I'm tired of the loud minority of women hating on men.
Hey 22/F, I'm like ultra uber gay (so before some idiot tries to be like "YoUr JuSt a PiCk me.") - No I'm not.
My thoughts are sort of a mess and may come off as offensive in some way. I am sorry in advance, I tried to structure it as best as possible. As well as censor myself, but this is literally driving me up a wall.
[Edit: The paragraph that was here was misinformation, it has been deleted.]
Edit 2: This is not a post about society or how society works, this is a post about minority of women bashing on random men ONLINE. This isn't about politics or why the current world is a Partiarchy or power dynamics between men or women. Just stop bashing on Jim who works a 9-5 for your problems (this is literally it) please stop turning it into something it's not.
To put it bluntly, I do not like MISANDRISTS or Misogynists (but that can be another rant for another day)
I hear the same arguments. That basically boil down to: Man Bad! Woman Good. Guys it isn't a fucking competition. But these people take every opportunity to just bash on men. Then they are same people wondering why the fuck no man wants to go near them. (You just listed every reason you hate them you clever girl. It's almost like spreading hate doesn't help you get boys.)
Here's an example, men mental health awareness month.
Maybe I'm like chronically online, but some girl was like ultra insensitive about the fact that men have struggles just like women. They're fucking humans just like you, you actual bafoon. Just remembering this makes me angry. I should stop. It's just like how fucking BRAIN DEAD are you to think that people would agree with you?
They're humans just like you or did we forget that in your blind rage because, "men are meant to tough it out." - They're not, men are more often going to (alt+f4) than women. (This is a fact if you search it up online collected by WHO and you can probably find more.)
I just got into like an argument with some idiot. She was like, "It isn't that hard, why can't men hold each other accountable." And it's like where did your brain cells go seriously? Like did your mom drop you on the head as a child? Or what the fuck happened to you?
Okay let me like break down this argument down to the core.
Men like most people will not hold themselves accountable on a stranger's behalf because guess fucking what? They're STRANGERS THEY DON'T KNOW EACH OTHER. Example: John murdered someone. Micheal from HR in Russia isn't gonna hold John Accountable he doesn't even know who John is?
What you're asking for is unrealistic. Why should every man hold each other accountable? It just isn't possible there's literal billions of them.
HOLD YOURSELF TO THE SAME RIDICULOUS STANDARDS YOU PUT ON MEN THEN.
I was talking to my friend I just remember talking to him and being like, "I fucking can't, I swear this is a CIA psyop there's no fucking way people are this stupid..."
This was by the way explaining the same thing to 3 different girls every time. Like how clear do I have to be? Do I have to give the same lecture to 1 million people, like fuck me I guess, I guess critical thinking is out the window.
WHY WON'T STRANGERS WILL TAKE ACCOUNTABILITY FOR ANOTHER STRANGERS ACTIONS?!?!
OMFG it's ALMOST LIKE THEY DON'T KNOW EACH OTHER YOU FUCKING (insert insult of choice in here)
I fucking can't with these people, I will be put in a mental institution because I refuse to believe these people are real.
I actually really want to talk to one. Just to tell them how stupid they are.
And yes, I like hanging out with men I think they're easier to talk to, they are in my experience more open with their thoughts and opinions on things.
But okay, I've listed out the reasons. Where does this lead us?
Well, it gives rest of us a bad reputation, which in turn leads to turning a few Men into misogynists which we do not need more of. Eg: "Women Stupid, Women bad." which only adds to the cycle of hate.
Now I understand this isn't all women or all men, but I'm sick of just opening up the Internet and seeing this stuff happen.
Alright I'm done ranting..thanks for coming to my Ted Talk.