u/Professional-Bet2898

Pretend you are a manipulative and narcissistic. And please give me advice, I want a soft sweet revenge i have endured a lot. I don’t wanna let her get away with this anymore.

I’m in a relationship with someone who I believe has been manipulative and emotionally controlling. From everything I’ve found out, she’s involved with multiple people at the same time. There’s one girl who, from what I understand, is providing her with financial support and a path to a visa, so I believe she stays in that relationship because it benefits her. At the same time, she’s also talking to her ex again and messaging other girls.
Recently, we had a fight. Right after I left, she contacted her ex. The next day, despite me previously telling her how much it would hurt me, she went to meet the other girl.
After our fight, I logged out of my own social media accounts. Somehow, I ended up logged into hers. I genuinely don’t know how it happened, but I had access to her account. I know I shouldn’t have looked, but I did. I saw the chats, calls, photos, and everything that confirmed what had been happening. Later, I think she realized I had accessed her account. She asked about it, I denied it, and she dropped the subject, but I think she knows I saw something.
We met yesterday. I acted completely normal and didn’t confront her. We had a drink together, and then she suddenly said, “I have to tell you something.” She told me she had gone to meet the other girl. I didn’t shout or argue. I simply pushed her away and told her not to touch me or talk to me. She seemed genuinely surprised by my reaction. Then she immediately told me to relax and claimed she was “just kidding.” She repeatedly apologized for joking and even bowed down to my feet while apologizing.
At the same time, she kept telling me how much she loves me, that she can’t stay away from me, and that she has never felt this level of comfort, love, happiness, and connection with anyone else. Part of me feels like she only brought up meeting the other girl because she suspected I already knew and wanted to see how I would react.
To make things worse, after they met, the other girl posted a picture of them wearing rings with the caption “engaged.” It was deleted later, but people who knew about my relationship with her had already seen it. I feel deeply humiliated and embarrassed.
I’m completely confused. I don’t understand what’s going on in her head. I don’t know whether she genuinely loves me, whether she’s keeping me around for emotional support, or whether she’s simply trying to keep everyone in her life for different reasons. She constantly tells me she needs my love, care, and attention and says I’m the only person who gives her those feelings, yet her actions don’t match her words.
I’m trauma bonded to this relationship, and that’s what’s making this so difficult. A part of me wants to confront her with everything I know. Another part wants to stay quiet and show no reaction. And, if I’m being completely honest, another part of me wants to make her feel the same pain she made me feel by making her dependent on me and then walking away.
I genuinely don’t know what to do anymore, and I need an honest outside perspective because I feel like I’ve completely lost myself. I wanna know her POV pretend you are her(a manipulative, narcissistic person)

Pretend you are a manipulative and narcissistic. And please give me advice, I want a soft sweet payback i have endured a lot. I don’t wanna let her get away with this anymore.

I’m in a relationship with someone who I believe has been manipulative and emotionally controlling. From everything I’ve found out, she’s involved with multiple people at the same time. There’s one girl who, from what I understand, is providing her with financial support and a path to a visa, so I believe she stays in that relationship because it benefits her. At the same time, she’s also talking to her ex again and messaging other girls.
Recently, we had a fight. Right after I left, she contacted her ex. The next day, despite me previously telling her how much it would hurt me, she went to meet the other girl.
After our fight, I logged out of my own social media accounts. Somehow, I ended up logged into hers. I genuinely don’t know how it happened, but I had access to her account. I know I shouldn’t have looked, but I did. I saw the chats, calls, photos, and everything that confirmed what had been happening. Later, I think she realized I had accessed her account. She asked about it, I denied it, and she dropped the subject, but I think she knows I saw something.
We met yesterday. I acted completely normal and didn’t confront her. We had a drink together, and then she suddenly said, “I have to tell you something.” She told me she had gone to meet the other girl. I didn’t shout or argue. I simply pushed her away and told her not to touch me or talk to me. She seemed genuinely surprised by my reaction. Then she immediately told me to relax and claimed she was “just kidding.” She repeatedly apologized for joking and even bowed down to my feet while apologizing.
At the same time, she kept telling me how much she loves me, that she can’t stay away from me, and that she has never felt this level of comfort, love, happiness, and connection with anyone else. Part of me feels like she only brought up meeting the other girl because she suspected I already knew and wanted to see how I would react.
To make things worse, after they met, the other girl posted a picture of them wearing rings with the caption “engaged.” It was deleted later, but people who knew about my relationship with her had already seen it. I feel deeply humiliated and embarrassed.
I’m completely confused. I don’t understand what’s going on in her head. I don’t know whether she genuinely loves me, whether she’s keeping me around for emotional support, or whether she’s simply trying to keep everyone in her life for different reasons. She constantly tells me she needs my love, care, and attention and says I’m the only person who gives her those feelings, yet her actions don’t match her words.
I’m trauma bonded to this relationship, and that’s what’s making this so difficult. A part of me wants to confront her with everything I know. Another part wants to stay quiet and show no reaction. And, if I’m being completely honest, another part of me wants to make her feel the same pain she made me feel by making her dependent on me and then walking away.
I genuinely don’t know what to do anymore, and I need an honest outside perspective because I feel like I’ve completely lost myself.

