No matter what restaurant you go to only the same three appetizers appear on the menu every time. What would you want them to be?
I know the photo is bad but I’m so happy with how good this turned out because I didn’t reference anything. It was my own spin on the incredible dish. The gnocchi makes for such better leftovers than mashed potatoes.
I'm kind of shocked by the attitudes of some the posts in this sub. People acting incredulous or spiteful that they haven't found the perfect bdsm partner that scratches that exact particular itch they have. I feel like the best thing you can do as someone that's looking for deeply satisfying bdsm experiences is to accept that you are in fact asking for the moon. Sex is already an incredibly sensitive, nuanced deeply personal experience, putting bdsm aspects on top of it exponentially makes it more complicated. You're asking for someone that:
I'm not saying it's impossible to find it. But the likelihood if finding it in a hook up. Or even within the first five times of hooking with someone comes off extremely naive to me. It's not impossible but extremely unlikely.
My partner and I have been playing regularly for about ten years now. For the first couple of years it was good but also felt clunky and like our wants and needs were bumping into each other and weren't complimentary. Then we did something that I think unknowingly gave us the tools to really create amazing bdsm sex. We went vanilla for a few years. We learned to enjoy each other without the bdsm aspects. We decided to slowly introduce the bdsm aspects and now we're back into it to a very intense degree and it's so incredible. We're so comfortable with each other so we're extremely good at articulating what we need. I also accept that soon, it's going to change and what I think I need now, won't be what I want next year. And it will change for him and what he needs may not be what it is today.
If you want the psychological rewards of a deep bdsm connection you have to be patient. I don't believe there's a shortcut for it. You just have to invest the time with a partner to learn each others communication styles and boundaries.
Never do anything you don't want to during sex. But also keep your expectations grounded in reality. Just because it's not amazing sex doesn't mean it's not good sex. Sometimes it takes a lot of just good sex with a partner to get to great sex.
Hey all! Just wanted to shout out this newish Georgian restaurant on Franklin that I’ve now had two amazing meals at. It‘s such a great addition to the neighborhood and something different. I bought my Georgian friend and she gave it her stamp of approval. We got a massive spread of appetizers and entrees and there wasnt a dud in bunch. Everything was delicious. It also has a ton of space which is such a breath of fresh air. So many restaurants here pack you in like sardines (Chinta cough* cough*) it’s great going somewhere where can have some space.
Next time you’re looking for something new or different, I recommend it. I don’t want to see this place close down and become another new American spot.
I know it’s nothing impressive at all but I’m still happy about it. I bowl maybe once a year and last year I got 98 and choked on the last frame. Just recently played 4 games and 2/4 I broke 100 with 101 and 103. Makes me want to bowl more frequently. 150 is next.