Path Suggestions

I ask for your help once again Boston as I’m new to the local bike scene and my freetime has expanded for the summer. What are your recommendations for bike paths in the area? Can also travel by car if it’s out of the way, public parking areas without having to worry about tickets is a plus!

Thank you for any/all recommendations and be safe out there🚲

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u/Sad-Tap-9375 — 8 days ago

Trail/road reccomendatikns

I ask for your help once again Boston as I’m new to the local bike scene and my freetime has expanded for the summer. What are your recommendations for bike paths in the area? Can also travel by car if it’s out of the way, public parking areas without having to worry about tickets is a plus!

Thank you for any/all recommendatilns and be safe out there🚲

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u/Sad-Tap-9375 — 8 days ago

34F [F4M] #Somerville Long Term Only

***LONG TERM RELATIONSHIP INQUIRIES ONLY**

just a hopeless romantic, a blip on the radar or everyone’s none of the above. I’ve exhausted all resources and why should I pay money for dating sites when ppl will just reject or ghost me? what I’d really like is someone to do all the cute couple stuff in a long term relationship (cozy movie nights, meal dates, sports outings, late-night cuddles, or just walking around the city.

A bit about me:

I [34/F] live in Somerville (originally from the Philadelphia area) and been here since late 2024. Big fan of sports, riding bikes, random trips to anywhere, picnics, and good food/drinks! I have a long list of interests, yet that some of the major ones. I work as a 1:1 behavior technician at a ABA agency for kids with special needs. I love my job and the growth of the kids that I serve.

Physically, I’m little over 5’5 (African american), not a supermodel, I’m curvy, pretty active and take mental health as upmost importance.

About you:

•Communication and honesty are the two most important things to me. If we can’t be that, why are we here?

•Ages 29-40, males only

•located not too far away from greater Boston. If you live near a T station thats an extreme plus but not required. I drive and have a car but I refuse to drive in downtown Boston (IYKYK) hence why I stated a plus if you live near a station.

•drinking or smoking/“gardening” is ok with me, no hard/illegal drugs please.

•is communicative, honest and upfront

•I don’t want you to change who you are to impress. Your personality in its true form is the most attractive.

If I sound of interest, DM me a fact about me or what I’m looking for that you’ve read on this post. Please also include your age a little about yourself. I will not respond/ignore messages if those are NOT included and will NOT respond if your looking for a hookup or not read this in depth (simple instructions). Thanks for reading.

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u/Sad-Tap-9375 — 8 days ago

Hello Out There

Hello, im looking for new friends in the area, World Cup friends welcome also! I (34/F) live over in Somerville since late 2024 (originally from the Philadelphia area), however im slowly coming out of my shell socially after a tough breakup and self confidence struggles so please be patient with me. I love going out in nature, the beach, Sox games, exploring, bike rides, watching/playing sports, food/drinks, fun nights outdoors or doing activities.

If I sound like your vibe, please send me a DM with bit about yourself.

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u/Sad-Tap-9375 — 8 days ago

Evening Ride Along🚲🌆

Hi friends!

Anyone wanna come on a nice bike ride with me? I recently started biking again and I so wanna ride with another buddy or group of anyone is around after 6pm as the weather is just beautiful and wanna explore, maybe stop for a bite to eat after. I don’t know many bike paths around except for the one in Somerville and where I’m located as I’m new-ish to the area.

DM me if you are interested, happy biking!🚲

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u/Sad-Tap-9375 — 18 days ago
▲ 285 r/Somerville+1 crossposts

A literal cry for help💔

*** PLEASE BE KIND ***

Hi Boston!

