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Hi. I'm looking for work. It's been over a decade. Please help

I'm 45. White English only.Was chronically homeless since 2006.

For caught up in being a fool.

Worked so hard on this tough guy image in order to disseminate the hard truth that I can't handle the truth.

Now, as of 04/2024 & By the grace of God, I got subsidized housing (SRO) in East Boston in a landmark building with a broken plaque with illegible words written and fading text that says something like " est.. 1847, first crack house in East Boston"

(I'm not kidding.)

Anyways, I'm perfectly healthy, physically, however mentally , I'm resilient but a little sensitive to dealing with public like restaurants etc.

I have no problem with working with people my experience with work generally speaking has been with restaurants and every experience I've had with that type of work burns me out and I'm already burnt out

I'm looking for some type of entry level manual labor position that doesn't require a degree I have a GED as far as a criminal record is concerned that's irrelevant because it's been over 10 years since I've been arrested so I might as well say that I have no criminal record because legislation that former Governor deval Patrick pushed through seals one's criminal record I believe after eight years.

ANY TIPS WOULD BE MUCH OF LIES PLEASE DON'T TELL ME TO GO TO MASS HIRE CUZ I ALREADY KNOW THAT.

ON a side note I pushed an application through to(mrc) Massachusetts rehabilitation commission.

Yes excuse me headphones over here but they'll be a little bit of weight and formality but I should be able to get help going to college

The transition of going from the street to housing and living in a building where no one works or has ever worked and and the drama that comes with has been a full-time job I'm done with procrastinating and and making full effort !!!

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u/Starving_artisian — 4 hours ago
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Matt here. Boston is my home. I organize Walking Talking Men Boston. This is a walk to get outside & make friendships in community.

Purpose:
-To give men a non judgmental space to talk about what’s going on for us.
-To open the door to a community of local friendships with men in a world that often makes that difficult to find/maintain.

Time:
Every Friday, 5:30 PM - 6:30 PM.

Location:
Exactly at the “Chestnut Hill Reservation” Google Maps location.
At the Stone Building by the water past Reilly Memorial Rink.
Coordinates: 42°20'08.8"N 71°09'14.5"W

No sign ups. Simply show up!

Parking:
A parking lot & street parking.

The walks:
Guys catch up for 5 minutes, we break into pairs, then we walk. Conversations go where they go depending on the needs of each man. Meet back at the Stone Building at 6:30pm. After we get Pino’s Pizza.

Optional Food After:
We’ve been getting Pino's Pizza or Eagle's Deli which has been an incredible time.

Every Man is Welcome:
Men of any age, identity, & trans men are welcome.

Rules:
• ⁠Be yourself
• ⁠No hate speech
• ⁠Respect confidentiality
• ⁠Show up with kindness & respect

Disclaimer:
Walking Talking Men is not therapy, coaching, men’s work, religious, a political group, we are not a men’s rights group. We are creating real, lasting, local friendships for men in our neighborhood.

Contact:
If you’d like, send me a message! Why does this appeal to you?
walkingtalkingmenboston@gmail.com

Want to show up for other men for your own walk? It's as easy as making a post and getting out there!
https://walkingtalkingmen.org/

With love and respect,
Matt

P.S. I'm grateful! I facilitated a public discussion on Male Loneliness. People shared their stories, what can be done about loneliness, & how people want to be connected.
https://www.meetup.com/civic-discussion-meetup/events/313809759/

If people keep finding it valuable, I'm glad to have more discussions.

P.P.S. I could use some help! If you know individuals or organizations that facilitate authentic connection, please let me know. If you know people who care about community building please let me know. Doesn't have to be grand. I'd love to speak with them. Thank you. :)

u/Nagisa33 — 3 hours ago

Local book clubs?

Where are y'all finding book clubs lately? Anything good? I'd love to join one that focuses on fantasy and speculative fiction, but open to whatever as long as it's fun and laidback. Bonus points if we read books by queer authors, but not required! Just wanting to nerd out about plots, characters, etc. with cool peeps.

