Advice 13 year old boy
Son:13 Hello I have a 13 year old son And what would the appropriate bed time be for him?
This whole entire school year I received phone call home at least 3 times a week or some sort of message from his teachers complaining about his behavior in school of him fooling around and being disrespectful And he also got suspended for 2 weeks for bullying some other kid and He still won’t own up to it? He thinks it’s funny We tried to explain to him how it’s not okay (Story: Him n his freinds shot another kid with gel blaster toy guns)
He caused his older sister to develop heart problems from over stress And still won’t own up to it again I don’t understand how to teach him about how he is wrong if he just only believes he’s right
We love him and want the best for him We got him a ps5 and the deal was He study’s for 30 mins on a language (to improve his language skills ) everyday and he gets to play everyday Yet he doesn’t do that at all and then complains and curses at his sister and says it’s her fault that he can’t play and stresses her out Becuase she won’t let him Play unless he does the necessary 30 mins She helps me and lets me know what’s going on when I’m at work so he stresses her out a lot .
Now it is summer break and he keeps complaining about his bed time which is at 1:30 Yet I have seen him stay up past that couple times I gave him a 1:30 bed time as I think it’s only fair Becuase of his behavior tru out the year Also he is a growing boy I want him to grow healthy He needs his sleep I don’t want him to waste the summer waking up at 1pm it’s going to turn into a bad habit
He keeps complaining and wants to stay up filled 3-5 in the morning and says his Freind Are staying up till 5 am playing ps5
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