So I went to a salon today and walked out looking like THIS!!! This was NOT the result I wanted and I literally cried in the car because it looks terrible, unattractive and I just wanna hide under my bed and not wanna come out. More insult to injury is that ppl were openly making fun of me in and out of the salon and that made me really sad about myself. I even took a flat iron to it when I got home and didn’t do nothing. I did not pay $120 to look like a ugly duckling. Does anyone know of a ethnic salon who can tackle my (thick) hair without breaking the bank and restore whatever beauty I have left? Again, please be nice as I already feel bad about myself, thanks for any recommendations.

u/Sad-Tap-9375 — 19 days ago

First time caller, first time listener🤭

Hi Boston bike community! I got a bike a few months back after a 16 year hiatus, due in part of getting my own car so I didn’t rely on my bike to get around a small handful of places. I feel dumb for ditching my bike because after all those years I can’t remember having the biggest smile on my face riding again. This is gonna be a loaded question so please bear with me and be kind as I’m new to city biking coming from a rural area not in New England.

Would anyone know of any biking clubs and/or groups that offer free or reduced price lessons for a city safety course. I would like to be better educated on biking around and not upset anyone in the process cuz I take my mistakes to heart.

Any bike clubs/groups that are doing a group ride along throughout the week? I can keep a pace but still working on tackling beacon hill-esque hills if I do ever face one which prolly may happen, idk haha.

Recommendations for bike locks, lamps, helmets, fun accessories.

I live in Somerville for reference to help with any geography, right down the street from the comm. path which I do travel often. Thank you in advance for any advice/tips! Happy biking🚲

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u/Sad-Tap-9375 — 21 days ago

Free Bike Repair Assessment..?

Hi,

I acquired a bike a few months back and I was told it would need to be looked at for possible new tires and chain by its previous owner. Does anyone know of a bike place that can look at it for free and give me an estimate? Can drive to the bike shop if needed, asking cuz I’m new to the area and don’t know places and new to biking so please be nice.

Thank you :)

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u/Sad-Tap-9375 — 29 days ago

Stationary📝

Hi Somerville,

I’m new to writing and have started to reach out to potential pen pals. I have seen all the awesome paper and stationary used associating in creating something to send. However I am new to New England and don’t know any stationary places in and around Somerville. Anyone have any in-person and affordable reccomendations that is NOT Amazon as I know they have 1000s of options and that is NOT a big box store like Target, staples, tj maxx/marshalls. I’ve been to those stores and came up empty. I’m located in Spring Hill for reference and can take the T or drive but driving is a last resort if not close to a T stop.

Thank you in advance for any/all recommendations! :)

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u/Sad-Tap-9375 — 1 month ago

Alone For The Holiday

Hi all,

Anyone doing anything fun for the holiday weekend and Memorial Day itself? I don’t have a friend circle and want to go do things but rather go with a companion or two, the more the merrier. I live in Somerville and can commute via the T. My interests are sports, restaurants, history, walks, coffee, etc. I’m an open book! Please send me a blurb about yourself in the DMs if your interested.

Happy Memorial Day weekend & thank you to all of our service members and veterans🇺🇸

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u/Sad-Tap-9375 — 1 month ago

Thank you, next! Looking for a new circle

I (34/F) walked out of a group tonight very sad and feeling kinda neglected. No one would even talk to me or engage in conversation like I was invisible. As a side note I have social anxiety so it’s difficult for me to engage in conversations and afraid to approach first fearing judgement by ppl in public; Additionally, I have met up with this group before anyone asks. After getting annoyed and kinda shoved, I got up and left. Worst thing is no one even noticed I even walked out, not a text or anything….sad.

Anyone wanna be friends? I’m a transplant from South Jersey living in Somerville who loves sports, adventure, bars/restaurants, hiking/camping, the beach, too much to note. If I fit your bill send me a message about yourself.

***SERIOUS INQUIRIES ONLY, NO BS, NO GAMES**

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u/Sad-Tap-9375 — 1 month ago

Roads closures

Hi!

Anyone know what’s going today by the armory and how long some of the roads around the surrounding area are closed? Thanks in advance!

