u/Sad_Development_3495

Ok so I 18m got in a relationship before college and my GF 18f is attending the same one but has been facing housing issues and went to the college in search of help. She asked me to call her and give her moral support but the phone cut of last second cause of my WiFi. When she needed me most she had to do it all alone even though she told me how scared she was and how she trusted me and wanted me to be there. After the my WiFi got better I called her twice and saw she wasn’t responding I waited for her to answer but the time she called me back it was too late and she was done. Now as she rightfully should tells me how hurt she is and then like a IDIOT I tell her that I clearly fucked up enough for one day and imma set my phone down to give her space but then she asks me if I still love her and I say yes then she asks me why I would give her space instead of staying with her until she goes to bed. 

Please give me your advice, tips and tricks I can do to fix my mistake of breaking her trust in me for not showing up when she needed me most cause of shitty WiFi.

Hi I’m 20M and my girlfriend is 20F and when ever I get mad I try to leave and make space for my self. For example yesterday I was driving then got stressed and eventually pulled over and my girlfriend try to calm me down but I ended up shoving her hand away from the shoulder she was trying to comfort. This ended up spraining her wrist and I feel so fucking bad but since then she has pointed out when I get mad I get distant and how I’m her safe space and she wants to be mine so how can I do it. Please I would like to know cause I feel like I’m draining the life out of the love of my life.

20M here and I’m new to Reddit. My GF of a few months now and I have gotten into another fight and I need your opinion.

CONTEXT

1. It originally started off with me going to bed without me asking her how her day was. The next morning she was more dry
2. Later that day I didn’t go to see her after class (college classes) to pick up the cupcake she saved for me after her class birthday party for her because I got sick and my body was sore so I went home instead. Her texts got even more dry and she says it doesn’t matter when I ask what I did wrong or how I can fix it.
3. After she got so dry the only reactions I could get out of her after apologizing was doesn’t matter, k, and ok. So I told her that I love her. Then I brought up the fact how it felt like she didn’t actually love me which I ended up expressing wrong what i meant was that every time I heard her say I love you after she got mad at me it felt empty.

Ok now that you have a opinion here’s some context for each number

1. It was late for me when I asked her how her day was and she said she was eating so she didn’t want to answer and 20 minutes after I asked again she said she was still eating and the way she said it the second time really made me stop wanting to ask and then she texted me saying she finished eating but I never asked her for the 3rd time
2. I texted her that I got sick day of like 8am and texted her that I was gonna go home around 3 which was when both of our classes ended.
3. I expressed what I felt wrong and now she thinks ive been lying to her every time I told her that I feel loved in our relationship when in reality it’s only been these few days she’s been mad at me.
   Also ive been giving her space as of late cause I read that I shouldn’t overly apologize and act overly lovey dovy but I read that to late and now I’m trying to fix that. I also am giving her regular check ins on my day.

What are your thoughts?