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u/Difficult_Street_573 — 8 hours ago

I need someone's perspective from Gen Z on a horrifying interaction today

At the supermarket, put my stuff on the conveyor, went to grab something while the other person ahead finished up. Came back, person still finishing paying.

In that time someone definitely 27-30 years old came in, some normal looking guy, whatever.

Me: Hey man mind if I get by *gesturing infront of him*? Just had to grab something real quick.

Him: Dead stare. No words. Slowly looks at his cart. Slowly pulls it back.

Me: Thanks sorry about that

Him: Silent. Dead stare. No words.

Literally: Does Gen Z just not interact as social human beings?

It was so.....weird...It really does feel like Gen Z are zombies who don't know how to do small talk, chit chat, or really anything light with strangers. Even at work it's similar. Like a combo of social death and inner death.

Gen Z, what is going through your heads? Is this just normal, that we don't speak with strangers any more?

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u/Popular-Way-3245 — 23 hours ago
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Just a middle aged north shore guy looking for a reasonable pair for Sunday, May 24th!

Not sure the very best way to go about this as I just set up my account right now, but really just hoping to find a pair of reasonable tickets for this Sunday night (May 24) Bruce show in Boston for my wife and I if at all possible. I just turned 57 few days ago if anyone out there is interested in helping a good guy out in honor of my birthday--or just if you feel like being nice!!! My wife and I would be very nice & cool people to sit next to in case you have an extra pair to sell at or very close to face value--we would be incredibly happy to& grateful if so, thanks so very much for your serious consideration as it is tremendously appreciated!!!

Kindly, Doug & Stephanie

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u/BackstreetsBoy1969 — 22 hours ago
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Back pain support group

I’m thinking of starting a group for young adults with back pain in the Boston area and wanted to gather interest! Back pain has greatly impacted my life (I can’t work and spend most of my days in pain) and I thought it would be nice to meet once a week or every other week outside (now that it’s nice out) and either try to walk (I can’t sit because of back pain…) or like lay down outside and just discuss things that are or aren’t working for people in their back pain journey.

Back pain is so isolating and it really feels like you are the only one experiencing something like this sometimes

Let me know if there is any interest and I can think how to plan something

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u/kb_9797 — 24 hours ago

Help me Free Solo my Acrophobia

This year I’m ready and willing to just do all the heights things, I want to sky dive, I want to BASE jump, I want to boulder, I want to climb some rock faces and maybe just maybe one day free solo something if I ever attain that level of skill or comfort, if you’re involved in these things at all please reach out to me, this isn’t a trend or a phase for me and I’m quite serious and furthermore climbers just seem to be my people.

I will road trip anywhere with just about anyone who shares these common interests, I’d rather be eating clif bars and climbing and hiking and swimming all day with anyone who’s into this too rather than going to overpriced restaurants that’s not my idea of life at all or spending the day shopping. I’m not afraid of real life.

I’ve never been drunk and I don’t do anything that doesn’t help my body.

P.s. I know there are little climbing gyms and that’s cute and everything but I want to be outside breathing natural air with the breeze and sun around me and more importantly that just doesn’t feel real and how exactly does climbing NS grabbing man made fixtures prepare me in any other way but exercise. Not interested.

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u/blackandreddit — 1 day ago

📅 Memorial Day weekend events worth doing [Today - Monday]

Hi everyone! 🇺🇸 Happy Memorial Day Weekend! The unofficial start of Boston summer, and the kind of weekend where there are SO many big events happening (and with such variety!) that it is really hard to choose. Tons of live music, artisan markets, beer gardens, and patriotic celebrations. Also, the Boston 2026 World Stamp Expo opens Saturday (a once-per-decade event, free, 352,000 sq ft of stamps from around the world). And of course the Memorial Day Flag Garden on Boston Common: 37,000+ flags honoring every Massachusetts service member who died in the line of duty since the Revolutionary War. Red Sox are home all weekend against the Twins. Patios are open. The lilacs are out. Embrace & enjoy all that the city has to offer & have a great weekend!

