had a pretty big toll on our relationship.

Im not saying im perfect, i have mild anxiety and i require some reassurance too but his inconsistency is what triggered my anxiety.

After a few arguments off and on, we started ‘breaking up’ every other month and then got back together (we were both really attached).

A few months ago he told me he wanted to break up and he lost feelings, i didnt see that coming at all as we had been doing pretty well for a while, this was my relationship and i had never dealed with a break up before so it was hell for me, anxiety attacks, crying, no appetite for about a month and then i started to settle but was still empty and missed him, i didnt break no contact tho (self respect).

About three months later, he texted me, i didnt respond, and then he started texting every week and eventually i caved in. He said he missed me, made a mistake, couldn’t move on etc etc. (my fault I shouldn’t have given in then).

Fast forward to now its been 4 months we’ve been back together and the problems with calling remain, but I compromised to that and we’ve been great, sometimes i feel like he loves me more than i love him, he goes above and beyond for me and puts me first and everything.

However recently we got into an argument and he just said such hurtful things im contemplating leaving for good, basically he asked for some ‘pictures’ and i refused and he hasnt talked to me since about a week and told me our relationship is ass and i should just leave him alone so he’s happy

One specific thing that hurt me is that he said “you’ll probably be away for 4 days max and then come back to me” im confused and disgusted and disappointed. I have no idea what temper tantrum he’s throwing over these pictures as we’ve been tgt for four years now and ik he’s not a lustful man, im just so confused.

Also this constant ignoring, no confrontation, no hard talks, is just getting to me, this is too immature. I just have a really hard time getting myself to accept that its all over because whenever i try, my mind just fills up with all the things we’ve done together, all the good times, gifts, acts of love, everything. Its just hard to get over, sigh.

We’re both 19 btw, should i break up and move on?

So my bf and i have been together for almost four years, we weren’t long distance for the first couple of years but i moved away so now we have been for two years. And they have been pretty awful.

We’ve had some of the best times together, he’s more like a best friend and we share a bond i don’t have with anyone else (i can talk to him about anything and everything, he’s rlly supportive and loving).

I know long distance is not easy but Ive tried my best to make it work, i tried calling everyday or every other day (i could tell he hated it, started making excuses to not call and at one point just straight up told me he hated calling), ik its not that deep but when you’re long distance thats really the most you have, to watch movies together, adore eachother, talk to eachother about your day, i thought that was pretty normal and anyone in love would want to do, sometimes when he called himself, he seemed so happy and excited but at times i would call, he’d be dry or wouldnt pick up. Which eventually i just stopped and it had a pretty big toll on our relationship.

Im not saying im perfect, i have mild anxiety and i require some reassurance too but his inconsistency is what triggered my anxiety.

After a few arguments off and on, we started ‘breaking up’ every other month and then got back together (we were both really attached).

A few months ago he told me he wanted to break up and he lost feelings, i didnt see that coming at all as we had been doing pretty well for a while, this was my relationship and i had never dealed with a break up before so it was hell for me, anxiety attacks, crying, no appetite for about a month and then i started to settle but was still empty and missed him, i didnt break no contact tho (self respect).

About three months later, he texted me, i didnt respond, and then he started texting every week and eventually i caved in. He said he missed me, made a mistake, couldn’t move on etc etc. (my fault I shouldn’t have given in then).

Fast forward to now its been 4 months we’ve been back together and the problems with calling remain, but I compromised to that and we’ve been great, sometimes i feel like he loves me more than i love him, he goes above and beyond for me and puts me first and everything.

However recently we got into an argument and he just said such hurtful things im contemplating leaving for good, basically he asked for some ‘pictures’ and i refused and he hasnt talked to me since about a week and told me our relationship is ass and i should just leave him alone so he’s happy

One specific thing that hurt me is that he said “you’ll probably be away for 4 days max and then come back to me” im confused and disgusted and disappointed. I have no idea what temper tantrum he’s throwing over these pictures as we’ve been tgt for four years now and ik he’s not a lustful man, im just so confused.

Also this constant ignoring, no confrontation, no hard talks, is just getting to me, this is too immature. I just have a really hard time getting myself to accept that its all over because whenever i try, my mind just fills up with all the things we’ve done together, all the good times, gifts, acts of love, everything. Its just hard to get over, sigh.

We’re both 19 btw, should i break up and move on?

So basically, my bf n i have been long distance for a couple years (we’ve been tgt for 4). We met up a couple days ago and got into a situation where the police got involved, they took him outside of the car and were threatening us to take us to the police station and file a complaint etc etc.

My parents didn’t know we were together and we were in my car so i obviously panicked and texted a friend (that had contacts in the police so he could help us). I had just sent a “hello, need help” text when my bf came back n said he had handled the situation. I told him i texted my friend for help but immediately unsent them before my friend even saw the texts.

We were fine then, we laughed it off and everything had been normal for the past couple days. Today on his way back to his home city, he texted me how i made him feel like ass, cz i asked for help from someone else while he was there and he felt as if he was unreliable and useless.

