u/Sawyer112233

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I asked what he’s like she just shook her head and said he was nutty and a raging maga supporter 😭😭😭

I (20m) and my girlfriend (21f) have been dating for a while now and she has always been depressed and suicidal since the day we met. I’ve told her that I am willing to be there for her and support her no matter what happens because I am also depressed and have been suicidal in the past and I know how much having someone that loves and cares about you can help. A few weeks ago she stopped going to therapy and taking her meds and she tried to end things with me because she felt like she was only going to bring me down and she told me that I should find someone who is mentally stable and lives closer.I managed to convince her to stay and start taking her meds again. things have been ok since up until 3 days ago when she stayed in bed the entire day except for going to the bathroom up until today where she ended up having to go to the mental hospital because she needed more help than I or her family could give. She is again saying that she thinks that she is too much for me to handle and that I deserve better. 6ish hours ago she called me from the hospital phone because they take it until she gets moved to a different facility hopefully today or tomorrow and she said that she doesn’t know if she will reach out. I don’t know how to move forward with this situation because I love her so much and she’s the only girl I want. She means the world to me and I don’t think I can go through thinking I’m going to lose her again. Right now I am keeping a little hope that she will stay and that’s the only reason I haven’t completely broken down except for the hour or two I cried when we got off the phone. I really don’t know why I’m making this post and I don’t know what the hell to expect from people after they read this but here I am, still writing it. If anyone has any advice or suggestions on how to help her through this and make her understand that she’s the only one I want, please let me know. I’ve tried telling her but that doesn’t seem to be enough and she keeps saying that I’ll be ok and eventually find someone else. Any advice helps. Thank you.

For the past 3 years I have been ripping off entire toe nails, causing bleeding and multiple infections. I thought I was the only person that did something like that until recently I learned it was a BFRB that others also struggle with. My issue is that I can go over a month without even thinking about it or having the urge to rip nails off but then everything collapses in a matter of days. First it’s one nail, then the next, so on and so forth til they are all gone. I haven’t been able to find anything that stops this urge when I get it and I’m sick of wearing socks all the time or sticking my feet in the sand at the beach whenever someone walks up to me just because of how ashamed and embarrassed I am by this. I’ve tried everything I can think of; I’ve tried keeping them cut short, keeping my hands busy when I get the sudden urge, I’ve even went for walks around my house in the middle of the night but I always end up ripping them all off less than an hour or two when I get that feeling. It’s like I need to do it and can’t control myself enough to stop. Has anyone found anything that has helped? Even a little bit?