🎉 My newsletter has officially launched! I'll keep posting here on Reddit every week, but if you want to always be the first to know, sign up here.

My Picks this week:

🇺🇸 Memorial Day Flag Garden (Thu–Mon, Boston Common, 37,000+ flags, free)

📮 Boston 2026 World Expo / World Stamp Show (Sat 5/23–Sat 5/30, Seaport, free / registration recommended — America 250 + opening-weekend ceremonies)

Red Sox vs. Minnesota Twins (Fri–Sun home stand, Fenway, ticketed — the whole long weekend at the ballpark)

🎸 The Big Gig: Spring Music Festival & Market (Sat–Sun, Brighton Speedway courtyard, free — local music + 100+ vendors)

🏃 Boston's Run to Remember (Sun 7am, Seaport, registration — half marathon + 5-mile honoring fallen first responders)


📅 Thursday 5/21

🇺🇸 Memorial Day Flag Garden | Home Base + Massachusetts Military Heroes Fund | Boston Common | Thu 5/21–Mon 5/25 | Free One of Boston's most meaningful Memorial Day traditions returns to the Soldiers & Sailors Monument, with more than 37,000 flags planted across the Common in honor of Massachusetts service members who died in service.

🏛️ $5 Third Thursday: May 2026 | Fenway | 5–10pm | $5 minimum / pay-what-you-wish The MFA's May Third Thursday is one of the best culture picks of the week, with evening access plus programming around modern sculpture, music, drawing, and pop-up art experiences. Mini modernist sculpture art-making, spotlight talks, violin performances by Lilit Hartunian, gallery drawing, and a Nick Shea portrait pop-up.

🧑‍⚖️ Embrace Honors Harry Hom Dow | Embrace Boston | 1965 Freedom Plaza, Boston Common | Thu 5/21, 5–6:30pm | Free A strong civic/community pick honoring Harry Hom Dow, the first Chinese American admitted to the Massachusetts Bar. The evening includes remarks, a panel, honoree recognition, live performances, food, and a gathering at The Embrace during AAPI Heritage Month.

📜 David Walker's Declaration of Independence | Back Bay | 6–7pm | Free A smart Boston 250 event for history people: BPL Special Collections hosts a talk on David Walker, Black resistance, community-building, and antebellum Boston.

🍷 Vino Days Wine Around: Summer Edition | Eataly Boston | Back Bay | Thu 5/21, 6–8pm | Ticketed Eataly's summer wine-around is the best central-Boston wine tasting I found for Thursday, with a walkaround format that makes it more social than a seated class.

🧀 Get Memorial Day Ready! Cheese Tasting + Wine Samples | Wakefield | 6:30–8pm | $65+ This is a very on-theme long-weekend tasting: six cheeses selected for Memorial Day entertaining, paired with wine samples and hosting tips. It is outside the city, but strong enough to include for anyone willing to make a short North Shore-adjacent trip.

🍇 Free Wine Tastings | VinoDiVino | Brookline | 4–8pm | Free Classic! Never gets old.

🎤 The 2026 Boston AAPI Comedy Festival | Roslindale | Thu 5/21–Sat 5/23, multiple shows | Ticketed Rozzie Square Theater's AAPI Comedy Festival brings three days of stand-up, improv, music, storytelling, and magic to Roslindale. It is one of the better local-community picks of the weekend, with enough variety to work whether you want a full night out or a single show.

📚 Romance Book Club | Molly's Bookstore | Allston | 6:30–8:30pm | Free A small bookstore event with a built-in community feel. Molly's is hosting its romance book club on Thursday night, making this a good low-cost pick for readers, date-night-but-not-a-date-night people, or anyone looking to support an independent bookshop.

🎶 Jazz Night | Roxbury | 6pm | Free / pay as you go Long Live's Roxbury taproom lists jazz nights on Thursdays at 6pm, making this an easy local-brewery option after work.


