u/RonaldinhoTheBrazil

Failed a course a few semesters ago because of a miscommunication when I tried to withdraw. Retook and got an A-

Current gpa is a 3.8

Am I cooked or?

Hello, I went on a first date recently that went pretty well. It lasted nearly 6 hours and at the end she asked to hang in my car (nothing happened). While I was driving her home she asked what my longest relationship was because I’m “nice and seem like the type to settle down.” Is this a bad thing? I know that often when a girl calls you “nice” it’s a bad sign but idk

Went on a date recently and it went well. Lasted four hours, there were a few awkward spots but nothing unusual. She was a bit flirty and asked a lot of questions. Toward the end of the date we were walking around and she asked if we could head to my car because she was getting cold. We hung out in my car for about an hour or so (nothing happened, we just talked. She tossed out a few ‘us as a couple’ scenarios) before I said it was getting late and that I should take her home, to which she seemed a bit disappointed by maybe? She looked down and went “yeah… I think I have to get up early for work tomorrow” and she ghosted when I texted the next day.

Just a general question. I was recently ghosted after a four hour date that ended with her asking if we could hang in my car at the end of it (which we did for about an hour before I said it was getting late and took her home). She openly flirted (mentioned things we could do in the future, asked a lot of questions and remembered my answers, rubbed my arm, even offered to get me something she thought I needed for my car) but seemed a tad shy. I have my own hypothesis for why she ghosted that I won’t dig into here (something I said that likely made her reconsider) but I’m wondering how to tell if a girl is genuinely interested on the first date (both for future reference and to figure out what happened here lol)

General question. What type of transfers are MIT looking for? 3.8+ and 1550+? Are there any transfers in this sub currently?

Hello r/MITadmissions, I’m currently a community college student in Massachusetts about 5 years out of high school (took a year off after high school and then a mix of part/full terms at a CC, will be finished next spring). My high school gpa was quite low (around or maybe even lower than 2 iirc) but my gpa at my current community college is a 3.8 and I scored 1580 on the SAT. I’m aware that chances are low in general but would it be worth applying? What kind of applicant is MIT looking for wrt transfers?

I (24) went on a date recently with a girl (22) that I matched with on hinge. We met at a bar at around 8:00 and then proceeded to walk around the area after about an hour and a half at the bar (her suggestion, the bar was a bit loud and we had a hard time hearing each other). She openly flirted during this, mentioning future plans, rubbing my arm, and eventually asking if we could go to my car (I asked if she wanted a ride home earlier in the date since she ubered) because she said her legs got tired. We went to my car and talked there for a bit (nothing else happened) and she was still flirting pretty heavily during this time. After about another hour (probably around 11pm) I say it’s getting late and say I should take her home. In the car ride to her place she noticed I was missing some car things she thought I needed and offered to get me one of them, probed my relationship history and said I seem like the type to settle down, and flirtatiously said she doesn’t do casual. She ended the date saying “it was nice meeting you.” I sent a text the next day saying she was as fun and that I’d like to see her again and she never replied.

Was she ever interested? Did I do something wrong? I’m confused here

Just a general question, mostly for women.

Have you ever ghosted somebody you initially liked after a first date? Like let’s say most of the date went well but perhaps they said something during it that made you change your mind? How do you usually end dates when this is the case?

I went out with a girl at the beginning of the year and the date went very well (she showed a lot of interest, flirted heavy verbally and physically, asked to hang out in a private spot, implied she wanted a long term relationship) but towards the end of the date I think I gave her mixed signals about my ability to commit (I also asked if she was into polyamory. It was a general question but she took it the wrong way). I followed up the next day but she never replied. I still regret this one and am wondering if sending a ping would be appropriate?

Also, related to above: girls in the sub, would you ghost a guy over that? Or do you think it was a more general lack of interest?

I (25) went on a first date recently with a girl (22) I met on hinge. During the date she seemed quite invested and was mentioning potential future plans, asking tons of questions, flirting quite openly, and by the end of it even offering to get me something I didn’t have but she thought I needed. Toward the end she asked if we could hang out in my car and so we did (nothing physical happened) and as I was driving her home she said she something about how she doesn’t do casual. The next day I sent her a text and she hasn’t replied. It’s been about a week. What happened?

Went out with a girl on a first date recently. The date lasted four hours and we flirted pretty openly, she talked about things we could do later, asked to hang in my car at the end, all of that. But as I was driving her home I think I said some things that implied I was noncommittal and she said something that implied she wanted something more serious. She’s ghosting me now.

Is it that she was not interested or did I ruin it?

I (25) went out with a girl (23) recently and things were going well. After we left the bar we were walking around the area for a bit and she said her friend had gone home with somebody. A few minutes later she asked if we could hangout in my car because her legs were getting tired. I didn’t make a move and she ghosted lol