u/Proof-Grapefruit-138

I’ve talked to a lot of married women… esp those who are happy and green flag na lalaki..

Friend 1: She said that she wrote down a list of his characters… Even being a foodie… Then, she dreamt about her kid being carried by a guy. Then, later on realized that it was her (now) hubby.

Friend 2: This friend is treated like a queen by her hubby! Grabe, like whatever she needs, hubby makes it happen. Like she needs couturier kunyare, hubby was the one talking to people and making plans. Hubby drover her to & from the shop. Hubby paid for her Php 20k+ gown. Hubby bought her designer shoes for the event.
Sabi naman nya, she went to Baclaran church and prayed for “THE ONE”

Friend 3: Rich hubby, smart, nice, Godly.
She said, she prayed for her dream guy since she was little. Value, character, lifestyle etc..

I wanna know who else has a story like this :)
Pampa good vibes this Sunday!

Hi. I’m 33F from the Philippines.

So, recently my mom called me moody.

My mom has been one of the reasons of many of my childhood problems. I suspect she also has mental issues that she won’t address. So, we always clash/ argue. She knows I have BPD.

Correct me if I’m wrong but being moody is one of the signs of BPD. I’m diagnosed by a psychiatrist, taking medicine and continuously talking to a therapist.

It hurts to be called that & I’m thinking of telling her.. But I know she would take it negatively. She always does if you say anything that doesn’t align with her.

I’m still living with my parents. It’s a common thing in our country. And I’m saving up for my business. So, I have to interact with her constantly… Should I even bother telling her?

I'm selling wedding gowns on ETSY. So, it is a big investment for customers. So, A 4.6 Rating & 1 bad review is a big deal.

I'm offering a custom sizing option but she ordered a standard size US 8.
Also, she ordered during the time when the USA tariff was placed.
We had to change shipping because the original shipment was no longer accepting USA shipments. Also, USA charges 20% tariff upon arrival of the shipment.

I told her all about it before I ship her gown.

When she posted her review, I sent her a message to make suggestions for alteration. She still didn't change her review.

She gave me 3 stars & she even admitted that it was not my fault that she had to pay additional charges but she was so upset that she had to.

What should I do?

Problem/Goal: Did my social anxiety fail me? What’s the right thing to do after I fell on the resort’s property and hit my head? Would you demand anything? Would you be upset?

Context:
I went to a dive resort for a day tour yesterday. While waiting for a boat at their dock, I slipped on algae that blended in with the concrete and fell hard, hitting my back and head.
I didn't make a scene at the time because of social anxiety, but my nose started bleeding during my pre-dive warm-up. I called my doctor, who just advised against diving, ordered 24-hour bed rest, and told me not to drive. Despite informing the staff and the manager, nobody offered me medical assistance, a place to rest, or any help—not even a refund for the day tour I couldn't enjoy.
My parents insisted on a full ER workup (CT scan/X-rays) to rule out internal injuries. I initially brushed it off, but I’m now realizing how negligent the resort was.

Are my parents being "OA" by pushing for the ER, or is this standard?
Did I fail to advocate for myself because of my social anxiety?
How would you handle a situation like this, specifically regarding the resort’s lack of care?