📅 Friday 5/22

🕊️ Memorial Rededication | Massachusetts Fallen Heroes | 85 Northern Ave, Seaport | Fri 5/22, 10am–1pm | Free The most important civic event of Friday is the rededication of the Massachusetts Fallen Heroes Memorial in the Seaport.

🍻 Sam Sessions Mini Music Festival | Jamaica Plain | Fri 5/22–Sun 5/24 | Free Sam Adams turns the long weekend into a mini music festival with local acts across two stages in the Beer Garden, plus a new beer release and giveaways.

Red Sox vs. Minnesota Twins | Fenway Park | 7:10pm | Ticketed Friday night at Fenway is the obvious classic-Boston start to the weekend. It works especially well if you want dinner or drinks in Fenway before the game, and it kicks off a three-game home series against Minnesota.

🎙️ Leslie Odom Jr. with the Boston Pops | Back Bay | 7:30pm | Ticketed Leslie Odom Jr. with the Boston Pops is the polished Friday-night concert pick: Broadway pedigree, Symphony Hall setting, and a more dressed-up option than most long-weekend events. Great for a date night or visiting-family plan.

💃 Welcome Summer / Limani Summer Balkan Party | Seaport | 10pm–2am | Ticketed For a late-night Seaport plan, Boston Balkan Nights is hosting a summer kickoff party at Limani with a 10pm start and 2am finish. This one is best for a group that wants dancing and a high-energy nightlife setup rather than a sit-down show.


📅 Saturday 5/23

📮 Boston 2026 World Expo / World Stamp Show | Seaport | Sat 5/23–Sat 5/30 | Free / registration recommended This is much bigger than a stamp show: an eight-day international expo tied to America's 250th, with postal history, design, collectors, exhibits, dealers, ceremonies, and family-friendly programming. Opening weekend includes USPS First Day ceremonies, making it a surprisingly good history/design/collectibles pick.

🦸 Wicked Comic Con | Seaport | 10am–5pm | Free tickets One of the best free indoor events of the weekend: Artist Alley, comics, collectibles, panels, cosplay, kids programming, and a very accessible Seaport location.

🛍️ Greenway Artisan Market | Rose Kennedy Greenway | Downtown / Waterfront | 11am–5pm | Free A reliable pop-up market option with 50+ local artists and makers along the Greenway. It is easy to pair with the North End, Seaport, the Aquarium area, a beer garden, or a waterfront walk.

🎸 The Big Gig: Spring Music Festival & Market | Brighton Bazaar x Allston Pudding | Brighton | Sat 5/23–Sun 5/24 | Free The Big Gig is one of the best free festival-style hangs of the weekend: local indie music, market vendors, food, drinks, and the very easy Charles River Speedway courtyard setup. This is ideal for a low-pressure group plan where people can shop, listen, drink, and wander.

🛍️ Fenway Vintage Festival | Fenway | 12–6pm | Free RSVP Select Markets brings a two-day vintage festival to Time Out Market with vintage clothing, streetwear, jewelry, accessories, and pop-up extras.

🐝 World Bee Day Celebration 2026 | Fenway Victory Gardens | Fenway | 11am | Free A sweet, hyper-local outdoor pick for Saturday morning: World Bee Day programming at the Fenway Victory Gardens. It is smaller and more niche than the big markets, but it is exactly the kind of community event that makes the weekend feel more Boston-specific.

🇨🇱 Festival Viva Chile Boston 2026 | East Boston | 5:30–9:30pm | Free A strong cultural festival pick in East Boston, with Chilean community programming, music, and food-centered energy.

Red Sox vs. Minnesota Twins | Fenway Park | 4:10pm | Ticketed Saturday's 4:10pm first pitch is probably the best Fenway slot of the weekend if you want a full day around the neighborhood: vintage market first, game after, then dinner or drinks nearby.

🎤 Ari Lennox: The Vacancy Tour | MGM Music Hall at Fenway | Fenway | 8pm | Ticketed Ari Lennox is the strongest R&B concert pick of the weekend, with Lekan and Phabo listed for the Boston stop.

