u/Remarkable_Ad5003

I just want someone to marry me. I am sweet, kind, hardworking, loving and 35. Never had a guy love me and make me his priority!. I was to experience that. I was to be loved and cared for 💔😭

I am a 35 year old lady with a degree in nutrition and a masters degree in food quality management.
I have worked in various capacities in food quality and production over 11 years.

I relocated 2 years ago to Ontario and struggling really hard to find work.

Looking for a job in the food industry. My experiences include CFIA regulations, HACCP,ISO22000,quality assurance and quality control systems, production supervision.

Anyone interested in employing me or directing me to a job will be my savior. I am hardworking, reliable and professional, someone please help me. The rejections and silence from employers is killing me.

sorry for my long post
I (F35) met this guy two weeks ago at a party. We exchanged numbers and didn’t talk until 3 days ago on Tuesday. Out of nowhere he messaged me asking if i could meet him for dinner after work. I thought he was cute and agreed to meet him, after all i am trying to date and meet people.
At the dinner he (41M) said he was going through a divorce (red flag 1.) we talked a lot about our jobs and schedules.
I work in a food processing company as a production supervisor and i work 12/h shifts Monday to Friday. He drives the TTC and works mornings, goes home for 3 hours and works afternoons.
When i got home around 10pm after the date he called me on video for another 2 hours and i kept saying i needed to sleep cos i had work the next day and this guy wont let me sleep. Of cos i was late to work the next day. He called on video again while i was at work and i mentioned to him that it is not right for me to use my phone in a factory. I would message and called him throughout the day at the slightest chance i got cos he was needy i noticed.
I got home around 8pm and we kept talking the whole night till 12 midnight. He called me again on Thursday morning at 6am while i was still sleeping. I got to work at 7 am and he called again. I messaged him that i had a training session at work and would not be in touch till i am done. He kept calling and texting me asking how the day is. When he took his midday break he texted me saying he was home and in bed and lonely. I responded that i was sorry but i couldn’t talk cos my day wasn’t going good. I actually had a machine breakdown and was trying to troubleshoot the issue.
I didnt go to my phone again until i finished my shift at 7 and immediately texted him that i was done with work. He called and i was in the drive through getting something to eat cos i missed my lunch break and was so hungry. So i asked him to let me eat and talk to him when i get home. He hung up on me without saying anything and texted me “it seems i am bothering you”.

I was so mad at this. I literally had a bad day at work and hadn’t eaten anything in over 10 hours and this guy is making it about himself. He just wants to talk. Talk about what exactly? We have been on the phone more than 9 hours in the 3 days we have been talking. So i told him he is too needy and nags and a nagging man is not my type of man. He didn’t respond and called me again at 6am today. I didn’t answer and texted him that i am no longer interested in continuing whatever we were starting.
Am i overacting?

sorry for my long post
I (F35) met this guy two weeks ago at a party. We exchanged numbers and didn’t talk until 3 days ago on Tuesday. Out of nowhere he messaged me asking if i could meet him for dinner after work. I thought he was cute and agreed to meet him, after all i am trying to date and meet people.
At the dinner he (41M) said he was going through a divorce (red flag 1.) we talked a lot about our jobs and schedules.
I work in a food processing company as a production supervisor and i work 12/h shifts Monday to Friday. He drives the TTC and works mornings, goes home for 3 hours and works afternoons.
When i got home around 10pm after the date he called me on video for another 2 hours and i kept saying i needed to sleep cos i had work the next day and this guy wont let me sleep. Of cos i was late to work the next day. He called on video again while i was at work and i mentioned to him that it is not right for me to use my phone in a factory. I would message and called him throughout the day at the slightest chance i got cos he was needy i noticed.
I got home around 8pm and we kept talking the whole night till 12 midnight. He called me again on Thursday morning at 6am while i was still sleeping. I got to work at 7 am and he called again. I messaged him that i had a training session at work and would not be in touch till i am done. He kept calling and texting me asking how the day is. When he took his midday break he texted me saying he was home and in bed and lonely. I responded that i was sorry but i couldn’t talk cos my day wasn’t going good. I actually had a machine breakdown and was trying to troubleshoot the issue.
I didnt go to my phone again until i finished my shift at 7 and immediately texted him that i was done with work. He called and i was in the drive through getting something to eat cos i missed my lunch break and was so hungry. So i asked him to let me eat and talk to him when i get home. He hung up on me without saying anything and texted me “it seems i am bothering you”.

I was so mad at this. I literally had a bad day at work and hadn’t eaten anything in over 10 hours and this guy is making it about himself. He just wants to talk. Talk about what exactly? We have been on the phone more than 9 hours in the 3 days we have been talking. So i told him he is too needy and nags and a nagging man is not my type of man. He didn’t respond and called me again at 6am today. I didn’t answer and texted him that i am no longer interested in continuing whatever we were starting.
Am i overacting?