u/Small_Adeptness6467

So. My parents started looking for a rishta a year ago. Till now they have tried every means, from friends to relatives to marriage bureaus but failed to find a suitable match. Now I am getting a feeling that they are gonna ask me to look myself. Though I had installed muzz earlier, got few likes also but most of them were way older than me. I am 27

Is there anyone whose parents allowed to find rishta after failing themselves?

To be honest I always wanted to do love marriage but you know there are very few girls from our community in higher education, so never got a chance. I hate this arranged marriage setup, it's more like a business deal and less about the connection between two people. If I get a chance, I would be trying my luck definitely with someone who wants to be childfree

I would like to live separately for privacy. When I told this to my sister, she also supported this decision. How many of you want to live separately? Sometimes I think it's less frustrating, the less the interference and more the independence, the better the relationships.

One of the biggest mistakes we make as a man is looking for a benevolent partner. Someone who will recognise our love for them and benevolently accept it.

But the reality is, nobody will be benevolent towards you unless they have their own self interest in being with you. If they are sticking around you, its not because they are benevolent. Its because you offer a value absence of which will make life exceedingly difficult for them. Once you realise that, you will realise its not love, but trade.

If you don't offer anything which serves the other side's self interest, you will be dumped soon. Saints are benevolent. God is benevolent. Nobody else is. People who become successful by their hardwork (not someone who inherited) really stop chasing love and have accepted the reality?

I am 27, decently successful, earning well and lately this thought came across my mind and wanted to ask if anyone thinks like that.

Also in Indian society where arranged marriages are prevalent, don't you think that such marriages are just a trade deal?

For me, I won't get the urge for intimacy with anyone if I am not emotionally attached to that person. I am not married yet, I am 27 but I still think that without it, there would be no fun and after the act there will be emptiness.

Also, I am curious how people are satisfying their needs by going to a brothel. We all know how girls are brought there and what conditions they are living in. Some are kidnapped, some are sold and what not and even after knowing all this, how are some men able to enjoy this? Same is the case with hookups but in hookup there is consent of the other party but still in both the cases there is no emotional attachment.

How are people enjoying it then?

Salam. I am M27. Since I am looking for a match I want to ask which option is the best amongst them? I have already talked to relatives but got no response. So I am looking for other avenues as well. Please guide

Hello everyone, I want to change the DRL color of my car. Where can I get it done in indore? Also how much cost?

Hello, I am M27, coming from a well settled business family, from the past one year we have been looking for rishta through relatives and friends but got no success. If anyone in this group knows about whatsapp matrimonial groups, please do let me know. It would be of great help

I am from Indore and matrimony groups from Indore/bhopal are preferred

Hello everyone, I made my profile on shaadi.com. After that their representative called me and said that we have some profiles that are interested in you and if you want to talk to them, you have to purchase a subscription. We purchased 3 months for 1500 Rs and then their representative called me and said the other party will call you at 7PM but I got no call. Am I being scammed?