u/Single_Wonder9369

I've noticed a pattern in the people I end up developing feelings for (they're genuinely very few). And my conclusion is that what I like is a co-mapper and co-creator of narratives... someone who makes the 4D world feel like a real place we can both inhabit. Why? because it makes life feel cinematic. It turns it into a masterpiece of metaphors and intellectual play... It feels like a story we are writing together. I need my creativity and emotions engaged at the same time... someone who treats a conversation like a blank canvas they can paint on with me. And we can both pick up the "brush" to paint these wild, dark, alien landscapes together. Someone who's willing to go on those "expeditions" with me, someone who can "think in shapes" that don't exist in the physical world... because when a relationship feels 4D, it means it transcends the boring, 3D dinner and a movie reality.

I've noticed a pattern in the people I end up developing feelings for (they're genuinely very few). And my conclusion is that what I like is a co-mapper and co-creator of narratives... someone who makes the 4D world feel like a real place we can both inhabit. Why? because it makes life feel cinematic. It turns it into a masterpiece of metaphors and intellectual play... It feels like a story we are writing together. I need my creativity and emotions engaged at the same time... someone who treats a conversation like a blank canvas they can paint on with me. And we can both pick up the "brush" to paint these wild, dark, alien landscapes together. Someone who's willing to go on those "expeditions" with me, someone who can "think in shapes" that don't exist in the physical world... because when a relationship feels 4D, it means it transcends the boring, 3D dinner and a movie reality.

I've noticed a pattern in the people I end up developing feelings for (they're genuinely very few). And my conclusion is that what I like is a co-mapper and co-creator of narratives... someone who makes the 4D world feel like a real place we can both inhabit. Why? because it makes life feel cinematic. It turns it into a masterpiece of metaphors and intellectual play... It feels like a story we are writing together. I need my creativity and emotions engaged at the same time... someone who treats a conversation like a blank canvas they can paint on with me. And we can both pick up the "brush" to paint these wild, dark, alien landscapes together. Someone who's willing to go on those "expeditions" with me, someone who can "think in shapes" that don't exist in the physical world... because when a relationship feels 4D, it means it transcends the boring, 3D dinner and a movie reality.

I genuinely don't understand women who enjoy it and I'm a woman too. From what I've read, it seems like it's mostly psychological and it's sad women have to psych themselves into it to benefit men.