🛍️ Greenway Artisan Market | Greenway Artisan Market | Rose Kennedy Greenway | 11am–5pm | Free An outdoor market for local artists, makers, designers, stylists, and vintage sellers. The listing describes 50+ vendors along the Greenway, which makes it easy to pair with the waterfront, North End, Seaport, or a downtown lunch!

🥕 Union Square Farmers Market | Somerville | 9am–1pm | Free The 22nd annual market on the Plaza, voted "Best Farmers Market in Somerville" by Somerville Times readers. 60+ local food producers. SNAP $1-for-$1 match up to $15. Easy on the Green Line at Union Square Station.

🎷 Berklee Summer in the City: Free Outdoor Concerts | Various locations | Various times | Free Berklee's beloved free concert series kicks off this weekend with 200+ free outdoor concerts running through September. Berklee students, faculty, and alumni perform jazz, classical, Latin, funk, folk, world music at Atlantic Wharf, the ICA, Prudential Center, Spectacle Island, Club Passim, Longfellow House, and South Boston Maritime Park. Check the schedule.

🎸 The Big Gig: Spring Music Festival & Market | Brighton Bazaar + Allston Pudding | Brighton | Sat 5/23–Sun 5/24, 12–6pm | Free The Big Gig is one of the strongest small-business festival finds: 10+ local indie acts, 100+ vendors, food, drinks, tintype portraits, and Brighton Speedway energy. It works as both a music festival and a shopping market, which makes it one of the best free weekend anchors for the small-business version of the guide.

👕 Fenway Outdoor Vintage Festival | Select Markets | Fenway | 12–6pm | Free RSVP Select Markets is bringing 30+ vendors per day to Fenway, with vintage clothing, streetwear, jewelry, accessories, Y2K, $10 piles, temporary tattoos, tooth gems, food, drinks, and more. It is one of the most accessible small-business pop-ups of the weekend because it sits right inside a high-traffic Fenway destination.

Light, Medium, Dark Coffee Class | Downtown Crossing | 1–2pm | Free with reservation George Howell Coffee's May education series includes a Saturday class comparing light, medium, and dark roast levels. Their own site says the Godfrey location hosts weekly public classes, and this specific May listing highlights free public education classes with reservations. Great for readers who want a daytime tasting that is not wine or beer.


📅 Sunday 5/24

🏃 Boston's Run to Remember | Boston Police Runner's Club / Millennium Running | Seaport | 7am | Registration required The weekend's biggest active event includes a half marathon and 5-mile race honoring fallen first responders and supporting Massachusetts Fallen Heroes. Even if you are not running, go cheer on the runners and take in the great energy of the race!

🌿 SoWa Open Market | SoWa Boston | South End | 11am–5pm | Free SoWa is the best Sunday daytime default: 100+ vendors, food trucks, local makers, art, design shops, and an easy South End stroll. Memorial Day weekend is a great early-season moment before peak summer crowds fully settle in.

🖤 Seaport x Black Owned Bos. Market: Rhythm & Blooms | Black Owned Bos. + Boston Seaport | Harbor Way, Seaport | 12–6pm | Free Black Owned Bos. returns to Seaport for its seventh season with a Sunday market themed "Rhythm & Blooms," featuring Black-owned businesses, food vendors, music, family-friendly programming, giveaways, and community pop-ups. It is one of the strongest outdoor market picks of the entire weekend.

🎸 The Big Gig: Spring Music Festival & Market | Brighton Bazaar x Allston Pudding | Brighton | Free Sunday is the second day of The Big Gig, which makes it a perfect backup if Saturday gets too crowded or your plans shift. It is still one of the better free music-and-market options in the city proper.

🍻 Sam Sessions Mini Music Festival | Sam Adams Boston Brewery | Jamaica Plain | Free The Sam Sessions weekend continues Sunday, giving JP another easy music-and-beer option.

