u/Samar_again

Hiraeth (pronounced heer-eye-th) is a Welsh word with no direct English translation. It describes a deep, poignant longing for a home, time, or person to which you cannot return—a profound sense of grief for a past or idealized place that may no longer exist. 

I've been living in Mumbai, away from my family, for a while now. The strange part is I don't really miss home, but I don't feel like I belong here either. And when I go back, that place doesn't quite feel like mine anymore.

It's like existing between two places, with neither one feeling like home.

I keep seeing people talk about red flags, green flags, confidence, charisma, looks, communication, attachment styles, etc. They're all important, but I feel like we ignore the biggest factor: actually meeting the right person.

You don't date every compatible person out there. You date the people who happen to be in your college, office, friend circle, gym, or wherever life puts you.

I've seen people with plenty of flaws end up in happy relationships just because they met someone at the right time. And I've also seen genuinely attractive, confident, emotionally mature people stay single for years simply because they never met someone they clicked with.

Self-improvement definitely helps, but sometimes it feels like timing and proximity do a lot more heavy lifting than we like to admit.

i keep wasting my time alot so it will be good if we can both push each other.