u/Sad_flamingo123

AGE:35 years old but looks really young thanks to my genes and good heart :D Height :5'3" Weight : 55kg

LOCATION: Based in Islamabad, but open to relocating within Pakistan or abroad for the right person.

EDUCATION: Master's in Business.

OCCUPATION I work with an international company as an HR head.

MARITAL STATUS: Never married. Never engaged.

ACCOMODATION: Rented

SOURCE OF INCOME: I am a coporate employee and financially independent.

ABOUT ME: I'm equal parts calm and chaotic.I can enjoy a fancy dinner one weekend and happily sit at a roadside chai dhaba the next. I love travelling, hiking, discovering new places, and saying "Let's do it!" before fully thinking through the consequences. I'm slightly obsessed with AI and technology, will absolutely stop to pet every cat I see, and believe food somehow tastes better after a long drive. My humor is mostly sarcasm with a sprinkle of emotional intelligence.I roast people I like, laugh at myself often, and firmly believe every good relationship needs friendship before anything else. Bonus points if you enjoy random conversations at 2 AM that somehow start with "What's for dinner?" and end with debating whether aliens pay taxes.

RELIGIOUS BELIEFS Im Sunni Syed./urdu speaking .Itry to stay consistent with my prayers and keep improving my deen. I fast during Ramadan, avoid riba, and believe our connection should be built around Islamic values, sincerity, and kindness.Just to clarify i dont do parda or hijab but i dont dress vulgar too.

FAMILY DETAILS: Father is a retired government officer.My mother is a homemaker.Two sisters and one brother. and one lil cute spoiled cat🐾

LOOKING FOR A man between 30–40. Emotionally mature. Handsome cz why not ? Kind. Ambitious. Funny (because life is already serious enough). Family-oriented. Sunni syed but also open to other sunni caste. Someone who communicates instead of disappearing for three days only to return with, "Sorry, been busy." Someone who's genuinely ready for marriage not collecting talking stages like Pokémon.

DEAL BREAKERS Alcohol Dishonesty Disloyalty Emotional unavailability Narcissistic behavior Lack of ambition I'm not sure what I want." Polygamy Please know what you're looking for before messaging me

.Non negotiable: Must be serious about marriage. Honest,loyal, and emotionally mature. Respectful towards family and relationships. Financially responsible. Religious values should be reasonably aligned. Interest-based earnings or practices should not be normalized.

Peferrable family setup Flexible with both joint and separate family systems, as long as there is mutual respect, healthy boundaries, and balance.

Do you want children: Yes, InshaAllah.

Time frame for marriage Preferably within 6 months to 1 year, with family involvement from the early stages so expectations remain clear and intentions stay genuine.

After years of dodging aunties, surviving corporate life,and pretending Islamabad traffic is character building, I figured...

Why not outsource my rishta hunt to Reddit?

Worst case? I entertain the internet.

Best case? I find my husband.

35 years old but looks really young thanks to my genes and good heart :D

5'3" (travel-size, easy to pack for adventures).

Based in Islamabad, but open to relocating within Pakistan or abroad for the right person.

Master's in Business. I work with an international company, love what I do,

Never married. Never engaged.

ABOUT ME:

I'm equal parts calm and chaotic.I can enjoy a fancy dinner one weekend and happily sit at a roadside chai dhaba the next.

I love travelling, hiking, discovering new places, and saying "Let's do it!" before fully thinking through the consequences.

I'm slightly obsessed with AI and technology, will absolutely stop to pet every cat I see, and believe food somehow tastes better after a long drive.

My humor is mostly sarcasm with a sprinkle of emotional intelligence.I roast people I like, laugh at myself often, and firmly believe every good relationship needs friendship before anything else.

Bonus points if you enjoy random conversations at 2 AM that somehow start with "What's for dinner?" and end with debating whether aliens pay taxes.

RELIGIOUS BELIEFS

Im Sunni Syed./urdu speaking .Itry to stay consistent with my prayers and keep improving my deen. I fast during Ramadan, avoid riba, and believe our connection should be built around Islamic values, sincerity, and kindness.

FAMILY DETAILS:

Father is a retired government officer.My mother is a homemaker.Two sisters and one brother. and one lil cute spoiled cat🐾

LOOKING FOR

A man between 30–40.

Emotionally mature.

Handsome cz why not ?

Kind.