Pretend you are a manipulative and narcissistic. And please give me advice, I want a soft sweet revenge i have endured a lot. I don’t wanna let her get away with this anymore.

I’m in a relationship with someone who I believe has been manipulative and emotionally controlling. From everything I’ve found out, she’s involved with multiple people at the same time. There’s one girl who, from what I understand, is providing her with financial support and a path to a visa, so I believe she stays in that relationship because it benefits her. At the same time, she’s also talking to her ex again and messaging other girls.
Recently, we had a fight. Right after I left, she contacted her ex. The next day, despite me previously telling her how much it would hurt me, she went to meet the other girl.
After our fight, I logged out of my own social media accounts. Somehow, I ended up logged into hers. I genuinely don’t know how it happened, but I had access to her account. I know I shouldn’t have looked, but I did. I saw the chats, calls, photos, and everything that confirmed what had been happening. Later, I think she realized I had accessed her account. She asked about it, I denied it, and she dropped the subject, but I think she knows I saw something.
We met yesterday. I acted completely normal and didn’t confront her. We had a drink together, and then she suddenly said, “I have to tell you something.” She told me she had gone to meet the other girl. I didn’t shout or argue. I simply pushed her away and told her not to touch me or talk to me. She seemed genuinely surprised by my reaction. Then she immediately told me to relax and claimed she was “just kidding.” She repeatedly apologized for joking and even bowed down to my feet while apologizing.
At the same time, she kept telling me how much she loves me, that she can’t stay away from me, and that she has never felt this level of comfort, love, happiness, and connection with anyone else. Part of me feels like she only brought up meeting the other girl because she suspected I already knew and wanted to see how I would react.
To make things worse, after they met, the other girl posted a picture of them wearing rings with the caption “engaged.” It was deleted later, but people who knew about my relationship with her had already seen it. I feel deeply humiliated and embarrassed.
I’m completely confused. I don’t understand what’s going on in her head. I don’t know whether she genuinely loves me, whether she’s keeping me around for emotional support, or whether she’s simply trying to keep everyone in her life for different reasons. She constantly tells me she needs my love, care, and attention and says I’m the only person who gives her those feelings, yet her actions don’t match her words.
I’m trauma bonded to this relationship, and that’s what’s making this so difficult. A part of me wants to confront her with everything I know. Another part wants to stay quiet and show no reaction. And, if I’m being completely honest, another part of me wants to make her feel the same pain she made me feel by making her dependent on me and then walking away.
I genuinely don’t know what to do anymore, and I need an honest outside perspective because I feel like I’ve completely lost myself. I wanna know her POV pretend you are her(a manipulative, narcissistic person)

