Limited irl timt(28nb, 32nb)

Me(28)and my partner(31)of 3 years have been long distance all through. It's worked out okay for us, we travel to see each other when we can and try to keep up daily communication. Some days we'll send vns or texts and maybe call like twice per week. Some days we'll only text a little which is okay as life is always happening. We both are pretty chill and don't text each other all day long, I appreciate this and feel it one of the reasons we are compatible

Now I'm very satisfied in our connection, I feel very emotionally seen and connected to them

Every now and then I do crave a bit more connection, like I'd want to feel more connected in the mundane day to day things,but I think it's cause we are long distance

When we meet we mostly spend a month together, this is after almost three months apart

Recently due to our living arrangements it's mostly being them travelling to where I am. It's a sacrifice I appreciate deeply and I truly do see how much it takes for someone to be away from their home that long

We are currently planning to meet again this coming week and my partner just shared they've been realizing that being away from their space for long periods of time has being making them feel unsettled as they can't be with their normal everyday rituals and space. They shared that they'd like to build their self trust by sticking to being together for a week and not extending our time together as we always find ourselves doing

And I fully understand them,as an introvert myself I totally understand how unsettling time away from your home can feel like

But a part of me is also feeling kinda hurt??i don't know why given that what they shared totally makes sense. The last time we spent time together was in January

I feel like we don't get to spend real life time a lot, and it sucks that the time we do get to spend is getting cut short. I don't want it to seem like I'm guilt tripping them or don't care about their need for their space. I don't know what to do or what I'm feeling

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u/Ropewhispers — 2 months ago

Limited long distance time

Me and my partner of 3 years have been long distance all through. It's worked out okay for us, we travel to see each other when we can and try to keep up daily communication. Some days we'll send vns or texts and maybe call like twice per week. Some days we'll only text a little which is okay as life is always happening. We both are pretty chill and don't text each other all day long, I appreciate this and feel it one of the reasons we are compatible

Now I'm very satisfied in our connection, I feel very emotionally seen and connected to them

Every now and then I do crave a bit more connection, like I'd want to feel more connected in the mundane day to day things,but I think it's cause we are long distance

When we meet we mostly spend a month together, this is after almost three months apart

Recently due to our living arrangements it's mostly being them travelling to where I am. It's a sacrifice I appreciate deeply and I truly do see how much it takes for someone to be away from their home that long

We are currently planning to meet again this coming week and my partner just shared they've been realizing that being away from their space for long periods of time has being making them feel unsettled as they can't be with their normal everyday rituals and space. They shared that they'd like to build their self trust by sticking to being together for a week and not extending our time together as we always find ourselves doing

And I fully understand them,as an introvert myself I totally understand how unsettling time away from your home can feel like

But a part of me is also feeling kinda hurt??i don't know why given that what they shared totally makes sense. The last time we spent time together was in January

I feel like we don't get to spend real life time a lot, and it sucks that the time we do get to spend is getting cut short. I don't want it to seem like I'm guilt tripping them or don't care about their need for their space. I don't know what to do or what I'm feeling

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u/Ropewhispers — 2 months ago
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Taxin

It's weekend and I'm in the mood to explore mihadarati(jaba, muguka)

Kwanza difference ya jaba na muguka ni?

Ni how much and what tools would I need? Alafu pia natumia aje and how is the high?

Also anyone with jaba juice recipe? Na najua aje kuchagua mali safi pia?

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u/Ropewhispers — 2 months ago