u/Sigma_Siren

I thought I would take a blend of motivation and music for Monday. Let’s start the week off on a good note. 🎵

From the 80smovies community on Reddit: Carrie Fisher-Return of the Jedi, 1983

I’ve been wondering how many demisexual people also identify as sapiosexual.

For me, attraction starts with connection, but it’s not only emotional connection. Intellectual connection plays a huge role too. A great conversation can be more attractive to me than physical appearance ever could be.

One thing I’ve noticed is that it’s surprisingly difficult to find people who enjoy going deep. I can usually find those conversations in niche communities, networking events, or specific Reddit subs where people are gathered around shared interests. In everyday life, though, it feels much harder.

Sometimes I feel like I’m walking around craving meaningful conversations while most interactions stay at the surface level. I know there are plenty of thoughtful people out there, but finding them in the wild can be challenging.

Does anyone else here experience this? Do you consider yourself both demisexual and sapiosexual, or do you see those as completely separate things?