Just what the title says, I’m up here solo from Reno for the 4th u wanted to watch the fireworks but having a hard time finding a good spot to hangout. Please let me know!
I am not stepping foot up there on the 4th, but I would love to see some of the festivities on Sunday.
Are things open later than normal and is it still overly? Minus maybe 50,000 people 😂
That’s what I’m hoping for tops appreciated
You can read the dates and times yourself.
For a while I was confused because I thought “hey stranger” meant she wanted to talk. Then when she didn’t respond I was like oh maybe it is about the hoodie. But then when she didn’t respond about it I figured cold feet.
The whole exchange is confusing cause if she wanted to talk I’d expect a response and if it was logistical I’d also would have expected a response.
Am I just overthinking this enormously or is she getting cold feet? Is she confused? Or is she telling the truth. I highly doubt it and atleast expect her to kind of be wanting me to chase.
Other than this I’ve been in no contact the entire time only responding when she breaks it.
Please give me your thoughts
So I’ve been on here a bit recently you can read my other threads. After almost 4 weeks she just texted me
“Hey stranger” I have your black hoodie if you want it”
I haven’t texted her once since the breakup. She hit me up once the day after asking how I was, a week later she came by and picked up some of her things, and then this. I have responded to each one but have not contacted her on my own.
I think she left items on purpose when she picked things up the first time, and 2 days ago I ran past her run club on accident and found I was blocked from seeing her stories on Instagram after.
Whole buncha mixed signals and bs and I don’t know what to respond with now.
Any help is appreciated .
So I’ve been on here a bit recently you can read my other threads. After almost 4 weeks she just texted me
“Hey stranger” I have your black hoodie if you want it”
I haven’t texted her once since the breakup. She hit me up once the day after asking how I was, a week later she came by and picked up some of her things, and then this. I have responded to each one but have not contacted her on my own.
I think she left items on purpose when she picked things up the first time, and 2 days ago I ran past her run club on accident and found I was blocked from seeing her stories on Instagram after.
Whole buncha mixed signals and bs and I don’t know what to respond with now.
Any help is appreciated .
It’s been 3 weeks since the breakup, I haven’t viewed her story once. 2 days ago I was running and I ran by a run club that she was participating in. I didn’t stop, I didn’t look, I didn’t even see her. But she probably saw me as I was a single runner coming toward them.
Not only did it make me feel horrible because she’s with this huge community and I was by myself but I went to her profile and realized I was blocked from her story shortly after. I can still see her stories from another account she did not block.
I’m curious as to why, is it for attention, to make me crack, is it because she’s moving on, is it because she thought I did it on purpose? Like why now after 3 weeks and it’s not the first time we have ran into each other.
Why do women remove me from viewing there stuff but don’t unfollow, don’t block, I’m just so confused and it’s making me spiral. I haven’t reached out once since the breakup she has twice high in the first week please someone try to explain her behavior.
Ok, here’s my story.
Me and my ex girlfriend met in November and just broke up a week ago. I’ve never been the insecure type of boyfriend but with her for some reason she brought it out of me pretty bad. Her past weighed heavy on me and I almost searched for fights. This went on and was heavy on the relationship for about a month or 2 and finally I broke the camels back by just being so overbearing and much more while she was on a trip in Italy.
She came back and told me we should talk and she broke things off with her reason being this, not loss of love, and she said definetely not loss of attraction but because of the insecurities.
Ironically I started therapy in 2 days which she was begging me to do for a while, which I was excited to share with her but it didn’t change her mind. She had been asking me to do it for quite some time.
Since that day I went no contact but she texted me the next day saying hope your doing ok today. I responded the next morning saying thanks for checking in, hope you have a good day.
A few days go by and she texts me again saying hey I need to get my contacts. She came to my place, got her stuff that was there and dropped some of my stuff off including notes she wrote to me. I mentioned I would be at a certain festival and later that night when I saw her out she mentioned she went to the same festival. Weird huh? (Makes sense later)
We also still had each others location and she had ig photos up until yesterday she deleted them both, the same day she picked up her stuff.
She mentioned circling back the day of the breakup but was firm on her decision. I’m curious to see if she will text again but it is kind of a push and pull for me thinking theirs a chance to show my growth, if I want to show my growth, and how to respond if she texts me
I mean we talked about marriage constantly even though the relationship was short we both said we never fell that hard and fast before.
We live in the same town and I’ve ran into her twice already which is tough. The talks are always ok , superficial, kind, and even some inside jokes slipped once. Ok this is when I mentioned I saw her out, I saw them at a bar. Last night I saw her and her friend and her friend asked are you sad Matt I replied saying yes of course she’s amazing how could I not be, had some small talk but she honestly seems so fine. I know there’s a shield up but I just see her moving on slowly despite making excuses to see me or text me. While simultaneously pulling away. And I’m just not sure what to think, if I’m over thinking it way to much, if the texts me anything, if it is an excuse to see me, but then why simultaneously pull away,
I guess I’m writing this to see if anyone has any clarity for me, it’s so hard to love someone and for them to love you but you have to breakup because of another reason which I wouldn’t honestly be working on if she didn’t do this so it was needed.
So final thoughts, should I work on myself, and try again with her if I honestly feel good about where I’m at? Should I have the hope that I will ever get the chance to try again with her? Should I completely go ghost? Should I text her in a month or 2. I just don’t know what to do and I’m so confused. I’ve never loved someone like that before. We were very compatible.
Is it best to just stay no contact until then even if she texts me again.
Also for the women out there do you guys see this and what do you think? How do some women find it so easy to just end the relationship instead of working on it, from your perspective what does all of this mean?