Accidentally became part of an avihitham even though I was completely innocent
This is one of the traumatic experience I had…
I studied in ekm for a few years.. after that all my frnds left… but I stayed for work…
At that time I was staying in a hostel and I had this roommate Chechi .. she’s so sweet and so helping…
Later both of us decided to move out..
finding a good place to stay was a hectic process for us… Finally we got this rented upstairs place…
Life actually became peaceful.
Then every weekend, this guy and a small child would come visit her. We’d all go out… but half of the time she’d make me baby sit…
And the child called her’kunja’
I genuinely thought they were husband, wife, and child. Like full cute little family setup.
Then one random day, chechi packed all her things and casually told me:
I’ll be back in a week.
She never came back.
No calls. No messages. Nothing.
After weeks of confusion, I started stalking her Instagram. Then I saw a post.
Her and that guy standing in front of some resort or smthg
“Finally together ❤️”
BRO WHAT DO YOU MEAN FINALLY TOGETHER????
I THOUGHT Y’ALL WERE ALREADY MARRIED 😭
Turns out… that man already had a wife and the chid was theirs.
This Chechi was his side chick
And somehow… I became the villain in everyone’s story
Her parents got my number and literally yelled at me saying I supported their daughter. Another lady from my workplace side accused me too because she knew the actual wife’s side. Since people always saw me hanging around with the child, they assumed I was involved in the whole thing.njn ee kochine Kond funtura il povarunn.. the lady who was this actual wife’s company kaari thought I’m this wife’s frnd…so avark ahnnu doubt thonni illa.. pinne ithokke arinjappo they thought I’m the helper of this avihitham
I explained everything to both sides and ellam onnu odhukki teerth… I came back to my stay… appo there is this house help chechi … that Chechi casually fun ayitt parayuva.. they thought njn ahnu that chekkante koode poyenn… njn ah.. ah home wrecker nn Avaru vicharich nn… u know y?? There is this stereotype that south side ppl are scammers…
Ithinu okke njn entha cheyyandey..😭 then I immediately shifted places… now I have this serious trust issues…
How do you go back to trusting people normally again?
And is becoming extra cautious/prejudging people actually a bad thing… or just adult survival skills?