u/Shayntastic

... my sleep sucks, my joints hurt, and my eyes are puffy.

I'm in maintenance. Been on for about a year, maintenance for 6 months plus. Suuuuper happy with my weight and figure. So I haven't been as consistent. But I started this whole thing because of the dual purpose with generalized inflammation. So in maintenance, I've spread out my shots. 8 days, 10 days, 2 weeks... a little Laissez-faire.

Separately, I found out I have bone on bone arthritis in my knee, and it's acting up big time. My dry eyes have gotten real bad in the past week. I can't sleep for shit. My eye bags are back!

I just had a lightbulb moment. This all coincides with me not being diligent with my shots.

Anyone else have the same?

My husband loves big TVs. I don't really care. We have a 50 inch that is older but works well enough for me. We're sitting on the couch and my kids wants to blast something from his phone to the TV, and it's not working. So I say, "meh we probably need a new TV", and my husband says, "we could get one this weekend, that could be your Mother's Day gift!"

So I push back. "Don't disguise a gift for yourself as a Mother's Day gift, dude. That's fucked up".

And he just starts fighting back, saying g he already got me something, this was in addition, and that I'm acting like an asshole.

It escalated to him saying I'm a "hysterical woman", and I put words in his mouth, and that he won't let me walk all over him.

He's a great man. But lordie he can never be wrong. A simple, "yeah, you're right. We could get a TV, but it's not a Mother's Day gift" would have been the right move here, but he needed to win the argument and have the last word.

My kid went upstairs rather than listen to this BS. I went up, too. I don't need this crap.

So... who is the asshole here?