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I recently bought about 3 $8 Tarot readings from a single shop on Etsy. I went into it with a lot of caution because I know fast, cheap readers don’t exactly have the best reputation in the spiritual community.

When I ordered, I gave her my name, my ex’s name, our birthdays, and a very brief 5-sentence backstory. She delivered a really amazing, incredibly long reading. She even mentioned a few specific things that resonated perfectly with what my ex told me when we originally broke up.

Fast forward to yesterday: I had lunch with my ex after weeks of no contact and a really horrible, spiteful break up. I ended up reading the Etsy reading out loud to him. He was completely amazed by how spot-on she was, especially considering I hadn't given her much info at all. He even told me I need to go leave her a 5-star review.

know people usually warn against these types of shops, so it got me wondering—has anyone else had surprisingly great experiences with cheap, Same-Hour Tarot readers on Etsy? Or did I just luck out and find a hidden gem?

My boyfriend and I have been dating on and off for 3 years. He went to jail in 2023 and I stayed for 7 months of his 2 year sentence. He got out last year in late January and we dated from then to April 29 of this year. I have a bit of a reputation for being kind of crazy and irrational when i’m mad but I’ve calmed down a lot over the last year and overall I think i’ve been a good girlfriend (cooking, cleaning buying gifts for his family over Christmas when he didn’t have a job, helping him rebuild his life after jail)

Anyway, in April I went through his phone and caught him texting a girl from work, and while the texts never crossed any lines, the secrecy didn’t sit well with me. I ended up confronting him and texting her and ultimately he lost his job. The break up was bad and he ended up blocking me everywhere. We had a face to face talk about a week later where he cried and expressed that he couldn’t trust me anymore and we each need to work on ourselves. I wrote a letter expressing that i’m not perfect and apologizing for all the wrong i’ve done. he told me he loved me but couldn’t be with me anymore, he gave me about five kisses, held me for a while and went home.

I was also 8 weeks pregnant. He said we were in no position to have a baby right now but it was ultimately my choice and that he would still be there. On Sunday I started bleeding and I asked him to go to the hospital with me and he never answered. He was supposed to go with me to an appointment this upcoming Monday but I ended up miscarrying the baby on Wednesday and I still haven’t told him yet.

He asked for space and at first I wasn’t giving it to him. I was still texting and calling. It wasnt until that Sunday where I realized if there was any hope for us I would have to leave him alone, maybe if I went silent he would miss me. I went no contact finally. On Wednesday I noticed he briefly unblocked me before blocking me again on Instagram. On Thursday he texted our mutual friend asking if i’m okay because I haven’t been bothering him. She ended up asking him if he wanted to see a new movie and he said he was planning on seeing that movie with my dad (who he was pretty cool with throughout our relationship) once everything cooled down between him and I. I guess my question is, is this the behavior of somebody who is done with me?

My ex and I broke up two saturdays ago. We’ve dated consistently for a year and a half after he got out of jail. Before that, we dated for a month or so. He’s blocked me before but has always unblocked me to look at my stuff. He blocked me on that Saturday. The next day it showed “Instagram User” and no profile photo for our chat in our DMs and it stayed that way until Wednesday when it repopulated his Profile pic and Name in my dms. When I click on it, it still says “user not found”. Then yesterday morning and this morning it went back to “instagram user” and no profile picture. After a refresh it brings his name back but no profile picture and after one more refresh, it brings back everything and stays that way until the next morning. This is the first time he hasn’t unblocked me to watch my stories but our break up was pretty bad. Does anybody know what this could mean? Could he be unblocking me to lurk and then blocking me again after wards?

My ex and I broke up two saturdays ago. He blocked me on that Saturday. The next day it showed “Instagram User” and no profile photo for our chat in our DMs and it stayed that way until Wednesday when it repopulated his Profile pic and Name in my dms. When I click on it, it still says “user not found”. Then yesterday morning and this morning it went back to “instagram user” and no profile picture. After a refresh it brings his name back but no profile picture and after one more refresh, it brings back everything and stays that way until the next morning. Does anybody know what this could mean?