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u/Sad-Tap-9375 — 2 months ago

Sox Game Tonight 5/13

Hi all,

I (34/F) have an extra ticket for the Sox game tonight against Philly. I’m somewhat new around the area and a Phillies fan and do not want to attend this game by myself and want to go with a likeminded and fun person. I went to a game last night with a fellow redditor and was a lot of fun! Tonight’s game starts at 6:45 but would like to get there earlier to walk around the park. If you would like to go please send me a message about yourself and see if we are a fit (DO NOT send me messages with just your age and gender or it will be ignored).

Thanks for reading⚾️♥️

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u/Sad-Tap-9375 — 2 months ago

Sox vs. Phillies 5/12-14

Hi friends,

The Sox are versing my hometown team the Phillies (sorry Sox fans and upmost respect). I (34/F) was interested in possibly attending a game on 5/12 and watch from a popular bar in the area on the other days. I don’t know the Fenway area at all except the field and some Sox history so anyone with bar knowledge is a plus! I also do not have an established friend circle here as I’m new-ish to the area for a year and a half living in Somerville and originally from South Jersey so the more ppl the better.

Please drop me a message if you are interested. May the best team win⚾️♥️

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u/Sad-Tap-9375 — 2 months ago

Greater Boston Drivers

Hi all,

I’m returning to dashing after a hiatus and moved out of state to the greater Boston area. For any Dashers, what’s the best time to dash to avoid traffic and where to start (except the Boston suburbs as I refuse to drive there)? I live in Somerville and will be driving a vehicle for reference.

Thank you in advance for assistance :)

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u/Sad-Tap-9375 — 2 months ago

Hi all,

I (34/F) would really love to go to my first Sox game next week against my hometown team the Phillies. Is there anyone that would like to accompany me next Thursday 5/14 at 6:45 to a game? I don’t have friends here in Boston as I had moved away from Philly and I don’t want to go to this game by myself.

Thank you for reading👍🏾♥️

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u/Sad-Tap-9375 — 2 months ago

Hi all,

I’m looking for a gym in the area that offers classes and won’t break the bank. Looking to spend no more than $75 per month for a membership and willing to drive if the place has free parking or parking lot, I live in Spring Hill for context. I’m currently signed up at planet fitness but have lost the motivation to go the last few months and really want to take group classes somewhere to keep myself motivated without going broke.

Thank you in advance :D

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u/Sad-Tap-9375 — 2 months ago

Hi Somerville,

I moved from out of state and finally was able to get my new license plates. Does anyone know if there is a mechanic or shop that can assist me with getting both fixated on the car? Willing to pay a fee. I do not have the proper tools to do this and also my front plate needs to be properly displayed as my current plates that I haven’t changed yet are sitting up on the side of my dash/winshield (yes I know that’s illegal to do and partly why I’m asking for help).

Thank you in advance! :D

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u/Sad-Tap-9375 — 2 months ago

Hey Boston Metro 👋

I’m very new to using reddit and to this group so please be kind and bear with me. 

I (34/F) moved to Somerville in October of 2024 with my boyfriend as I was hoping to have a fresh start previously living in south jersey within the Philadelphia metro all of my life. 6 months into living into Somerville my bf and I unexpectedly broke up, he moved out to live with family, I had never lived on my own and love living here so I had moved a few blocks away and became a first time renter in the process (as ex bf was on lease and paid rent for us at our last place). I’m still slowly coming out of my shell that is depression from not only the breakup but also social anxiety from living in a totally new environment fearing ppl will hate me and not be able to connect or vibe. I’m missing a friend circle here where I can communicate and hang with others; The kind where I can walk the community path with for a coffee or boba not having a care in the world of the conversation at hand. The kind where they love spontaneous trips to get sushi, to a park to spronge around, pickup pickleball games or trip to the beach. So much fun where those memories make me smile rather than be sad that I question why I still don’t have friends. Hoping to meet someone out there that fits the bill, is it you?

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u/Sad-Tap-9375 — 2 months ago