How old is Phaedra in the Hippolytus play? And how much does this matter?

I read someone’s opinion online that despite the shame and social expectations of the time—given that brides were often younger than their husbands, it’s possible that Phaedra is ironically closer to Hippolytus’ age (and thus maturity and psychology I guess?) than her actual husband’s.
Are there any details to confirm or deny that?

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u/Silly_Rip_4115 — 1 month ago

Which god is best to work through mental health with?

Hi, I’m interested in worshipping/offering/praying to a god for mental health issues. The goal is eventually professional therapy, to be clear/safe, but right now I want some spiritual help and strength for working on myself. Major TW for mental health and trauma-related things included but not limited to:SA, misogyny, identity issues.
I’m a woman who has dealt with misogyny, sexual related violence, grooming and humiliation and abuse. Also religious trauma from being a Christian household (which was also an alt-right household but let me not get into that. ) I have internalized sexism I need to work through and huge self esteem issues, tbh. I love and care about women’s rights, however.
I also want to be married some day but I have a lot of relationship trauma and have a hard time not fearing/t men. This has lead to chronic emptiness and I feel like I lack an identity. I just think I’m missing something that keeps me from being a “whole” person. Related or not, I have a need for validation and desperately wish to have a loving partner anyway. So when things aren’t going well, I feel severe abandonment and anxiety and anger issues. I feel like I spiral and can’t control myself. Break ups and getting ditched have led to suicide attempts. I’m sorry this is a lot. I just want some courage and a little spirit team for support while I do the heavy lifting and face my metaphorical demons. Thank you for your time!

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u/Silly_Rip_4115 — 2 months ago

Is Madame Kaji really sex-positive about unusual kinks, or is that rhetoric reserved for customers?

Because her other speech to Akemi about how men are secretly weak and beastly and use women to feel stronger feels anti-kink but idk. I’d like to understand her philosophy better.

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u/Silly_Rip_4115 — 2 months ago

[Art by Silly_Rip_4115] I made a Greco-Roman demigod OC and idk which parent to give her

She’s inspired by figures like Sappho and Vibia Sabina. She’s a lesbian and she’s a poet, philosopher, and probably involved in religion. Her role is the mentor/lover to another OC of mine. I definitely want to make her half sea god or titan, but I haven’t settled on a figure.

u/Silly_Rip_4115 — 3 months ago

It feels off but I can’t really explain why (TV tropes on Hera)

I guess this is more of an opinion or philosophical discussion, but I’d be curious to hear takes.

u/Silly_Rip_4115 — 3 months ago

It’s very strange that in pop culture, Thetis is portrayed as….

So comparatively to the ancient myths, Thetis is portrayed as very motherly, soft, in a positive light as far I understand. She’s the grieving and protective mother of Achilles, who she is doomed to lose him before he’s even born because she’s immortal and he’s a demigod. There’s also themes about women’s places in society and consent and all that, given she was forced into a marriage and had to have a baby with Peleus against her will, if I remember correctly.

….so why is it, that across three different portrayals, different decades and different mediums, she’s portrayed so vindictively and without nuance or empathy? In SOA she’s aggressive and cold hearted to Patroclus, which has apparently caused people’s perception of Thetis to be very skewed and strange.

In clash of the titans, she’s very much a villain and an obstacle for plot, I guess. Idk, it was a fun little 80s bop movie but it feels kinda random that she’s in Perseus’s story making problems.

Lastly in LO, she’s a mean girl. She cheats with Zeus, humiliates Hera (something she doesn’t do in the OG stories) she sabotages other girls and nymphs for pettiness, it’s implied she’s an abusive mother to Achilles. Just very cold and strange.

u/Silly_Rip_4115 — 3 months ago

Confusion about the Minoans

Ok I’m sorry if this is stupid or basic question but—where did the Minoans end and begin? I noticed Minoan clothing and artistic expressions get shown in people’s depictions of the Bronze Age, but when I search if the Minoans ARE Greeks, it says they’re an older culture separate and distinct from the Greeks. For example, I’ll hear something like “X myth is actually not Greek, it’s Minoan. “
I searched if the Minoans worshipped Greek gods and one of the top answers was yes, then again one said they had their own gods but are now mostly lost to time. It also said the Minoans were more so Matriarchal than the Greeks and Romans. So I’m confused. Asking for structure and clarification if anyone can help :)

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u/Silly_Rip_4115 — 3 months ago

Hera and Ganymede by Prince-benjy

Link to artist: https://www.deviantart.com/prince-benjy/art/Hera-and-Ganymede-561325730

Artist description:Now Hera utterly despises Ganymede more than the other mortals because not only is he male but Zeus granted him eternal youth and life, she will have to endure him for the whole of eternity. She treats him with cold indifference and generally ignores him, should she need something she has Hebe, or Iris not wanting to have to deal with any of Zeus’ retinue, she has a glimmer of sympathy for boy as his fate is actually quite said, to go from a prince to a cup bearer and never see his family again. However she shows non of that sympathy other than in her thoughts. Ganymede has had a crush on Hera since he first was abducted to Olympus, though he would never do anything about it, he always steals looks at her. Truly he feels very guilty about being on Olympus as Zeus’ play thing, he feels sorry that Hera must endure his company and even understands why she ignores him most of the time. He wishes to see her smile.

u/Silly_Rip_4115 — 4 months ago

Who were some of Zeus’s kids that Hera had a more positive relationship with?

We all know about the trials of Hercules (except at the end when he marries Hebe and things get good) but what about her positive or less bad relationships with Zeus’s kids? Hera has negative relationships with Artemis and Apollo, but I know she helped Perseus out a few times and didn’t mind him. I’ve HEARD she likes Hermes too but I’d love more info.

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u/Silly_Rip_4115 — 5 months ago

Some nights are stressful and you just gotta sit down with Ovid and some tea

I posted this from whimsy and relief. Don’t make me regret it pls rip.

u/Silly_Rip_4115 — 5 months ago