Red Sox vs. Minnesota Twins | Fenway | 1:35pm | Ticketed Sunday's 1:35pm first pitch is the most relaxed, family-friendly Fenway time of the weekend. It also leaves room for SoWa, the Fenway Vintage Festival, or a concert later in the evening.

📮 Boston 2026 World Expo: Semiquincentennial Ceremony | Boston 2026 + USPS | Seaport | 11am | Free / registration recommended Sunday's World Expo programming includes a USPS First Day ceremony tied to the semiquincentennial, which makes it one of the more historically relevant indoor events of the weekend. Good for design, history, collecting, and America 250 overlap.

🎸 Bruce Springsteen & The E Street Band | TD Garden | North Station / West End | 7:30pm | Ticketed Bruce is the weekend's biggest arena concert and the obvious Sunday-night anchor. Plan around a heavy North Station crowd before and after the show.

🖤 Black Owned Bos. Market: Rhythm & Blooms | Black Owned Bos. + Boston Seaport | Harbor Way, Seaport | 12–6pm | Free One of the most important small-business market additions for Sunday. Black Owned Bos. lists the May 24 Seaport market as "Rhythm & Bloom," and Boston Seaport confirms the market runs noon–6pm at Harbor Way, free to the public. Expect Black-owned businesses across retail, food, beauty, art, lifestyle, and community programming.

🎸 The Big Gig: Spring Music Festival & Market | Brighton Bazaar + Allston Pudding | Brighton | 12–6pm | Free Sunday is day two of The Big Gig, so anyone who misses Saturday still has a full free local-music/local-vendor option. The Sunday lineup continues the same mix of indie acts, market vendors, food, drinks, and Brighton Speedway courtyard energy.

🎶 Nerd Night + Live Music | Night Shift Brewing | Everett Taproom | Sun 5/24, 4–7pm + 6–9pm | Free / pay as you go Night Shift has a Sunday double-header at the Everett taproom: Nerd Night from 4–7pm and live music with Sarah Martin from 6–9pm.


📅 Monday 5/25 — Memorial Day

🇺🇸 Memorial Day Flag Garden | Home Base + Massachusetts Military Heroes Fund | Boston Common | All Day | Free Monday is the final day to see the Flag Garden on Boston Common. If you only make one Memorial Day-specific stop, this is the one to prioritize.

🎭 Memorial Day Open House | Museum of Fine Arts | Fenway | 10am–5pm | Free The MFA's Memorial Day Open House is one of the best Monday plans, especially for families or anyone looking for a free cultural event. Admission is free for Massachusetts residents with a valid MA zip code, and the programming includes a Puppet Showplace Theater takeover.

🖼️ Memorial Day: Free Admission to ICA Boston | Institute of Contemporary Art | Seaport | 10am–5pm | Free timed tickets ICA Boston is also offering free Memorial Day admission, making Seaport a strong Monday museum option. Timed tickets are required and become available the day before, so this is worth planning ahead.

🇺🇸 Memorial Day Parade & Ceremony | Quincy | 10:30am | Free Quincy has one of the better full Memorial Day parade-and-ceremony options close to Boston. The event begins at Quincy Avenue, includes a wreath-laying pause, and ends at Mount Wollaston Cemetery.

🇺🇸 Memorial Day Remembrance Ceremony | Somerville Veterans' Memorial Cemetery | 11am | Free

📮 Boston 2026 World Expo: American Bison First Day Ceremony | Boston 2026 + USPS | Seaport | 11am | Free / registration recommended The World Expo continues Memorial Day with an American Bison First Day ceremony at the BCEC. It is a quirky but genuinely fitting America 250 / Memorial Day indoor option, especially if you are already in the Seaport.

🐻 Hundred Acre Wood: A Winnie-the-Pooh Experience | Boston Children's Museum | Seaport | daytime | Ticketed Boston Children's Museum opens its Hundred Acre Wood experience over Memorial Day weekend, making it one of the better family-friendly indoor picks if Monday weather gets messy. It is less "holiday observance" and more "long-weekend family save," but a great plan nonetheless!

