Becoming distant with my twin
Hard for me to write, think I just need to post in a place where other people might understand and relate. My twin brother and I were super close growing up, all throughout high school and into our 20s. (We are mid 30s now) We were living together about 10 years ago and then I moved to a different state with my then boyfriend. Twin stayed back and ended up getting into a relationship, fast forward to today we are both married and living in different states.
Ive tried really hard to maintain touch with him, but he just goes ghost every couple months with no contact. We have 3 other siblings and Im in touch with everyone else almost everyday, but my twin hardly ever gets back to me, or anyone for that matter. I see his wife’s social media and they are always out and about having adventures and whatnot, it just hurts me to realize he can’t even be bothered to shoot me a text. Trying to let it go but… yeah, it hurts.
I spend most of my time alone, my husband works full time and Im only part time for my own business. Lots of down time with my dog. I went from being in a full house all the time with my built in best friend to… just being quite isolated. Just wanted to vent, and see if anyone else has gone through anything like this. Its not easy at all.