Ambitious.

Funny (because life is already serious enough).

Family-oriented.

Someone who communicates instead of disappearing for three days only to return with, "Sorry, been busy."

Someone who's genuinely ready for marriage—not collecting talking stages like Pokémon.

DEAL BREAKERS

Alcohol

Dishonesty

Disloyalty

Emotional unavailability

Narcissistic behavior

Lack of ambition

I'm not sure what I want."

Not interested in Polygamy

Please know what you're looking for before messaging me

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END GOAL:

Marriage within 6–12 months, InshaAllah.

Families involved early.

Clear intentions.

No situationships.

No endless "let's just vibe and see."

If you're here to 'see where things go,' they can go without me. 😌

After surviving corporate meetings that should've been emails, Islamabad traffic, and family gatherings where every aunty becomes a relationship consultant, I figured... why not give Reddit a shot?

Worst case? I get another funny story.

Best case? I meet my person 🫣

ABOUT ME:

35 years old but looks really young thanks to my genes and good heart :D

5'3" (travel-size, easy to pack for adventures).

Based in Islamabad, but open to relocating within Pakistan or abroad for the right person.

Master's in Business. I work with an international company, love what I do .

Never married. Never engaged.

PERSONALITY (Because thats the important part)

I'm equal parts calm and chaotic.

I can enjoy a fancy dinner one weekend and happily sit at a roadside chai dhaba the next.

I love travelling, hiking, discovering new places, and saying "Let's do it!" before fully thinking through the consequences.

I've an interest in AI and technology because of my profession, will absolutely stop to pet every cat I see, and believe food somehow tastes better after a long drive.

My humor is mostly sarcasm with a sprinkle of emotional intelligence.I roast people I like, laugh at myself often and firmly believe every good relationship needs friendship before anything else.

Bonus points if you enjoy random conversations at 2 AM that somehow start with "What's for dinner?" and end with debating whether aliens pay taxes

RELIGIOUS BELIEFS:

I am Sunni Syed/urdu speaking .I try to stay consistent with my prayers and keep improving my deen. I fast during Ramadan, avoid riba, and believe our connection should be built around Islamic values, sincerity, and kindness.

FAMILY:

Father is a retired government officer.Mother is a homemaker.Two sisters and one brother and one spoiled cat 🐾

LOOKING FOR:

A man between 30–40. Emotionally mature. Handsome cz why not ? Kind. Ambitious. Funny (because life is already serious enough). Family-oriented. Someone who communicates instead of disappearing for three days only to return with, "Sorry, been busy." Someone who's genuinely ready for marriage not collecting talking stages like Pokémon.

Preferably Syed, but I'm open to a genuinely good Sunni match.

DEAL BREAKERS:

Alcohol Dishonesty Disloyalty Emotional unavailability Narcissistic behavior Lack of ambition Polygamy Divorcee with kids

Please know what you're looking for before messaging me.

END GOAL

Marriage within 6–12 months, InshaAllah. Families involved early. Clear intentions. No situationships. No endless "let's just vibe and see."

Your opening message tells me everything I need to know. So if your best line is... "Hey."

Please keep that mystery to yourself.

Age: 35 but looks really young thanks to my genes and good heart :D

Height: 5 ft 3 inches

Weight: 55 kg balanced, neither too lean nor overweight.

Caste: Sunni Syed

Location : Islamabad, Pakistan. Open to relocating within Pakistan or abroad for the right person.

Accomodation :Rented

Education: Masters in Business

Income source: Working with an international company and financially independent through my own salary.

Marital status : Single, never married, never engaged. No past baggage, just forward-looking

Religion and how practicing i am:

i am Sunni Syed, Urdu-speaking. I try my best to stay regular with my prayers, though I’ll be honest that I’m not always consistent. I do miss sometimes, but I’m working on improving this because I know it’s important for me. I fast during Ramadan and try to follow Islam in my daily life as much as I can.

In terms of beliefs, I keep it simple and clear. I don’t believe in nazar or niyaz practices. I strongly believe that only Allah has the power to give, take, and answer prayers, so everything is directed to Him alone. I’m strictly against interest (riba/soud). I also don’t follow the concepts of mazar or mannat, as I believe we should ask only Allah directly without any intermediaries.

