u/Recent_Inspector5670

It gonna be a big rant. So, I Finished My Inter after the big chuck of 2.5 years and finally passed my exams. Of course since I was only grinding for my exams for 2 years, I couldn't make any social life and whatever was there I literally subtoaged it. So, Once I Passed Inter, I Really Thought that I should start being more social.

I got selected in One of the good Mid size firms in bangalore by gods grace. What followed after is the nightmare. I selected for a team with just 5 members (even thought my office has other bigger groups). From the beginning everything was Nice, but later all these five people particularly started ignoring me specially for breaks or any little social thing. Like they won't even ask me whether you had lunch or not in whole day. But Whenever it comes to work, I always put in place and criticized and pointed that I'm wrong.

Believe Me. I can talk very well. It's not like I'm an introvert. I can talk more than 4 languages 🥲🥲. Yet I'm the one who's left out in that room out of all. It feels bad to sit alone during lunch and breaks everyday, while everyone in the entire cabin somehow manages to include their teammates, yet my teammates are the only one who's turned to be Asshole.

I have made consistent effort to mingle with this group since starting, believe Me. After 5 months, it gave zero outcome. Before saying go and talk to other groups, it's too late 🥲🥲 because Already other groups have got setup and now If I go and talk it will look desperate.

Everyday I come out from office with headache. Like even zero person in that office to show empathy, everyday drains me out. Recently opted threapy just for this thing.

So, I Always think is it me who always bound to be alone. I Even blame my looks for it. Like I'm very mature for my age, is it why people ignore me everywhere and end up being Alone in all places despite of all my efforts.

People who ask to change the work place, it's really nice firm. Their salary package is Nice. It's very hard to get that exposure and salary outside. But everyday my office drains me out. What Makes me feel is, there is not even single person in that office who could see that someone sits alone and have empathy for me.

And I have done all efforts. Yet this is the result. So, Am I Always bound to be alone. I wonder Whyy. Why it always happens to me.

I know this sounds ironic. Because I Myself is just 24 years. But I Always find it hard even to connect with people who are 21, 20 and 19. The Point is I have never felt like a teenager when I was Actually in teenager. I don't know, if it boils down to my looks Because I have Always looked matured for my Age.

I haven't played pubg, Free fire,... blah blah.. Which My friends used to play when we were in college. So I Never have felt young TBH. Right now in my office, I don't even feel relatable with my 22 and 21 years colleague.

So, Tell me. What I should do feel relatable to my own Gen z. I'm Asking this in teenage sub, becoz teenagers tends to be more clear 😭😭 on solving such issues. because I as a teenager was...

Are we living in this country for real. Smhhhhhhh...

It's been 3 month in this office. Ek bhi banda not asking me whether I eat daily or invite me to any break daily. Now You May think I'm not someone who talks well with them. They talk well, laugh every time during the breaks. But Never Calls me for any lunch break or anything that happens. I don't even feel belong in this group. For Context, it is group of just 6 people (including me). But the other 5 constantly avoid me in everything. Don't even know what to do.

And one thing is not being able to talk and being an introvert 😭😭. I Talk very well. Yet being constantly ignored by this Assholes. It Affects my work so much. I don't know what to do about this....

I'm Reading lots of Funny posts in this sub lately about targeting "Particular" religion about how they hate women and usage of words like Love Jihad.

First of All. All Religions are **SAME** When it comes to women. Some people say it openly without hiding and others don't. That's it.

And the word Love Jihad itself Misognistic. I Mean. What do you mean by someone "fooling" women to make fall in love with them and women doesn't have brain to understand it. Funny Part is, if a Muslim women loves a Hindu Gu, and coverts him, it's not called as Love Jihad. (Their logic is women can be manipulated and changed easily).

Converting to Religion. Converting to Someone's Language, Culture is faced by All women. Bengali Marrying a Tamil, Punjabi Marrying a Telugu will Automatically be forced to adopt their culture. Just because you don't like some religion, you cannot compartmentalize universal experience of women into some religion or culture. All Religions are Against women (YESS. YOURS TOO. PLEASE COME TO ARGUMENT IF YOU CAN).

So, Admins Please kindly ban the word Love Jihad here. This sub is filled with right wing cadre at this point. Atleast make this sub safer for women, even though women barely even have safety in this country.

THANKS.