u/Ringwormdongtip

More info, I just got over a UTI, started getting sixk, thought it could be a potential kidney infection (prone to them) thank got I went in, got tested and it’s not. Tested me for strep covid flu etc and NOTHING is positive. Just seems like a regular cold them. I told them to just absolutely pump me full of meds and they gave me steroids and told me to stay home from work, however, I need to beat this thing to make sure I can support my sis, and not have to worry about gettting baby and mom sick. I am gonna be scrubbed up head to toe and washing constantly, but my sister wants me to stay with her for a week after baby boys born. Everyone PLEASE give me your best sickness hacks idc if I’m standing on my head singing songs WHATEVER works !!

They should make it to where you can trash your inventory unneeded that wouldn’t get sold, or do an option to trade- in for like a lot less coins than roadside shop. That will help the ore mess on the newspaper, I don’t think anyone selling ore cares about profit, they just want it out of their stock. If they could do like 30 coins per 10 ore, or even just a trash can that would help it so much

I told him it’s the same just older times and different graphics and he said “can you mine in hay day? Can you have a town in hay day? Can you have a public market in hay day?” Like…. Yes….. we do😂😂😂 even asked if we can melt the metals we mine……. He’s just playing hay day with extra steps

So my sister in law and I used to be best friends, but our relationship became strained. I moved states a few months ago for work and have been trying to distance myself from her (I told her this as well) to heal and come back so we can heal our relationship entirely.

Here’s the thing. Her bday is this month, and my bday is in August on the same day, we are exactly two months apart.
She wanted to do a birthday party right in the middle of the months so July 23rd. Here’s the issue, she knows that’s my husband and I wedding anniversary, her excuse “you did something fun last year, so you can just have a party with me this year!”…..

I told her I may be down for a party back before I moved states and we can see how it works out. THEN my biological sister got pregnant (woop woop). She is due in early July and my SIL has made some comments to her saying “don’t give birth early to ruin my birthday” which absolutely pissed me off. This is my sisters first baby and we are super close, I’ve been so excited for her, we both have infertility struggles so her being pregnant kind of hits close to home.

Surprise surprise, my sister is now high risk and could be giving birth at any point getting an induction here shortly in June. I talked to my bio sis, asking her what day she would most like to give birth on each final week of pregnancy, if the doc lets her choose an induction date. She said the best day she could get induced is the 23rd…. Unknowing that’s SIL birthday.

I told her that it’s her bday and she said she wants that date bc it helps with maternity leave for work because that’s her full 1 year with her job. I was talking to my SIL about it and she got PISSED….. not thinking that my sister has to get induced early, is struggling with high risk pregnancy already. But becoming genuinely angry at her for POSSIBLY being induced on her bday.

After how strained our relationship has been… I genuinely dgaf about how she feels and kind of hope it’s on her birthday. IMO she’s fucking 23…. Her bday doesn’t matter that much just as much as mine does. I know some people are birthday people, but at the end of the day, being angry at a mother giving birth at an inconvenient time for you is crazy. I’m going to my home state when she gives birth regardless of when it is, and if it’s on her bday I’m not going to see her. I’m going to see my beautiful nephew and my sister, and I know she’s gonna cause a fight about it. I genuinely don’t know how to handle coming down for such a special moment, and my SIL is gonna flip her shit and text and call non stop and try to fight with me while I’m helping a new mom, and a brand new baby. I know I will blow up on her, I don’t know if I should handle this situation with empathy, or just fucking tell her that her bday isn’t important at this age. Regardless, I genuinely don’t give a shit about her feelings in this situation and already have text messages of her trying to make me feel bad.