Hobbies & interest: Foodie at heart and always excited to explore new restaurants and food spots. I enjoy cooking and trying new recipes. Animal lover and passionate about animal welfare. Stay updated with Al trends due to both professional and personal interest. Enjoy hiking, traveling, and adventurous activities that most people hesitate to try. Have a dark sense of humor and enjoy witty roasting conversations.

Family details :Father is a retired government officer and mother is a homemaker. We are three sisters and one brother, so I understand both structure and chaos at the same time..

Requirment for a partner: Looking for a well-educated, well-spoken, and ambitious man between the ages of 30 and 40. Someone who is emotionally available,family-oriented, kind, respectful, serious about marriage, and grounded in his values. A person who has a clear direction in life and is willing to build a strong partnership based on trust, respect, and mutual understanding. Preferred to be from syed caste but open to good profile of other sunni caste as well.

Deal breaker: Alcohol, dishonesty, disloyalty, emotional unavailability, lack of seriousness about marriage, and no ambition or direction in life. Narcassisst.

Non negotiable: Must be serious about marriage. Honest,loyal, and emotionally mature. Respectful towards family and relationships. Financially responsible. Religious values should be reasonably aligned. Interest-based earnings or practices should not be normalized.

Peferrable family setup: Flexible with both joint and separate family systems, as long as there is mutual respect, healthy boundaries, and balance.

Do you want children: Yes, InshaAllah.

Time frame for marriage Preferably within 6 months to 1 year, with family involvement from the early stages so expectations remain clear and intentions stay genuine.

About Me

Age 35 but often told I look younger than my age ☺️ Height 5 ft 3 inches Weight 55 kg balanced neither too lean nor overweight Location Islamabad Ethnicity Sunni Syed Urdu speaking Nationality Pakistani

Accommodation

Currently living in Islamabad and open to relocating within Pakistan or abroad for the right person

Education

MPhil graduate 🎓

Marital Status

Single never married never engaged no past baggage just forward looking

Occupation

Working with an international company so life is usually a mix of deadlines calls and coffee ☕

Family Details

Father retired government officer Mother homemaker We are 3 sisters and 1 brother so yes I understand both structure and chaos at the same time 😄

Requirements for a Partner

Looking for a well educated well spoken and ambitious man aged 30 to 40 who is emotionally available family oriented kind and respectful serious about marriage and grounded in his values Someone away from drugs and alcohol is a must Animal lover is a big bonus 🐾 syed will be preferred but open to other sunni caste as well

Religion & How Practicing I Am

I try to maintain a balanced approach between deen and dunya not extreme just consistent and mindful I’d like someone whose halal haram balance aligns with mine 😄 I try to keep faith central in important life decisions and I personally avoid normalizing interest in any form

Hobbies & Interests

Foodie at heart always exploring new restaurants and food spots I enjoy cooking and trying new recipes I love animals and care about animal welfare I stay updated with AI trends due to my profession and interest in growth I enjoy hiking and adventurous activities that most people hesitate to try I also have a dark sense of humour and enjoy witty roasting conversations 😄

Preferred Family Setup

Flexible with both joint or separate family system as long as respect and balance are maintained

Deal Breakers

Drugs alcohol dishonesty disloyalty emotional unavailability lack of seriousness about marriage and no ambition or direction in life

Do You Want Children

Yes

Timeframe for Marriage

Within 6 months to 1 year preferably with family involvement from early stages so things remain clear and intentional

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Hey guys.

I wanna share something my best friend went through last year because honestly I feel like I went through the trauma with her too. I’ll try to keep it short but this story is actually insane.

So my friend joined Muzz with genuine intentions for marriage. She’s not someone into casual relationships or timepass at all. She matched with this guy HZ who seemed PERFECT. Funny, decent, good looking, respectful… literally no red flags in the beginning.

After talking on the app for a while, they planned to meet at a well-known cafe. The meetup went really well. No catfishing, vibes matched, conversation was smooth, everything seemed genuine.

My friend wanted to move things forward properly and involve families ASAP, so she asked if they could exchange numbers and talk outside the app.

Now THIS is where the story starts getting weird.

The guy said he owns a sanitaryware business and his phone number is registered as the official business contact number, so it’s always flooded with customer calls. Because of that, he suggested they also communicate on Snapchat for “timely replies.”

At first my friend was suspicious, but then she checked and what he said actually looked true. The number really was connected to his business and even had his own display picture on whtsapp So she ignored the weirdness.

