u/Responsible-Chef9489

yogurt bowl with caramelized pears, homemade granola, pistachios & drizzle of maple syrup

If you're a parent reading this, please don't take it personally. I find kids to be joyful, I respect your decision to have kids I'll always be kind to your kids & say hi to them. I PERSONALLY don't want kids but I'm only speaking for ME ME ME ME & no one else.

I don't want kids & never will. I'm adamant that I will NOT change my mind (I do plan to get sterilized when I can afford it). Every time I mention it, someone always says that I'll change my mind or they give me their personal story about how they didn't want kids until they changed their mind, or about how it's "the best joy on earth" or something along those lines. Have I changed my mind about several things? Yes! For things I'm passionate about, I'm not passionate about having kids.

I don't have a reason, I just don't want them & I have to resist the urge to curse someone out every single time they lecture me about why I should have kids.

EDIT: Thank you for all of your kind words, from both childless people & parents. I respect everyone's decisions. This post BLEW UP & I'm trying my best to read all of your comments even though there's over 1k comments! Please don't ever feel like your story went to waste, I will try my best to read every comment

this is my current upper body day. i run a u/l split (l, u, r, l, u, r, r) i do every exercise 2 sets 4-8 reps (most close to failure or to failure)

i superset a push exercise with a pull exercise but even then, my sessions are almost 1 hour 45 mins long. if i do each exercise one by one then i would easily be at the gym for over 2 hours.

i also cannot go more than 4 days a week due to my busy schedule and that i don't have a car.

is there any exercise i can remove or anything i can do to make my sessions shorter??

i've shaved them before but it looks weird when it grows back (haven't tried waxing but it'll look the same when it grows back) & i get so insecure about it bc my job requires me to have my hair up in a bun 😭

RECIPE FROM u/moonjelly33

i would sometimes eat them as a pre workout snack 🤣

it's a brown butter chcolate chip cookie without the chocolate lol