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Hi, I'm 19F and my boyfriend is 24M. (been with him for over 6 months) I like the dude, but I feel like I put way more effort into the relationship than he does. We're cool in person to some degree, but over text he barely communicates at all. He'll take 17+ hours to respond sometimes. (He says he's not into texting which I understand/ doesn't use social media, but I feel as if, if you care for someone you will go out your way to check up on them).

He also won't commute to see me at all, I'm always the one making the trip. At first it was because he was on house arrest. Then, when he got out of it, he broke his hand, leg, and heel or whatever, so he couldn't really walk, he can't drive idk maybe it's bad luck. I understand that, but he'll go be elsewhere with his friends, but when with me he'll say "he can't cos of his legs, etc" I can't tell if it's the situation or it's just me being unreasonable, I try to understand because his lifestyle is way too different, he's always doing something outside, but said is willing to go on "dates", but I feel like i shouldn't be asking to go on "dates", just cause he won't try to make money everywhere he goes or whatever.

I even bought him a scooter when he broke his leg. He said he'd pay me back, but he doesn't have the money right now, and I've been generous enough to let him take his time.On top of that, I've paid for all the Uber trips. He can't even pay me back for one $60 Uber ride that he promised he'd cover.

There was also a time when I was on mushrooms for the first time and having a bad trip. I went to his place and just lay down. He never texted me afterward to see if I was okay. The only reason he even texted me was because his mom told him I was there. He told me he was with his friend, but he was only about 30 minutes away. If I were him, I would've come to check on my partner.

A lot of the time he'll be doing something else and make me wait 10 minutes just to see him. It's a pain in the ass, and I'm trying to be understanding.

Whenever I bring up an issue, he'll say something about not wanting to deal with arguments or disagreements. Even when I'm walking with him in person, he'll sometimes just take off on his scooter and I'm left following behind him like an idiot.

I don't know if I'm overreacting or what. In person he's cool, but I don't know. Am I expecting too much, maybe I should live with him? He doesn't come across as if he's cheating just emotionally distant and doesn't prioritize as much as I do? WHat do you guys think ?

Tl;dr feel like I'm putting significantly more effort into the relationship than my boyfriend is. I'm always the one commuting, spending money, and initiating communication, while he rarely responds, follows through on promises, or makes me feel prioritized

I know age seems to be a concern, but he's only been with people that were older than him, not sure. He works now, and is going to leave soon from his mothers place. We don't have SEX EVERYTIME either, i don't know if it's his mental health issues or what..

Hi, I'm 19F and my boyfriend is 24M. (been with him for over 6 months) I like the dude, but I feel like I put way more effort into the relationship than he does. We're cool in person to some degree, but over text he barely communicates at all. He'll take 17+ hours to respond sometimes. (He says he's not into texting which I understand/ doesn't use social media, but I feel as if, if you care for someone you will go out your way to check up on them).

He also won't commute to see me at all, I'm always the one making the trip. At first it was because he was on house arrest. Then, when he got out of it, he broke his hand, leg, and heel or whatever, so he couldn't really walk, he can't drive idk maybe it's bad luck. I understand that, but he'll go be elsewhere with his friends, but when with me he'll say "he can't cos of his legs, etc" I can't tell if it's the situation or it's just me being unreasonable, I try to understand because his lifestyle is way too different, he's always doing something outside, but said is willing to go on "dates", but I feel like i shouldn't be asking to go on "dates", just cause he won't try to make money everywhere he goes or whatever.

I even bought him a scooter when he broke his leg. He said he'd pay me back, but he doesn't have the money right now, and I've been generous enough to let him take his time.On top of that, I've paid for all the Uber trips. He can't even pay me back for one $60 Uber ride that he promised he'd cover.

There was also a time when I was on mushrooms for the first time and having a bad trip. I went to his place and just lay down. He never texted me afterward to see if I was okay. The only reason he even texted me was because his mom told him I was there. He told me he was with his friend, but he was only about 30 minutes away. If I were him, I would've come to check on my partner.

A lot of the time he'll be doing something else and make me wait 10 minutes just to see him. It's a pain in the ass, and I'm trying to be understanding.

Whenever I bring up an issue, he'll say something about not wanting to deal with arguments or disagreements. Even when I'm walking with him in person, he'll sometimes just take off on his scooter and I'm left following behind him like an idiot.

I don't know if I'm overreacting or what. In person he's cool, but I don't know. Am I expecting too much, maybe I should live with him? He doesn't come across as if he's cheating just emotionally distant and doesn't prioritize as much as I do? WHat do you guys think ?

Tl;dr feel like I'm putting significantly more effort into the relationship than my boyfriend is. I'm always the one commuting, spending money, and initiating communication, while he rarely responds, follows through on promises, or makes me feel prioritized.

I know age seems to be a concern, but he's only been with people that were older than him, not sure. He works now, and is going to leave soon from his mothers place. We don't have SEX EVERYTIME either, i don't know if it's his mental health issues or what..he has a house or whatever, but everything he once had was confiscated by the police

Hey,

I was wondering if this would be possible at all. I would like to ship alcohol (from a store) to UPS and then have it picked up from a UPS location.

Is that something that can be done? If not, are there any alternative solutions? I don't want the alcohol shipped to a residential address. Could a PO box work?

Thanks!