u/Radioactive_Cakes

We both got really high the other night and I was talking about how someone was talking about him snd i dead named him by accident. I don’t even know how I could’ve done it because I’ve known him the majority of the time by his chosen name, there was only a brief time I knew him by his dead name. I was the person to really help him find who he truly is and I just feel like for me to mess up like this i feel so horrible. He has never messed up deadnaming me or misgendering me, but he also only known me by my chosen name and pronouns. I just don’t know what to do i feel like such a piece of shit for doing that. He says it’s ok but I don’t think it is, am I just overthinking?

Edit:
Thank you all for your nice words, yeah I’m just such an over thinker.

TLDR; Should I rebuild the stock shock assembly or just get coil overs?

I ordered some Kyb excel-g to replace my shocks, but I need new springs too, I didn’t check those. But I also need to rebuild the whole suspension anyway. I already spent 250~ for all the shocks, but if I spend like another $200~ that’s 450~ not even talking about the bad top hat and everything. I was thinking could I find an alright set of coil overs for the amount it would take to oem replace the whole shock assembly? The build isn’t for track or street, mainly for cruising and being a nice summer daily, more comfort oriented. I’m quite new to this and car stuff in general, this is my first project car, but aren’t coil overs mainly for track and lowering your car? Sorry if these are kinda dumb questions.

I was out dressing fem (not something I do a lot) at a Walmart kinda just hanging around (what else is there to do the nowheresville that is the Midwest) and the older gentleman was walking down the isle looking at me, tbh I got kinda nervous cause why wouldn’t we in the currently state of thing, but anyways he walks past and I mind my business. I’m in the sewing section looking at stuff and he walks past up to me as if he has something to say so I take out an ear bud and he says something I didn’t expect tbh. “I like your outfit, I which I could pull something like that off” (I was wearing some hot topic shorts, star patterned fish nets and knee high converse, some random black graphic tee nothing too noteworthy imo) and I just said thank you and we went our ways. Whether he was being sarcastic or not idc, that just made me SO FREAKING HAPPY.