u/Sedi_X

Some of this is not in English + broken English as my ex-fiance was not a native English speaker.

Translating the parts that are not in English:

Dino (my nickname pronounced Dee-no)

Imam jedan bitan stavar -> I have something important to tell you

U pitanje je intimni odnos u braku -> in the context of intimacy during marriage

To nije problem OK, ako nekad hoces rukama, bice puno poklona za to (puno dobrih poklona za te dane i hocu opet da Gledamo movie i da ko lezis pored srca, da ti mirisem kosu i da te poljubim) -> that’s not a problem ok, if you want to do it by hand sometime [handjobs], there will be a lot of gifts for this (a lot of good gifts for those days and I also want to watch a movie together while you lay your head next to my heart so I can sniff your hair and kiss you)

Menstruacije -> menstruating

So yeah.. I was going through chemo, radiation and had an upcoming surgery and my ex fiance was planning a sex schedule for us. Needless to say, that didn’t end well and I flipped out on him for having no sense of respect. He said “it was his duty to be the man of the house and what he says goes”

I dumped him, got a restraining order (due to other stuff I don’t want to mention) and then he got deported back to his homeland
He contacted me via email 149 times after he was deported and I didn’t respond to a single one and to this day he still contacts me via email

Welcome to my trauma, thank you 😅