I told him, i panicked and tried to help. While i somewhat understand where he’s coming from, i’m mostly unsure if what i did was wrong. I think when you’re stuck in a messy situation, you think practically not emotionally and try to get your way out which is what i did. I knew my friend could’ve handled the situation if it escalated which is why i texted him.

My bf has been going off about how ass i am and how i made him feel like a cuck. Idk how to handle this situation, I’ve apologised for making him feel that way (even tho that wasn’t my intention)

We’re both 19 btw

So basically, my bf n i have been long distance for a couple years (we’ve been tgt for 4). We met up a couple days ago and got into a situation where the police got involved, they took him outside of the car and were threatening us to take us to the police station and file a complaint etc etc.

My parents didn’t know we were together and we were in my car so i obviously panicked and texted a friend (that had contacts in the police so he could help us). I had just sent a “hello, need help” text when my bf came back n said he had handled the situation. I told him i texted my friend for help but immediately unsent them before my friend even saw the texts.

We were fine then, we laughed it off and everything had been normal for the past couple days. Today on his way back to his home city, he texted me how i made him feel like ass, cz i asked for help from someone else while he was there and he felt as if he was unreliable and useless.

I told him, i panicked and tried to help. While i somewhat understand where he’s coming from, i’m mostly unsure if what i did was wrong. I think when you’re stuck in a messy situation, you think practically not emotionally and try to get your way out which is what i did. I knew my friend could’ve handled the situation if it escalated which is why i texted him.

My bf has been going off about how ass i am and how i made him feel like a cuck. Idk how to handle this situation, I’ve apologised for making him feel that way (even tho that wasn’t my intention) but i just feel like he’s overthinking it way too much, i cant help but feel like he’s just insecure.

We’re both 19 btw

So basically, my bf n i have been long distance for a couple years (we’ve been tgt for 4). We met up a couple days ago and got into a situation where the police got involved, they took him outside of the car and were threatening us to take us to the police station and file a complaint etc etc.

My parents didn’t know we were together and we were in my car so i obviously panicked and texted a friend (that had contacts in the police so he could help us). I had just sent a “hello, need help” text when my bf came back n said he had handled the situation. I told him i texted my friend for help but immediately unsent them before my friend even saw the texts.

We were fine then, we laughed it off and everything had been normal for the past couple days. Today on his way back to his home city, he texted me how i made him feel like ass, cz i asked for help from someone else while he was there and he felt as if he was unreliable and useless.

While i somewhat understand where he’s coming from, i’m mostly unsure if what i did was wrong. I think when you’re stuck in a messy situation, you think practically not emotionally and try to get your way out which is what i did.

My bf has been going off about how ass i am and how i made him feel like a cuck. Idk how to handle this situation, I’ve apologised for making him feel that way (even tho that wasn’t my intention)

We’re both 19 btw

So i 19F have been with my bf 19M for 4 years, we were in high school together and then i moved away so we’ve been long distance for 2 years now. We both love eachother a lot, he’s more like a bestfriend, everything is perfect. Ik long distance is hard but it’s been even harder since he just straight up tells me he hates calling, im unable to understand how to make things work without calling since we’re literally long distance.

Every time i call, its always amazing, we talk, we laugh, we love eachother but sometimes he picks up but then makes excuses to cut it short, other times he just straight up says he’s busy playing on his pc or wtv and doesnt even bother returning my calls. When i dont call, he doesnt at all. Ive stopped calling him now because well self respect but everything feels so dry this way? Especially because when we do call he seems to be having a great time, so im confused as to why he runs away from it so much. This causes me to be distant and salty with him.

Is this really immature of him or am i just overreacting?

Ive talked about it countless times to him and he says he just hates calling people.

So i 19F have been with my bf 19M for 4 years, we were in high school together and then i moved away so we’ve been long distance for 2 years now. We both love eachother a lot, he’s more like a bestfriend, everything is perfect. Ik long distance is hard but its been even harder since he just straight up tells me he hates calling, im unable to understand how to make things work without calling since we’re literally long distance.

Everytime i call, its always amazing, we talk, we laugh, we love eachother but sometimes he picks up but then makes excuses to cut it short, other times he just straight up says he’s busy playing on his pc or wtv and doesnt even bother returning my calls. When i dont call, he doesnt at all. Ive stopped calling him now because well self respect but everything feels so dry this way? Especially because when we do call he seems to be having a great time, so im confused as to why he runs away from it so much. This causes me to be distant and salty with him.

Is this really immature of him or am i just overreacting?

Ive talked about it countless times to him and he says he just hates calling people.

How was it? Wht did yall write for the last qs? And i wrote my diameters and area n shit in mm, am i cooked? ALSO can someone remind me what the last part of the first question was? I only remember percentage decrease, i dont remember reading anything about ph 7 which i keep seeing everyone talk abt 😭😭😭