Fast forward things started getting serious. HE was the one talking about sending his parents for rishta. He met her multiple times too. My friend works in corporate, so obviously she wanted to know the guy better before involving family fully.

Then one random night she started stalking his business Instagram page. And under one of his shop video there was a comment from a girl with HIS surname.

Profile picture?

The girl holding a small daughter while HE was standing behind them.

My friend literally froze.

When she confronted him, first he denied everything. Then after some time he admitted:

“Yes, I’m married and I have a 3-year-old daughter but we’re not on good terms and we’re basically about to divorce.”

And then came the classic victim story.

He started saying his wife works with a famous pakistani brand ( hint : After pakistani singer name) as visual merchandiser . she’s always busy, brings her laptop to bed every night, doesn’t give him attention, they’ve been emotionally disconnected for 6 months etc etc.

Basically painted himself as the neglected husband.

My friend was hurt and angry, but this guy KEPT chasing her. Kept convincing her that he genuinely wanted a future with her and would divorce his wife soon. Said all kinds of horrible things about his wife just to make himself look innocent.

And honestly… my friend made the mistake of believing him.

Then he started saying they need to keep everything “lowkey” because his wife could use it against him during divorce proceedings. So for months he kept her emotionally trapped with excuses and fake promises.

Eventually my friend told me everything and I told her to stop accepting vague answers and give him an ultimatum.

So she finally asked him directly:

“Do you actually want to marry me or not? Because this situation feels wrong.”

And THIS man replies:

“I don’t want to leave my wife either bichari wo bhi,uska kia qasoor But I don’t want to lose you too. Can’t you still marry me? You’ll have your own house and kids.”

LIKE ???????

That was finally the moment my friend snapped and said absolutely not.

Then he got angry and said he’d “decide within 2 weeks.”

Guess what happened next?

He suddenly got “busy” attending his friend’s wedding, kept delaying the conversation, and after dragging it for more days… when she finally asked again:

“When are you going to marry me?”

This man had the audacity to say:

“I never said I was going to marry you.”

BRO YOU WERE LITERALLY ON MUZZ 😭

And when my friend finally ended things, he started begging:

“Please mujhe baddua mat dena meri choti beti hei ”

Like sir if you care SO much about your daughter and family then why were you out here ruining another girl emotionally???

Anyways, thankfully it’s been months now and my friend is out of this mess. She admits she also ignored obvious red flags after finding out he was married because she got emotionally manipulated badly.

The creepiest part?

I think his wife eventually suspected something too because she viewed my friend’s L**k**n profile once. When my friend asked him about it, he casually said:

“Don’t worry, she was just angry and saying she’ll come to your office and make a scene.” This was just when my friend found out he is married

And honestly I’m pretty sure he probably painted my friend as some desperate girl chasing HIM just to save himself.

What makes me even sicker is that his sister and sister-in-law are those small-scale Instagram influencer types with happy family posts everywhere. Sometimes their profiles randomly show up on our feeds and it’s honestly disturbing seeing this man publicly acting like the perfect husband/father while secretly doing all this.

And the scariest thing is if he could do this to my friend, he’s probably doing it to other girls too.

His LAST request before ending things was literally:

“Please don’t tell your friends about me"

Now I understand why ,because Islamabad is a small place N by the way he also has one food popup truck in rawalpindi islamabad. 💀

I don’t know why I never feel at peace. It is like my mind is always running and never really stops. I feel anxious most of the time about everything.

A few years ago I went to a psychiatrist and she gave me mood stabilizers. I stayed on them for around two to three years. I stopped taking them about five or six months ago because I never really felt like they were helping.

I have a good job but I am always worried. I keep thinking what if I make a mistake. What if the founders think I am useless. What if I say something and my colleagues think I am stupid or uneducated. I overthink a lot and most of it is negative.

In my relationship things are not even bad. I have been with someone for the past year and he is kind and respectful. Much better than people I was with before. Still my mind creates doubts. I start wondering if he is right for me. If we look good together. If people will judge us. Even when he says something small I feel guilty or scared that he will leave me or that he does not like me anymore.

It is exhausting to feel like this all the time. Sometimes I just feel like running away from everything. I do not know when this anxiety and overthinking will slow down.

I just needed to let this out because it was starting to feel suffocating. I hope whoever reads this keeps me in their prayers for some peace