AIO for wanting to go no contact with my “partner” for how he speaks to me?
I’m 38f, my long term “partner” 48m, has progressively gotten meaner over the years. I may him when I was 21 and he was 31, I was young, naive, and came from an unfortunate upbringing. He seemed like my savior.
Over the years, he’s progressively gotten meaner and more controlling. Now anytime I share a view that differs from his or even make a decision that differs from the one he would have chosen, I’m berated.
This past weekend something in me snapped.
I’ve never in my life had a new car, I make good money, no kids, little expenses, generally responsible.
So I’ve been looking at the new Rivian r2 and placed a $100 deposit on new orders. I sent a screenshot of my reservation to him, we will call him “Billy.” He went on and on about how Tesla is better yada yada.
The next day he sent me a video of a rivian review from someone he happens to respect. That’s where this text chain picks up.
Am I overreacting for snapping and wanting to block and go no contact with this person ?