🏃 Run Club | Night Shift Brewing | Everett Taproom | 6:30–8pm | Free / pay as you go Night Shift's recurring run club lands directly on Memorial Day this year. It is a good active/local-brewery option for people who want something active to close out the weekend~

🧠 Trivia | Everett Taproom | 7:30–9:30pm | Free / pay as you go

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u/Top-Finger-4339 — 1 day ago

We've given up on happiness | No one volunteers themselves

I feel like we've given up on happiness as a society, just handing each other coping advice like it's a real solution. "Lonely? Go meet people, call friends, Join some passion community." As if it's that simple. But notice: no one volunteers themselves. That's the quiet defeat. It's like loneliness can't be solved, only managed. So we never ask how our own presence might help.

I'm not saying we're doing anything wrong. I know it's hard. But maybe next time a friend says, "I want to hang out," try your best to be present yourself. And if you can't, don't just give the same old generic excuses. Make it your effort to connect them or get them involved somewhere in a non-generic way to get the social time they need. Am I alone in this observation, or is there truth to it?

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u/PopIcy9089 — 2 days ago

40F -- would anyone want to have a lil friendship making meetup?

Hi!

I posted on here a long time ago and got a lot of messages, which was awesome and a lil overwhelming, and then I promptly locked myself out of that account and inadvertently ghosted my potential new friends. This is a new auto generated username, and quite frankly I really enjoy it and self identify with it!

I'm a 40F with a grand total of 0 friends in this city. I had a lot in my 20s that slowly started disappearing in my 30s to do things like have kids and live in the suburbs blah. I don't really fit in with most people my age because I can't relate to doing things like having kids and living in the suburbs, and most social meetup things seem to be aimed at 20s/30s. I also do not relate to the going to bed at 8pm because we are now 40 crowd, either. I like to go out and have fun still! Age is simply just a number you know.

I do a LOT of stuff alone and am cool with that, but am starting to feel a bit lonely and would love people to have adventures with, vent about relationships/work/politics, people watch, get high and talk about philosophy, etc.

I just turned 40, am very progressive/liberal and would not get along with someone whos maga, very open minded/open to new experiences (I don't mean that as a sexual hint, pervs), I love travel, being outside (I *want* to like hiking but it's more of being on the summit with a beer I'm enjoying than actually doing it, but willing to try more, also want to try roller skating), lovveee a good dive bar, trying new foods, taking the ferry to PTown/MV in the summer, curb your enthusiasm, always sunny, 420, red wine, trashy reality tv, beach days, trivia nights, thrifting, crafts, painting, literally almost all music except Morgan Wallen style country, concerts, porchfests, blah blah hblah .......

I'm wondering if there are people similar who would maybe like to schedule a meetup at a bar? I used to go to couchsurfing meetups back when that was a thing and it was fun to meet other people and share travel stories etc. I'd be into doing something similar like a weekly meet up but again, am having hard finding ones that include newly turned 40 year old friendless sad ladies like myself. lmk!!!

EDIT: open to any ages! Ideally looking for friends around my age but am happy to hang out with people younger/older etc. I only mention age because I feel I'm getting excluded from meetup type groups now that I've turned 40 I don't fit into the 20s/30s groups which I feel there are a ton of and I'm not seeing many for 40s.

EDIT AGAIN :

I made a WhatsApp group in the middle of the street in the thunderstorm so you can join! Message me for the link.

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u/Worldly_Goose1480 — 3 days ago

Is anybody up for a walk near Charles Esplande

I am planning to go on a walk around Copley and Charles Esplande. Looking for people to chat with and go around Charles Esplande. If you are around and interested to join for a walk feel free to message.

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u/BitNo9324 — 2 days ago

Why is everyone so dang freaked?!

30f, i genuinely I’m trying to understand why most people on here usually go into the sexual/dating route? Like how do you actually filter people that are genuine and actually want to do things/ be friends?

Hopefully this doesn’t delete by a mod, but just open to listening.

