u/Radiant_Sir6429

Hey, I wanted to ask how you all handle frustration tolerance because I genuinely struggle with it and I’m trying to get better.

When something doesn’t go well for me, I get really frustrase sometimes to the point of crying and I end up feeling stupid or incompetent, even when rationally I know mistakes are normal.

But the part I find harder to deal with is in group work contexts: when I can see that someone else is making a mistake that’s going to affect the whole group’s outcome, and I’ve already pointed out the right approach but got dismissed, I get really angry. I don’t say anything in the moment because I don’t want to come across as arrogant or create conflict, but internally I’m fuming.

Has anyone dealt with something similar? How do you separate “I care about doing things right” from “I need to be right”? And how do you let go when you can see something going wrong and feel powerless to stop it?

Hey! I’m a 28-year-old guy from Argentina who recently started taking Portuguese classes. Still pretty early in the process so my level is basic, but I’d rather start practicing now than wait until I feel “ready” that day never really comes anyway.

Looking for someone around my age to chat with, whether it’s through text or voice, whatever feels natural. Doesn’t have to be super formal or structured, just real conversations to start getting used to the language outside of class. Native speakers or fellow learners both welcome!

CABA, 28, hombre. Las apps me tienen agotado así que lo intento por acá. Soy tranquilo, delgado, petiso, y con ganas de conocer gente de verdad. No tengo un objetivo fijo: puede ser alguien para hablar, para salir, o para lo que se dé. Si tenés +25 y querés charlar, mandame un mensaje

I have depression and anxiety, and honestly the hardest part isn’t even that, it’s the loneliness that comes with it. Nobody warns you that making friends as an adult is incredibly hard, and when your head is already in a difficult place, everything just gets heavier.

Most days I run on autopilot. I go to work, do what I have to do, and by the time I get home the silence feels heavy. I’m constantly tired, not just physically but in a way that sleep doesn’t really fix. And concentrating on anything has become genuinely hard, things that used to feel simple now take so much more effort than they should.

I want to get out of this. I really do. But I don’t always know how. It’s not like there’s a clear path and I’m just not taking it, it’s more like being stuck in a fog and not being able to see past it.

I do have professional support, and that helps. But there are still moments where it all feels uphill. I guess writing this is also a way of not carrying it alone.

If you’re going through something similar, I’d genuinely like to hear how you’re managing. Not looking for advice or quick fixes, just to know it’s not that weird to feel this way.

Hey everyone! I’m from Argentina and I recently started taking Portuguese classes. I’m still in the very first lessons so my level is pretty basic, but I genuinely believe the best way to learn a language is to start using it early rather than waiting until you feel “ready.”

Looking for people to practice with, whether it’s through chat, voice, whatever works. Doesn’t matter if you’re also learning or a native speaker with some patience lol. The goal is to incorporate the language into everyday life rather than just grinding grammar exercises.

Hola! Quería preguntarles a los que ya tienen más experiencia en el ambiente porteño. Estoy buscando lugares donde se pueda ir solo sin que se sienta raro, y donde sea fácil entablar charla y conocer gente de la comunidad.

No necesariamente busco una joda, más bien bares tranquis, eventos, o espacios donde el ambiente sea amigable para ir sin grupo.

Se los agradecería un montón. Soy de CABA pero si hay algo en el GBA también lo tomo.

Hola. No sé muy bien por qué escribo esto acá, supongo que necesito que alguien lo lea. Me siento solo hace bastante tiempo. No es que no tenga gente alrededor, pero igual hay algo que no cierra, como si estuviera en una burbuja y el mundo siguiera sin mí. A veces siento que la vida ya pasó y yo me la perdí, sin darme cuenta. No busco consejos ni soluciones. Solo quería decirlo en algún lado.

Hola gente, soy de caba y ando buscando lugares copados para salir en el ambiente. Boliche, bar, sauna, lo que sea. Idealmente que no salga un ojo de la cara porque el bolsillo no está para tanto jaja. ¿Alguno tiene recomendaciones?

Hola, ¿Hay alguien de CABA por acá para hacerse amigos y ver si pinta algo más? Yo soy de Villa Crespo.