Does this seem toxic?
Hi all,
I’m 23 yo working in IT field . So my gf( from same clg and class) she is in Bangalore.
So prshanam enthanen vecha her family is modern. Like avarku enne ariyam and avar nalle supportive aanu. But my family korach orthodox aanu. Ente ammayk ee relation ariyam amma completely satisfied alla enklum ok aan. enk achnod ipo ith parayanm enn illa but she is forcing me. Naml usually orupad vazhak idarond but end of the day namk ariyam how to manage it enn athond ath ok aanu. Appo inn oru issue inday ente sister (12th) avalk tuitionu kond aakanm. So avale kond vidar aan pathiv and my gf used to ask “ nthina kond vidunne aval poykolule” ennoke. Njn ith veetil choichitt ind bus keri poya pore enoke but avark pedi aanu. Ente gf ith paranj vazhak idarond innude itte ollu.
Inn nammal samsarichond irikuayrn so appo amma vilichit sis ine kond aakan paranju. Appo gf told “ nee ponda avalod valla auto vilich pokan para “ enn njn paranj already late aay so patula inn kond vidanam enn. Appo athum itbum paranj vazhak aay njn cut aaki. But finally sis auto il poy. Okay ent korach kayinj gf enne vilichu ent parayuan” nee inn thanne achnod parayanm namlde karym” enn njn paranju patula enk budhimutt ond enoke. But she is insisting me to do that.
What should I do Pls help
Incidents like this happens sometimes and I feel bad sometimes. Avalde prshanm aanelm ath thirich ulta aaki enne confuse aakarindu
Ella girls um ingne aano? Or ente issue aano ith…..