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u/ConcentrateHairy5423 — 3 days ago

36F: Looking for horror movie friends around my age. Start with Hokum this Sunday?

Hello all,

I'm looking to make some friends who are into horror movies. Unfortunately my best friend lives out of state and my SIL moved far away so I have no horror movie buddies in Massachusetts. This is very sad for me. #rip

Ideally, I'm looking for people who are potential friends who also like horror movies so we can eventually hang out at each other's place for horror movie nights. Not just people that go to a horror movie and never talk to each other. Also because a movie theater-based friendship isn't really my jam.

However, I have been told it's probably not a good idea to immediately host a horror movie night at my place with my popcorn and jellybean bar for randos because "What if they're serial killers too?" and "What if you get murdered?" And I say that sounds like a problem for my apartment complex because I'll haunt my downstairs neighbor if I die.

> #Here's My Modest Proposal

  • Date: Sunday, May 24th
  • Location: AMC Boston Common 19
  • Time: 4:30PM
  • Movie: Hokum

Maybe get mocktails/cocktails afterwards and discuss the movie: likes, dislikes, themes, etc.

> #About Me

  • 36F
  • Turbo extroverted; I'm usually doing some activity 6 days a week with someone(s)
  • Likes these subgenres of horror: Thriller, Psychological Horror, Black Horror, Feminist Horror, Haunted House Horror, Comedy Horror, great creature designs in movies, Sci-Fi Horror
  • Dislikes: Extreme violence and modern slashers (think Terrifier), horror movies with rape and/or sexual violence, I'm not a super huge fan of body horror (like The Substance even though I liked the storyline)
  • 3 most recent horror movies I saw: Nightmare on Elm Street, Exit 8, and Undertone
  • 3 horror movies I recommend to people: Talk to Me, The Endless, and Late Night with the Devil
  • Looking forward to seeing: Backrooms

That's about it, thanks for reading! Looking forward to potentially making some more outgoing new friends.

u/lehmongeloh — 3 days ago

Need more friends who think a Tuesday night movie is a good plan

Hey everyone! I have AMC A-List and catch movies pretty regularly, mostly at AMC Assembly Row, but I’m open to other theaters around the Boston area too.

Looking to see if anyone would be interested in forming a casual movie group or meeting up for screenings from time to time. I’m into a mix of stuff — blockbusters, sci-fi, thrillers, indie films, animation, basically anything that’s worth watching.

No pressure or formal commitment. Just looking for people who enjoy going to the movies and might want some company instead of always going solo.

A little about me: 29M, been in Boston for about 5 years, work in Finance, and outside of watching movies/TV shows, I’m also into traveling and playing board games.

If interested, feel free to comment or DM with the kinds of movies you usually watch.

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u/No_Professional_6571 — 3 days ago
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Looking for friends

hi I’m a 19 F doing an internship in Boston this summer. im a rising sophomore at Florida state university. I like to go thrifting, see live music, tan, raves but I’m always down to do anything. Feel free to reach out if you want to be friends!!!!

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u/Flashy_Ebb_5030 — 3 days ago

Scot in Boston 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿

Hey folks.

I’m currently on a backpacking trip from Mexico down to Colombia and have made the impromptu decision to head home via Boston to catch Scotland’s World Cup game against Morocco in your beautiful city on the 19th June.

As it’s a bit of a last minute decision and running on a bit of a tight budget - due to the World Cup being on, even hostel prices are through the roof and a bit beyond what I can afford.

I wanted to check with some locals if they had any tips of where to look for possible cheaper accomodation options such as couch surfing or similar that might give me a plan B and allow me some leftover $ for a beer token or two.

Any help or insight is greatly appreciated and I look forward to exploring what Boston has to offer as much as you’re looking forward to thousands of Scots descending on Boston for a week.

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u/Sock-confidential23 — 3 days ago

26F looking for friends!

Hi, I just moved from NYC to Boston and looking for friends to hang out with. I like going to movies, trying new cuisines or workout classes around the city! But, Im mostly down for anything!

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u/poonguzhali_ — 4 days ago