I’m in a relationship with someone who I believe has been manipulative and emotionally controlling. From everything I’ve found out, she’s involved with multiple people at the same time. There’s one girl who, from what I understand, is providing her with financial support and a path to a visa, so I believe she stays in that relationship because it benefits her. At the same time, she’s also talking to her ex again and messaging other girls.
Recently, we had a fight. Right after I left, she contacted her ex. The next day, despite me previously telling her how much it would hurt me, she went to meet the other girl.
After our fight, I logged out of my own social media accounts. Somehow, I ended up logged into hers. I genuinely don’t know how it happened, but I had access to her account. I know I shouldn’t have looked, but I did. I saw the chats, calls, photos, and everything that confirmed what had been happening. Later, I think she realized I had accessed her account. She asked about it, I denied it, and she dropped the subject, but I think she knows I saw something.
We met yesterday. I acted completely normal and didn’t confront her. We had a drink together, and then she suddenly said, “I have to tell you something.” She told me she had gone to meet the other girl. I didn’t shout or argue. I simply pushed her away and told her not to touch me or talk to me. She seemed genuinely surprised by my reaction. Then she immediately told me to relax and claimed she was “just kidding.” She repeatedly apologized for joking and even bowed down to my feet while apologizing.
At the same time, she kept telling me how much she loves me, that she can’t stay away from me, and that she has never felt this level of comfort, love, happiness, and connection with anyone else. Part of me feels like she only brought up meeting the other girl because she suspected I already knew and wanted to see how I would react.
To make things worse, after they met, the other girl posted a picture of them wearing rings with the caption “engaged.” It was deleted later, but people who knew about my relationship with her had already seen it. I feel deeply humiliated and embarrassed.
I’m completely confused. I don’t understand what’s going on in her head. I don’t know whether she genuinely loves me, whether she’s keeping me around for emotional support, or whether she’s simply trying to keep everyone in her life for different reasons. She constantly tells me she needs my love, care, and attention and says I’m the only person who gives her those feelings, yet her actions don’t match her words.
I’m trauma bonded to this relationship, and that’s what’s making this so difficult. A part of me wants to confront her with everything I know. Another part wants to stay quiet and show no reaction. And, if I’m being completely honest, another part of me wants to make her feel the same pain she made me feel by making her dependent on me and then walking away.
I genuinely don’t know what to do anymore, and I need an honest outside perspective because I feel like I’ve completely lost myself. I wanna know her POV pretend you are her(a manipulative, narcissistic person)

I’m in a relationship with someone who I believe has been manipulative and emotionally controlling. From everything I’ve found out, she’s involved with multiple people at the same time. There’s one girl who, from what I understand, is providing her with financial support and a path to a visa, so I believe she stays in that relationship because it benefits her. At the same time, she’s also talking to her ex again and messaging other girls.
Recently, we had a fight. Right after I left, she called her ex. The next day, despite me previously telling her how much it would hurt me, she went to meet the other girl.
After our fight, I logged out of my own social media accounts. Somehow, I ended up logged into hers. I genuinely don’t know how it happened, but I had access to her account. I know I shouldn’t have looked, but I did. I saw the chats, calls, photos, and everything that confirmed what had been happening. Later, I think she realized I had accessed her account. She asked about it, I denied it, and she dropped the subject, but I think she knows I saw something.
We met yesterday. I acted completely normal and didn’t confront her. We had a drink together, and then she suddenly said, “I have to tell you something.” She told me she had gone to meet the other girl. I didn’t shout or argue. I simply pushed her away and told her not to touch me or talk to me. She seemed genuinely surprised by my reaction. Then she immediately told me to relax and claimed she was “just kidding.” She repeatedly apologized for joking and even bowed down to my feet while apologizing.
At the same time, she kept telling me how much she loves me, that she can’t stay away from me, and that she has never felt this level of comfort, love, happiness, and connection with anyone else. Part of me feels like she only brought up meeting the other girl because she suspected I already knew and wanted to see how I would react.
To make things worse, after they met, the other girl posted a picture of them wearing rings with the caption “engaged.” It was deleted later, but people who knew about my relationship with her had already seen it. I feel deeply humiliated and embarrassed.
I’m completely confused. I don’t understand what’s going on in her head. I don’t know whether she genuinely loves me, whether she’s keeping me around for emotional support, or whether she’s simply trying to keep everyone in her life for different reasons. She constantly tells me she needs my love, care, and attention and says I’m the only person who gives her those feelings, yet her actions don’t match her words.
I’m trauma bonded to this relationship, and that’s what’s making this so difficult. A part of me wants to confront her with everything I know. Another part wants to stay quiet and show no reaction. And, if I’m being completely honest, another part of me wants to make her feel the same pain she made me feel by making her dependent on me and then walking away. I know that isn’t a healthy way to think, but that’s where my mind is because I’m so hurt.
I genuinely don’t know what to do anymore, and I need an honest outside perspective because I feel like I’ve completely lost myself.