u/Reasonable-Dog8036

I (23yrs) feel like I’m never gonna get married because I’m never gonna find my type. alhamdulilah im super religious, and I get a lot of guys proposing and they’re all really good people with great careers but they’re just not religious enough.

I dont watch movies, listen to music, wear make up or perfume outside, im constantly trying to learn new things in the deen, etc. and i need a spouse whos on the same page.

A lot of the men i meet love this about me and say theyre also trying and want a women to help but i dont want to help. It makes me feel like the leader (masculine) and it just doesnt feel good to constantly be the one saying this is haram/lets fast together/lets watch lectures etc because I want the man to initiate.

It feels like im either gonna have to accept this or just stop meeting people and decide to never get married (just focus on my deen) because the process is really tiring and its the same disappointment every time.

Edit: this a rant post. Im not opening a door for men to dm me marriage offerings. And thank you to all understanding girlies and the ones with advice <3 couldn’t reply to everyone

Hi! Is there a reddit community for people who want to sell things?
My sister had to create an all natural walstad tank for a project and now she doesnt need it anymore
If anyones interested in that type of thing please dm me! (Tank, rocks, plants, & soil all included)

شنو الذ مطعم او مكان يسوي سلطات؟ مشتهيه بس دشيت كيتا و احترت

Hoping there are lawyers here or someone experienced :’)

A (ex) friend owes me around 350 KWD, she told me she’d pay me back then keeps trying to get out of it.

Can i sue? Its not even about the money anymore im just pissed.

The problem is, we obviously dont have a signed contract or anything, but i do have her chats on whatsapp with proof of all the money she owes and screenshots of bank statements, is this enough?

TL;DR: Fiance is going through a lot and its starting to emotionally impact me. When does it stop being ‘im being there for him’ and starts becoming ‘im being there for me’

I cant believe im posting on here but i really need an outside pov (and advice)

I (21F) and my fiance (27M) have been together for almost 3 years. Recently hes been going through A LOT. He lost his job, had to leave the country (and his family), hes responsible for his mum and he couldnt take her with him so hes been worrying on how to get her, just a lot of stress.

Anyway, i get it, i wanna be there for him, and ive been trying my best, but lately he started changing with me. Hes more distant, he doesnt talk to me about anything, hes mean when we argue, i feel like he disregards my feelings when im upset, gives me the silent treatment for hours, argues with me over the tiniest things, etc

I have this constant feeling that im supposed to suck everything up and not talk about my feelings out of respect for everything hes going through. Like im not allowed to be upset by his behaviour/words because hes dealing with so much and im supposed to handle it because im his partner and hes going through a rough patch.

When does it become selfish to start making this about me and my feelings too? I thought of telling him that we take a break until hes better but that feels selfish too. Like im telling him idw deal with u at ur worst and only want the good parts.

Idk what to do. Im constantly questioning his love for me, feeling emotionally exhausted and uncared for but also understanding why hes being this way.

Tysm if u read this far.

Hi! I just got a job offer in Oman and I want to go, however i currently live with my mum, im her sole provider and caretaker, shes 60+ in age, would it be possible she get residency in Oman as well? Shes not going to work.

Thank you so much!