u/Skander_Chouba

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So I have feelings for my girl best friend. We've talked daily for hours for three years now. Last September, I told her I felt like we could be more than friends in the future, and she said no.

These days, she's told me more than once that I lack the ability to initiate. After asking for more details, she said that I lack the ability to talk to a girl to make a relationship official, meaning, asking her to be in an exclusive relationship. She also said that I'm "husband material" and many girls want to be with me.

I get many mixed signals from her.

For more context i live in germany and she lives in tunisia and when i go back to tunisia we meet 5 times a week. We're both from tunisia.

what do you think of my situation?

So I have feelings for my girl best friend. We've talked daily for hours for three years now. Last September, I told her I felt like we could be more than friends in the future, and she said no.

These days, she's told me more than once that I lack the ability to initiate. After asking for more details, she said that I lack the ability to talk to a girl to make a relationship official, meaning, asking her to be in an exclusive relationship. She also said that I'm "husband material" and many girls want to be with me.

I get many mixed signals from her.

So my question is: How do I initiate in general? And how do I initiate with a girl who rejected me nine months ago? Is it a good idea to do it?

So I have feelings for my girl best friend. We've talked daily for hours for three years now. Last September, I told her I felt like we could be more than friends in the future, and she said no.

These days, she's told me more than once that I lack the ability to initiate. After asking for more details, she said that I lack the ability to talk to a girl to make a relationship official, meaning, asking her to be in an exclusive relationship. She also said that I'm "husband material" and many girls want to be with me.

I get many mixed signals from her.

So my question is: How do I initiate in general? And how do I initiate with a girl who rejected me nine months ago? Is it a good idea to do it?